However, we must face the fact that overall happiness does not mean that every child in every family is happy.
Well-off families provide children with a happy life and a happy childhood.
Well-off children have happy family conditions.
If you visit a family of three, you will be moved by this warm and happy atmosphere:
The spacious and bright room, LCD TV with large screen and super-good cartoons attracted children's attention deeply, and children seemed to answer more "why" through the beautiful world they saw.
In daily life, my mother is most worried. You open the wardrobe, which is full of brand-name clothes and brand-name socks and shoes; Look at the refrigerator, which is full of meat, eggs, milk, aquatic products, vegetables and fruits; The happiest thing is to celebrate the children's birthdays, eat delicious cakes, fill a big table, sing "Happy Birthday to you" and wait for the children to gently blow out the candles one by one.
I used to ride my children to and from school. Twenty years ago, a few people drove; Now, most people drive, and sending their children to school is their first duty; At the same time, it not only facilitates children's holiday travel, but also increases the joy of the family.
Come to the small world of children's room, computers, tablets and mobile phones are all available. Parents have installed an exchange network for their children to improve their learning ability and broaden their thinking and horizons.
On weekends, parents take their children to play ball games, fly kites, visit parks and watch exhibitions; Parents take their children out to travel during the small holiday, which increases their knowledge and enriches their experience.
A happy family is very important, that is, family harmony, warmth and harmony. Parents care more about their children, communicate with them more, study together and discuss problems together, so that children can enjoy the warmth of their families.
What is your happiest thing when you ask about children? He will be very happy to say that children make me happiest and friends make me happiest! Yes, from kindergarten to primary school and middle school, children have made many friends. They enhanced their friendship by studying, playing games, playing football, playing hide-and-seek and playing "practical jokes", which is their eternal happiness.
When you visit this family of three, you will feel that the children living in a well-off family are really warm and happy.
However, under the same well-off family conditions, some children are not only unhappy, but also like a small tree, lacking sunshine, water and fertilizer, withering and dying prematurely, which makes every parent feel sad and every educator feel confused.
There are profound social reasons why some children can't get happiness under the well-off family conditions.
I don't know if my friends are willing to accept it, but the facts warn us that tens of thousands of teenagers commit suicide every year in our country, which is by no means sensational!
The reason is: In recent years, the mental illness of teenagers is on the rise.
Due to excessive study pressure, lagging school education methods, weak family ties and lack of communication with children, some teenagers have anxiety and depression, resulting in negative, hypochondriac and inferiority complex. They are impulsive, irritable, self-destructive and prone to extreme events.
For thousands of years, the concept of "expecting children to succeed" and "expecting daughters to succeed" in family education is deeply rooted. Some parents think that you are "finished" if you are not excellent. They buy school districts at high prices, arrange children to participate in various interest classes, cram schools, participate in mathematics and Olympics competitions, sprint the college entrance examination, repeat and retake exams ... This poses great pressure on students, and the college entrance examination in June every year has become a high psychological threshold for children.
Under great pressure, children have endured the hardships of life since childhood, and their grades have dropped or they have failed in the college entrance examination. Some students have psychological breakdown, and are prone to extreme behaviors, even committing suicide and jumping off buildings, resulting in family tragedies.
Children come into this world, not only as a member of the family, but also as a member of society. Parents and teachers should care about students; Parents should adjust their desire to cultivate their children's goals, remove this "boulder" on their children, and reduce their learning pressure; build
Establish a warm and happy family relationship; Communicate effectively with children; Arrange children to participate in cultural and sports activities; Popularize mental health knowledge, improve children's ability to resist stress, let children live in this world healthily, and give them a warmth and happiness.
Good morning, friend! It is human instinct and desire to enjoy a happy life. Are children happy under the family conditions of well-off life? What do you think of this interesting topic? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to communicate with you.
What is the definition of happiness?
I think as long as the family style is good, parents are active and harmonious, and the influence on children is optimistic, that is, happiness. Happiness cannot be determined by money alone, but it is impossible without money, so happiness depends on what kind of atmosphere you create for your children.
Children from well-off families will certainly be happy, because they grew up in a good living environment.
Must be happy! Material dissatisfaction will not make you feel inferior! The body will get better food and develop better! Because the environment is good, the intelligence develops better!