Nowadays, people, the idea of marriage or love, has really changed a lot, in marriage or love, the phenomenon of the man is bigger than the woman is mainstream. However, there are also non-mainstream ones. This article mentions the main characters, one is now 66 years old, the other is now 29 years old, they have a good feeling for each other and got married, nowadays, although they do not want to have children, but life is still very happy.
I, the two people know each other through.1, the two people background of the brief.The old lady was 65 years old, over the age of one, is an ordinary rural craftsmen, usually do some crafts to maintain life. Life is not very rich, but the aunt is very diligent, cheerful and kind.
The hero's name is Pillar, also from the countryside,when he was 28 years old, he worked in a factory, and his family's condition was very ordinary. He talked about a girlfriend, relatively young.
2. The two met.Auntie in the river walk, just met crying and want to lighten the column, because the aunt is very kind, so go up to persuade the young man, to see if you can, to save a young life.
At first, the young man was very resistant to the old lady, not willing to say a word, but, under the gentle comfort of the old lady, he finally relaxed his vigilance, and explained the reason for his light-heartedness.
Originally, the column and his girlfriend have been in love for many years, but because of the high bride price thing, his girlfriend decisively abandoned him, because of the family's general situation, for the bride price, he really does not have a little way, coupled with his girlfriend's dislike and cynicism, he had the idea of light life.
The aunt learned the reason and expressed great sympathy. The old lady has a lot of life experience, and she can talk a lot, so, under her patience, Pillar slowly dispelled the idea of lightening his life.
3, the two people to the marriage hall.Perhaps this is fate! Auntie gave Zhu Zi warmth, in the most broken people, often easily impressed. Pillar thus developed a fondness for Big Mother. So, Pillar came to talk to Big Mother often and frequently. At first, Auntie didn't think anything else of it, and purely assumed that the young man was coming to her because he was grateful.
Later, Pillar confessed his love for Big Mom. After the two of them had been in contact for some time, although Big Mother thought highly of the young man, she did not accept Pillar's confession,Big Mother at first, because the age difference was just too great to be together.
But, the columns will not stop to the big mom to do ideological work, and launched a fierce pursuit, and finally the work of the people, A big mom finally agreed, the two so on the marriage hall.
After the marriage, the two people, life is still very happy. Big Mother, who is older than Zhu Zi, naturally thinks about more things than Zhu Zi, so she was worried that Zhu Zi would be lonely in the future, so she wanted to give Zhu Zi a child to accompany Zhu Zi.
So they went to consult about IVF, and the aunt told Zhu Zi about it, and Zhu Zi strongly disagreed, because the aunt's age is not suitable for having a child,and Zhu Zi said: the child is not the key, as long as the two of them can live a happy life on the line.
They are now living in the gossip of others, but the feelings of the two people will not fade, but more care and love for each other. So, love is really not in any order, only what suits you is the best.
Two, the derivation of thinking: when love comes, do not give love on the age circle. 1, my classmates love experience.Of course, for the man in the situation, really want to a "brotherly love" also still need to be prepared for a certain thought. I used to have a friend called Jiang Hong, in college, his girlfriend is higher than his three classmates, he just entered the school, she is facing graduation.
But the two fell in love, and their feelings were so strong that even in such a relaxed and open environment as a university, Jiang Hong wasn't entirely free of pressure. The class had a hard time accepting this fact, but the others still couldn't help but point their fingers, and although they didn't mean any harm,but being labeled as a "first year and fourth year in love"was invariably a bit uncomfortable.
2. Personal feelings of classmates.Jiang Hong confessed: "I don't really know if I count myself as having some kind of complex, but I know that I like her very much, and there is no constraint with her,she is more accommodating and generous than all the girls of the same age as me, and understanding. In study and life can give me ideas, rather than like other girls in the class, although also very independent, but always have to rely on their boyfriends, do not know to sympathize with the immaturity of the boys."
3, classmate partner's point of view.When talking about Jiang Hong, Jiang Hong's girlfriend always has a sweet face. "He is very simple and decent, and caring, with many excellent virtues. These virtues are no longer easy to find in older men, as men are honed to be more mellow and selfish in their work."
She was a few years older than Jiang Hong, and could clearly appreciate the process of his psychological maturation, and therefore had a special concern and treasure for him. She herself, who has come step by step from being new to the world to being sophisticated and mature, knows that some values and attitudes towards life are very valuable in life and worth taking care of.
She believes that her sibling love with Jiang Hong is actually a mutual realization of two minds. The happiness that this sibling love brings to Jiang Hong is very strong. For example, enjoying happiness in thoughtfulness,in life, do not have to take ideas everywhere, but consult with each other, when there is a conflict, she will be more calm and so on.
Women are older while men are younger. In fact, there is nothing special, in Jiang Hong's words, love and marriage sometimes do not have premonition. As a man, when you need love, do not easily draw an age circle, that way, maybe you will miss a good marriage, a marriage you may regret all your life.