My grandfather, my grandfather said to my grandmother at 4 am: I'm leaving. Grandma scolded him: Where are you going before dawn? Grandpa said: the car will come to an end. ...
Grandma didn't think much, and grandpa didn't speak behind. It wasn't until my uncle arrived at grandpa's side at six o'clock that I found that grandpa had left, at the age of 80.
My grandfather was kind-hearted all his life, and life was hard when he was young. 16 years old, his parents died, and he brought home the bacon. The youngest brother was only 2 years old at that time, and his grandfather brought him up until his brother got married and had children.
Grandpa is also very capable. He didn't go to school for a day, but his business was very good, selling teapots and porcelain kilns. At that time, my grandfather's family had food stocks, and he was a rich boy in Zhuangzi. I heard from my mother that when I was a child, my grandfather took in a pair of begging mothers and children and stayed at my grandfather's house for several months. At that time, everyone starved to death. It would be nice if everyone had food. This may be one good turn deserves another. My grandfather left without suffering a little.
Our grandson likes my grandfather very much. I remember being a left-behind child when I was a child. My grandfather is over 70 years old and rides a tricycle. Every time I come back from the market and pass by my school, he sits on the side of the road and waits for me. At that time, he didn't have a mobile phone, so he would buy me some food and fruit to take home. Every time he takes something, he looks at the back of the bike with tears in his eyes and his parents are not around. He feels sorry for us. It's delicious.
My father's adolescence is a special era. After graduating from high school, I didn't have a chance to go to college, so I had to go home to farm and marry my mother who didn't know a word.
Because my father is a famous scholar at school and was chosen by the village to be a private teacher, in my memory, my father has always been a teacher and a farmer.
Teachers in rural private schools are all like this. After class, they went to farm in the fields.
Later, the college entrance examination was resumed, and my father envied those old high school students who could take the college entrance examination. But at that time, it was stipulated that high school students who had graduated before had to be unmarried if they wanted to take the college entrance examination. It's a pity that my father got married early and had a big sister at that time. Father can only keep this regret in his heart all his life.
Father teaches Chinese, loves reading, likes telling stories to children when he is free, and accompanies children when other men play cards, drink and smoke.
Father is a person who is sensitive to tenderness. Sometimes he reads us touching stories, and when he reads touching places, tears will fall.
He pays special attention to the cultivation of our children. At that time, other children went to work in the fields after school, and their father seldom let us work in the fields for a long time, no matter how busy he was. He always puts learning first. Even after finishing his homework, he will read extracurricular books and recite ancient poems under his father's arrangement.
Because the income from growing vegetables is far more than other crops, it is more troublesome and busy to grow vegetables.
In those years, my father built a thatched temple in the vegetable field, often sleeping in the field late at night, getting up early in the morning to work, and then rushing to school.
Because his father was teaching Chinese in primary schools at that time, and his literary level was solid, even if he was busy in other places, his teaching achievements would not be affected at all. He used the salary of private teachers to teach the first place in the town and was rated as an excellent teacher.
Seven days a week, from Monday to Friday, my mother rode a tricycle to the market to sell vegetables. On weekends, mom and dad go to different markets to sell vegetables in two ways.
Sometimes the vegetables are ripe and grow vigorously, and it is impossible for a person to go to the market to sell them all. My father will go to the market on the weekend morning, and when the market is over at noon, he will buy two baked wheat cakes in a hurry or eat the cold steamed bread brought in two mornings, and directly start selling it in the nearby village. I am often busy until sunset, and I don't get home.
Eat dinner in a hurry, take advantage of the moonlight, or use simple lights to illuminate, then go to the vegetable garden to pick vegetables and sell them tomorrow.
My father's greatest wish is to see that all our children can be admitted to an ideal university and escape from the peasant life facing the loess, and he has been doing his best to cultivate children. To this end, he gave up all amateur entertainment activities, except work, which is to accompany us.
I don't know where he saw this sentence, hit his heart, or his own exclamation of life. When I was young, I didn't feel much about this sentence
But my father said this sentence more than once, and it still left a deep impression on my teenager's heart.
