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Tricks for daughter-in-law to please her mother-in-law A, filial piety and respect for your mother-in-law is due Although your mother-in-law did not raise you, but she raised your husband, so since you love your husband, you have to understand the son's feelings towards his mother, you have to respect his mother with him, you also have parents, if your husband and your parents backtalked and disregarded, will you be happy? So give your mother-in-law more smiles and talk to her more. If you are nice to his mom, he will naturally be nice to yours. In my opinion, the main character in the book, Lijuan, is actually a very sad character. She is very nice, but her mouth is too unforgiving and argumentative, which makes Pingya's mom uncomfortable to listen to, and Pingya will feel that she doesn't respect his parents enough.　 Second, don't be overly affectionate with your husband in front of your mother-in-law I read this advice to daughters-in-law a long time ago. Although you think you are used to this way of communication, but after all, the elderly is the elderly, they have traditional thinking, it is like in front of outsiders, and husband overly intimate is also a kind of disrespect to others, you say, this is your home, you would like to do what you want, it is true, but the family lived in the elderly, this aspect should still be aware of. Most of the mother-in-law from the old society, thinking, living, habits sometimes inevitably with some traces of the old. Daughter-in-law thinking newer, often not easy to understand the habits of the mother-in-law, so some of the actions, often caused by the mother-in-law's resentment, thus causing the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law disagreement. So, just to accommodate the accommodation.　 Third, the time to take care of the husband's emotions when it comes to the in-laws of things, especially money problems, you always have to give your husband advice, but must take into account his emotions, speech must have skills, although you heart ten thousand reluctant, but also do not say directly, you have to politely reason with your husband, let her know that you are willing to help but for some reason can not help, and to be more comforting words and then make plans. More words of comfort and then advice.　However, there is no way for you to take charge of some money, for example, if your father-in-law is sick, even if you don't give him money, he will have to go around to get money for his father's treatment. So since you can not escape, it would be better to take the money simply point, and show a very willing to look, by you to hand over to the mother-in-law, so that not only to please the mother-in-law, the husband and satisfied, and in the future can also be more for you to consider. But here I want to remind the daughters-in-law: filial piety to the in-laws should be, not filial piety will make people laugh, along with filial piety what seven aunts and aunts unless it is a lot of money.　According to the survey, most families are now the daughter-in-law "ruling", and thus in resolving conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law has the primary responsibility. Do daughter-in-law should pay attention to respect, care for the mother-in-law, more and the old man to discuss matters, try to do "economic openness", and regularly or irregularly to the mother-in-law some pocket money. Every season, or mother-in-law's birthday, to remember to prepare some gifts for her mother-in-law. Usually the daughter-in-law to their mother to send food, with the best at the same time to prepare a mother-in-law.　 Fourth, mother-in-law in the time do not make the husband This is actually very easy to understand, think of it from another angle, if your parents come to live at home, your husband constantly make you do this and that, your parents mood is how? They will think that their daughters are not easy to live at home, and they are tired. Especially in this kind of Chinese society, there is still a male superiority society, mother-in-law watching you nothing to make your husband will not be happy, the son at home can not make the main, actually by a woman to make, who will not have a resistance to it? Leave your mother-in-law line of sight, you love how to make call can, just do not let her see.　 Five, more caring considerate mother-in-law's daily life Whether you are false or false, the surface of the work must be done, so that your husband will also let you look at you in a different way. When you buy something for your mom, think of buying one for your mother-in-law. Observe her 'daily life' more carefully, is it hot or cold? What does she want to eat? What do you want to do? Take time to fulfill her wishes. Unless she is sick, otherwise she can not spend you a few money, most of the mother-in-law love son even love over their own lives, she also wants you to live a happy life, will not spend a lot of your money, she is old and lonely, you a little bit of care will let her in the heart.　To take care of the physical and psychological characteristics of the elderly, often do some of the mother-in-law love to eat food, family dinner table, pay attention to the first good food to the mother-in-law, can not just focus on their own children and husband.　 Six, stay a little time to listen to her nagging Many daughters-in-law treat their mothers-in-law in a way that is respectful and far away, can not afford to hide. But for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living under the same roof, to hide is absolutely unable to hide. Then simply cross your heart, nothing to coax her, the elderly, like someone to chat with her, have time to listen to her say a few words. She loves to nag, let her nag, nothing more than the son of that thing.　