You and your lover must be active atmosphere, after all, the two families met for the first time, may be more introverted character so embarrassed to speak first. This time you and your lover is the best lubricant, the scene hot up.
It is undeniable that marriage is a matter of two families, you need to know everything about each other so that you can rest assured that the "Pearl Dragon" to hand over. It also lays the groundwork for a long-lasting in-law relationship, unless you're not going to see each other again. This is in fact the most important and urgent reason, because the progress to both parents meet is not far from the license to do the wedding. Like the caravan who pay, dowry bride price how much, wedding number, wedding banquet where to do, gift how to share ...... although very material reality, but this is the most concerned about the problem.
You can specifically talk about your mom and dad's hobbies, and then let your girlfriend pick up the conversation and say her mom and dad's hobbies, the topic began ah. For example, "square dancing". Who does not have a little spare time it, maybe your parents like-minded, this meal after the group singing K, square dancing, about a hiking it? A piece of peaceful atmosphere so come. For example: "Eh, this dish is good and I do the same thing, XX mom some day to come to our home to taste my handiwork ...... I love to study to do these dishes ...... ".
You can also talk about the house and car problems, after all, life is also very real ah, want to avoid can not be avoided. The purchase of a new house, decoration issues, buy or not to buy a car to buy what car, how the money to come out ...... you can not get the idea of the big problem, let the elders to negotiate it. According to the economic conditions of both sides to talk, do not force themselves and do not make it difficult for each other. The most important thing to remember is that you have to be able to get a good deal of money from your family, so you should be able to get a good deal of money from your family.
Parents want their children to do well. As an old man, I'm sure there are many lessons to be learned about how to live together in a marriage. The four parents, who share the same love for their children, may want to swim together in the world of "sermons".