1. Don't listen to your "friends and family", they will only make you an "ordinary person".
2. Don't just "study hard", it's important to "read the right books".
3. Don't just "work hard", the important thing is to "do the right work".
4. Don't just make friends with "like-minded" people, or you'll only ever see "half" of the world.
5. Don't just "rest on your laurels" and wait for promotion, like playing checkers to find a way to "get to the top".
6. Don't just "ready to wait for the opportunity", take the initiative to "create opportunities" to get ahead of the game.
7. Do not think that "money will not fall from the sky", just you must "stand in the right place" to receive.
8. Do not only "positive thinking", to "reverse thinking", "abnormal" talent to excel.
Getting along with the boss, no matter what kind of character of the boss, must do the following points: 1. Less talk, more work. 2. 2. To let him fully trust you, this full trust is built on the basis of full communication. The purpose is that you want to understand him, but also to let him fully understand you! 3. When your boss expresses a different opinion from yours, you have to listen carefully. 4. Dress appropriately 5. female employees try not to boss (male boss. Female employees try not to wear makeup in front of their bosses (male bosses, female bosses). 6. When you want to praise the beauty of female bosses over 30, please use the word "temperament". When you want to flatter your male boss. Please say to him: working under you, I have learned a lot about how to deal with people in the world. I would like to have more opportunities like this. 7. Whatever you do, you need to report on it. It's best to write a short, concise report. If this is not convenient, you can report in other ways. But remember: written is better than oral. Interviews are better than phone calls, and always remember what to report first and what to report second. You also need to make it clear that you have done what the leader asked for, what tasks have been accomplished and so on. 8. Utilize your supervisor as a resource. No matter what the situation, do not offend your boss. Unless you've already moved on to a higher position. Remember that. Because your supervisor has experience and relationships that you can utilize. (Note: If you think he doesn't know as much as you do about something. Please don't forget why he is the leader and you are just his subordinate. So you must be modest.) 9. When you think that one of your ideas is more mature, please take a kind of you think the most euphemistic way to explain your ideas to him. Try to make him support you. 10. In any case, even if your opinion is adopted by the boss, you must not go around shouting that these were your ideas. Remember that all ideas are ultimately decisions of your boss, and are issued in his name. So, you've actually accomplished your goal. Don't be angry about it. Otherwise, even the person you are complaining to will disdain you. 11. Never treat your boss as your real friend. Remember, at work you need a leader, never a real confidant once you really deal with the relationship with the boss, you will feel more like partners and not like subordinates. As a partner, your boss will entrust you with more tasks, so that you have a broader space for development.
9. In the subordinates want to have good communication with their supervisors, and have a good relationship with their supervisors. My suggestion 1, "respect, mostly when the boss will pay more attention to the subordinate's attitude towards their own, subordinates do this bosses are generally more satisfied. In the specific work. Pay attention to their own position, in place not to add to the chaos. 2" think differently. When things stand in each other's position thinking, so the effect is good. Although it is difficult to do, but must do so. Must stand in each other's point of view, so the subordinate boss like. 3 "try to help. The boss will sometimes encounter problems, sometimes accidentally will help, do not take too much into account the views of others, do more good. 4 "strong themselves, this is the most important, the iron should be their own hard, their own ability to get along with people will have some power. The boss generally like subordinates can do, the boss wants to help you, there will be more opportunities. 5 "obey. When their own views are negated by the boss, subordinates obey superiors, this is the rule, the heart is not comfortable to do so, I believe that the right is right, will one day make it clear. 6 "hard work and dedication. An employee who can be diligent and dedicated, work hard, do more work and talk less. The boss will love it. Do the above six points, generally get along well with the boss, all can have good communication with the boss.
The stock market don't think so, I'm also a specialist, now in Wuhan, this side of the junior, will soon graduate, but I found a problem, I think now the ability of the specialist in the community than many undergraduates, you can think about it, you can think about, you are surrounded by a lot of specialists with the same as you are still a lot of, you are a starting line. To be practical in the future, now we have to enrich, the first is to enrich the self-confidence, must have the determination; the second enrichment of knowledge, must learn the professional knowledge, I interned in the TV station, I think this social ability is the first thing, of course, we must strive to have the ability to show the qualification; the third is to upgrade the level of education, in fact, some people say that the education is not a big deal, but it's a threshold; not even the threshold can't get into the door, let alone the seat, so think about it. Needless to say into the seat, so think of ways to be able to improve the level of education.
If a specialist graduated, to the community to put in the effort, more sweat, and then improve their status, I have a cousin, is a book graduate, now in the Trinity Heavy Industries enterprises, more than three thousand dollars a month; I have a friend, a girl high school to read half of the part-time job in Jiangsu, a month is more than 3,000 dollars, just compared to be tired. If now on the fall, unless your family is very rich, very status, or later you will only be cleaning for others, in fact, many people in this society, quite discriminatory against specialists, especially to go to a unit, it is very obvious that the specialists are not a heavenly down to the height of the same, but at this time, to give you a sentence "walk their own way, so that other people say to go. " This road is the road to success, not the road to degradation.
In society, many recruiters still value specialists, specialists in fact, "specialized education", undergraduates are "generalist education", but now the education is not called education, began to call the money! So you must learn the practical skills to learn well, especially some important operational expertise, on this basis, more out to break into see what others need, and what they have.
Now, I still have half a year to graduate, this year will enlist in the army, because this is their own ideals since childhood, and then try to take the military school. I hope that what I said is a little useful to you, and early to fulfill their dreams!
In the middle, every mistake that others make because they are nervous is hard work to accumulate wealth for you.