Thirty years old, forty years old. 40 years old, an awkward and helpless age. It is the last branch of peach blossom in spring, twilight spring in March, fall Ying colorful; let a person fondness, let a person sigh.
Once the youth, has left us far away, face, physiology, body aspects in the 40-year-old will be a big change, so the 40-year-old we can no longer be like a youthful teenager as wantonly squandered their own body, their young, but to double the care of their own line, so that we can have a better state of mind to deal with the complicated affairs of life.
One, the man forty, if still nothing, it is really difficult to become.
Once in the school to receive more than ten years of education, and then twenty years of social refinement, if they did not make a name for themselves, then do not be too difficult.
However, not everyone can make a move to, no interest has no interest in the way of life; put down the goal, leveling the mind, will smoke two, will drink two cups of alcohol, the day also can go on, think too much, you tired, your loved ones around you also followed you tired, stop a little bit is not necessarily not a good thing.
Two, men forty, do not like more than twenty years old, staring straight at the girls.
Forty-year-old man, don't do things when you're twenty years old, even if you heart waves, there is a hint of impulse, but also pay attention to the image of decent, people may be able to forgive the twenty-year-old you youthful recklessness, but will never forgive the forty-year-old you're in and out of order. Therefore, the forty-year-old man should know how to be impolite, do not lose manners and morals.
Three, man forty, if you still feel that life makes unhappy, it is estimated to take this unhappy to the coffin.
Man forty, and do not do your two, thirty-year-old fantasy, you carry a dream did not materialize, then continue to carry it, and it and your unhappy, your regrets together with the coffin to go. At this time, we should learn to be broad-minded, the size of the achievements do not go deep into, how much money do not care about, and do not need to care about your life there is no point of scenery can be recorded in the history books. A sea of people, a multitude of people, you come and go, can be proud of the world are lucky, which has the fate and fortune, do not gripe, do not let loose, more do not be cynical.
Fourth, the man forty, do not make his body miserable.
Many forty-year-old men early on sagging hips, belly bulge, which is not the image of the forty-year-old man should have. Squeeze out some time more exercise more activity it; playing ball, running, and then do not help to go to the square dance what can be on the physical and mental anti-aging play a very good role. At forty, I don't think you should be as 20 years old as the morning dream, dragging half a day not willing to get up, right?
Fifth, the man forty, more filial piety, parents can accompany your time is really not much.
No matter how big your career, how busy you are, you should take some time to eat with your parents, talk to them, and do your duty as a son or daughter, as well as create a family atmosphere of mutual love, give your children an example, and pass on the spirit.
Sixth, men forty, most have been a father, you have to have one or two wonderful stories and children to share it.
Men should have some stories, the story does not need to be shocking, and does not need to be noble and great, just to let your children know that they have a father who is not vulgar, flowing in the body of the unusual blood. This belief will play a vital role in their future lives.
Seven: When a man is forty, go to a few more funerals.
Man to forty, your life is also equal to half of the journey, in the middle may wish to visit the end of life can let you eliminate the next half of the life of the fear of the psychology of those who do a day monk hit the bell of the paralyzing psychology dispersed, looking at those who have gone through the end of the life of the deceased, you will be more grateful for the life, grateful for the life of gratitude, grateful for the gift of the years.
Eight, the man forty, should be away from the twenty-year-old girl, no matter whether she is Chu Chu moving, or she moths to the flame.
You have forty, and she is still in the peach blossom; you already know the fate of life, know right and wrong, and she is still immersed in the beautiful love longing. You are destined to be two parallel lines, how can there be a point of intersection? If you are truly happy, do not bring her a muddy, bumpy, thorny and difficult road.
Nine, man forty, to bear the burden of life, withstand the storm of life.
Man forty, again bitter and tired, but also to give his wife a bed of warm bedding, to give the children a sheltered harbor, to give the family a harmonious atmosphere.
Tenth, the man forty, even to forty, do not be afraid.
If you come across someone flirting with your age, you can justifiably say that I'm a real uncle, like a fake. If someone really dislike you old, you can say this: you cow what, not just young it? I've been young, but have you ever been old?