Speaking of raising a son is not easy, the process of growth of the son, while listening to the side of the voice echoed a couple of sentences: "Mom, you're really not easy, ah, must be a good filial piety to you." What is there to be afraid of? It's just a waste of a few words. Do not do is secondary, said to pour mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is a must, you want her to feel that you and she is a family, she has you, is more daughter, rather than robbing her son's woman.　 Seven, live together more or less contradictions Before your mother-in-law came to your home, you'd better reach **** knowledge with your husband first. Did not live with her mother-in-law before, many daughters-in-law feel that her mother-in-law is still good, but live together but contradictory. First of all, we should know that living together is impossible to live without conflict, even with their own mother to live together sometimes there will be unhappy times, let alone the mother-in-law?　However, there are some principle things, such as: you do not have the means to get up early, you do not have the means to do housework every day, you and your husband do not have the concept of male superiority and female inferiority, etc., please you'd better communicate with your husband before your mother-in-law arrives, so that he can talk about the situation with your mother-in-law in advance. And if in the process of living together, there are some things that you really can't stand, then please don't put up with it, let your husband and your mother-in-law talk about it.　 Eight, the past let it pass In the life together, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will always have a small friction between the occurrence of an occasional unpleasant words, a thing that makes you unhappy, the past on the past, do not always remember in the heart. If your own mother said you, you must have forgotten in two days. To some extent, the mother-in-law are a little bit of parental flavor, may sometimes love to educate you, willing to listen to a couple of sentences, do not want to listen to as if you did not hear, and then the big bad and she discursive reasoning.　After the discernment is just, and gas or a family, set a cold face is never a good way, your husband difficult not to mention, mother-in-law also think you do not understand, you are still angry in your own heart, not a matter of principle, do not be too catty. Of course, I would like to remind is that can not let in-laws live in is the best, because many conflicts are occurring in the small things in life, if there is no way must live in, then we have to be prepared for the heart, not only from their own mood.　Daughter-in-law to please the mother-in-law tricks 2 Daughter-in-law to please the mother-in-law tricks The first move, sweet mouth Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law to stay together, mouth to sweet, try to say good things, such as "jumping square dance field is quite powerful, mother-in-law good ah, etc.", that not only can bring her mother-in-law to keep up with the trend, but also can make her mother-in-law happy, two birds with one stone, what is not to do?　 The second move, gifts In the end, the mother-in-law is a woman, but also for people daughter-in-law, women why difficult for women, right! For the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with each other, which the mood and the situation she actually knows best. For people who have had a similar experience, as long as they are moved by love and reasoning, they can be turned into peace. But moving in addition to sweet-talking, but also know how to send gifts to sensitize the mother-in-law, so it is very important to send the right gift.　 The third move, smile "a laugh away" and mother-in-law harmony, no matter what she said, do not contradict it, mother-in-law said, although sometimes too blunt some, but are practical, smart daughter-in-law to give appropriate understanding. This "laugh it off" attitude, quite to the temper of the mother-in-law.　 The fourth move, pampering pampering should be a woman's strong ah, such as their parents behind the pampering, in the husband behind the pampering, of course, you can also be behind the mother-in-law pampering, of course, this pampering can not be less than in the back of the same mother Oh, because she is not your mother, as long as she thinks you are her daughter on the line, not to mention that pampering in fact is a show of weakness.　 The fifth move, cooking Every cook, the biggest reward is to eat people happy, and get compliments. So when your mother-in-law tasted your mother-in-law's cooking remember not to be stingy with your praise.　 The sixth move, the child When taking the child to take advantage of the holiday, to see the in-laws, into the house and remember to say to the elderly; the child old miss you two, all day to come to see you. This way the old man will feel gratified, will feel that the grandson understands, will also feel that the daughter-in-law is well taught. On the other hand, from an early age, children are trained to be filial. How to look at it is a good thing.　 The seventh move, concurring with the occasional mother-in-law published any views, or talk to your mother-in-law, and occasionally say "good", "is not it" to express a *** with the same views at the same time, but also closer to each other's feelings, but also the table on the mother-in-law's support.