I have come to the realization that human beings are group animals, and it is right to follow the path of collectivism, while emphasizing the individual and pursuing libertarianism is a self-defeating path.
In connection with this, I think: human beings are a population, the human race has a long history, the reproduction of a large number of widely distributed ethnic groups is the most suitable for survival of the best, so the Chinese people are the best.
For the sake of racial reproduction and development, the Chinese people skillfully put forward a concept: Hundred goodness filial piety is the first, unfilial three, no after for the great . This concept ensures that the Chinese children will continue to thrive and grow. This concept is the greatest contribution to humanity.
So, in his 50s, the most important thing to think about is to hold the grandchildren, the most willing to do is to dance with everyone, the group of old age.
People around 50 years old have already experienced half a life of storms, see through life, see life. Already to the age of just want to do without seeking its results, should have realized a little philosophy of life:
Everything is open-minded, frank face. Around 50 years of age on the surface of the people into a hot and steady, spoiled, in fact, is to pretend to be relaxed, forced to smile, on the parents, children, work and career pressure convergence into a not easy to overcome the hurdles. There is no grinding, no trouble life that is not called life, I believe that after the storm there will always be a rainbow.
Everything should be done according to the heart not against the heart. If the employee is early from the statutory retirement age, you have to continue to pay the social security. There is a job can rest easy, is laid off and unemployed people, the face of social security costs to be paid, as well as a family's life, suffering; if the farmers are even more bitter and happy, although there is a land to do the cards, who do not know that the line of outsiders do not know that it can not earn money, but just to maintain a way of life. Children older, and to marry, "high bride price" is coming, but also have to work hard to earn money. Their hearts are bitter, but their feelings and spirits must be happy. The only thing that you need to do is to work hard, and you'll be able to do it with a clear conscience.
Let your children do their own thing. The parents are living for their children, and their children's health and growth is their greatest joy. 50 years old or so, their children should be more than 20 years old, and they are the rural ones who have already started their own families. Regardless of how many books, engaged in what kind of occupation, they already have their own way of thinking, as parents should not interfere too much with their lives, disrupt their thinking, to know that they are adults, should let go and let them do it.
Look away and don't overdo it. Nearly 30 years of time with life and sweat in exchange for money, 30 years later will use money to buy life. The money is earned but not finished, can not be in 60 years after the suffering of the disease. Therefore, all things work hard to do, regardless of its results. If you are in a position to go on a trip, you can do it; if you are not in a position to do it, you should not be too hard on yourself, and it may be the best choice for you to be your children's spiritual supporter.
People around 50 years old should take care of their health in the golden age of life, and face all kinds of trials of life with ease and smiles. After all, health is the key, alive is the hard way.
Q. What philosophy of life have you realized at the age of 50?
A, I'm getting older, into the ranks of the elderly. In retrospect, I feel a lot of feelings, in-depth combing, summarize a number of, screen a few, to the netizens to offer ugly.
I realized that the first philosophy of life is: you only into the difficult, you can get out of the difficult. Life is not as good as eight or nine, difficult things often happen. In the face of difficulties, if you escape, difficulties will become more difficult, small difficulties will drag into big difficulties. You only face the difficulties, face up to the difficulties, meet the difficulties on, bravely into the difficulties, you can overcome the difficulties.
The second philosophy of life that I realized is that all your encounters can find a reason to be thankful. When I touched my hand while cutting vegetables, thank God I didn't chop off one of my fingers. When I accidentally get a nail in the sole of my foot on the road, thank God I didn't get it in my eye. When a traffic accident takes the life of a loved one, thank God that it didn't take the lives of more loved ones. Disasters, like happiness, are more than enough. Don't pursue what can't be changed, but focus on what can be changed. We have to learn to pretend to be optimistic, pretend for a long time, we will become really optimistic, laughing out of the tears and crying out of the tears are the same composition.
The third philosophy of life that I have realized is that there is no such thing as early warning, no such thing as early knowledge. My son and I drive out always have to argue, I fear cause, love to accuse him of not strict rules. My son is afraid of the consequences and always thinks that nothing has happened, so why nag? I think it will be too late if something really happens! There is no medicine for regrets in the world. Our life is only about results, not about what ifs. Red dust is dangerous, you do not do things, sometimes things will come to catch you, so, life in the world, no matter when and what, can not be too conceited, there must be fear, the cost of loss must be higher than the cost of prevention, once the accident is too late. If I had known it would come to this, I wouldn't have had to do it in the first place. "If I had known this ......" this sentence, is nonsense in the nonsense, not the slightest effect.
I realized the fourth philosophy of life is: toward the path of the greatest resistance. Often, the more we want to say something, it happens to be the last thing we should say. The things we are most reluctant to do are often the things we should do the most. True freedom can only come from self-awareness and self-discipline. The most afraid of things most should go to break through, China **** production party can have today, is from the snow mountain grassland climbed out. Big things are this truth, small things are also this truth. In life, it is our own fear of difficulties, blocking our pursuit of happiness on the road of life.
The fifth philosophy of life that I have realized is that solving problems with emotions only increases the difficulty of solving them. Before dealing with any problem, first deal with the mood. Any phenomenon that is angry is a phenomenon that is distorted by the truth. Do not get the mood smooth, anything else can not be smooth. The melon that is twisted is not sweet, and the fruit that is hard to pick is too astringent. Collecting my 60 years of life experience, never get close to the people who dislike you, because, if you are nice to them, they won't give you a good mood. If you don't have a good mood, not only will you accomplish nothing, but you will most likely turn a good thing into a bad thing.
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