Later, I was 16 years old and my father suffered from liver disease. My father almost lost his ability to work and spent a lot of money. The mood is greatly hit and I am tired of learning. I strongly urge to drop out of school. And despite the strong opposition of parents, he used his old bike to move all the tables and chairs home.
That time, my father was so mean to me for the first time. My mother and parents scolded me together and finally scolded me back to school. Under the extremely difficult economic conditions at home, my sisters and I were sent to college.
In my freshman year, my father's health went from bad to worse. But I am studying abroad, but I can't always accompany him and see him. Every time he writes or calls, he always says that he is fine.
I didn't know why I wanted to buy a gift for my father until I was ready to go home for a holiday before the Spring Festival. It can be said that/kloc-I haven't thought about giving my father a gift for 0/9 years, but that desire was particularly strong that time.
I thought of my father's old razor, which has not been replaced since I can remember. I decided to buy a new razor for my father. With the money I earned as a tutor.
I took my luggage back to the home I missed very much. The sight in front of me made my heart sink. My father is lying in bed with an inch-long beard. His mouth was covered with herpes and his face was gaunt because of his fever. I haven't seen him for six months. As soon as my eyes were sore, I quickly put down my luggage, went to the toilet and cried for a long time before I managed to calm down and enter the house again.
It turns out that my father has been in hospital for more than a month because of his illness recurrence in winter. Because the Chinese New Year is coming, my father insisted on leaving the hospital and said that he would go to the hospital after the Chinese New Year.
When my father saw my new razor, he liked it very much. He sat up and asked his mother to shave him. I am much more energetic at once.
That year, my sister's boyfriend came to me for the first time. Father purposely put on his newly bought clothes, met his new son-in-law and in-laws, and said that he could not embarrass his elder sister. I think he managed to support himself to entertain the guests. After the guests left for a long time, my father suddenly collapsed in bed.
We all cried that day.
Father smiled and said, "Why are you crying? You are all adults. Even the youngest is a freshman and can still make money. You can buy me a present. Don't worry when I leave. You remember, I said that the biggest sorrow for parents is to watch their children grow old. I am lucky not to worry about watching you grow old. It's good that you are so young. "
That year 1 month 14, my father left us in the county hospital forever. My father was in a coma for the last few days, leaving no last words, but he has made arrangements. He should go with a clear conscience.
One year after my father left, I often cried at the thought of my father and lost more than ten kilograms. My sister said, "It may be best for him to leave so early, and you don't have to be sad anymore. Isn't he always afraid that we will grow old, so that we don't have to see us grow old again. "
As time goes by, I gradually feel relieved about my father's death. Speaking of my deep memory of my father, there are no more tears.
Sometimes when I see those old people and their children are too old to take care of their parents, I can't help thinking about my father. I wish he were still alive, but sometimes I wonder if my father would feel heartache if he lived to see that we are all middle-aged and elderly people and saw the white hair and wrinkles on our heads.
After all, in his view, his children can only be children forever, and it is so unacceptable that his children are old.
In this respect, the early death of his father may be the best ending for him. We were all so young when he left, and our elder sister was only 27 years old. Our youthful appearance will always remain in my father's memory, which is a kind of luck!
I have a dream @ Wheat. Please [come and see me] [come and see me] if you like me.
My uncle is 89 years old. Play mahjong with some card friends every morning, rest at noon and grow vegetables in your yard in the afternoon! Every day is full of energy and vitality! I have been smoking for more than 60 years, but there is nothing wrong with going to the hospital for physical examination every year! His children told him to smoke less, but my uncle said that if you don't smoke, you won't see me! This cigarette has been with me all my life, and people are here! In this way, he leads a regular life every day. At the age of 95, it was still an early morning. He has the habit of getting up early. Just after smoking a cigarette, he told the child that he was tired and wanted to go back to his room to sleep. Once he fell asleep, he never got up again! Finally, the child also went to the doctor for rescue, and no problem was found. They get old, and their body organs slowly stop working!
The best ending of a person's life is to spend it in a peaceful sleep at the last moment of his life! No pain, but getting old slowly and dying naturally, this should be the best ending!
There is no better ending in life.
The old man can't see clearly, but his legs and feet are still good.
The old lady's legs and feet are not very neat, but her eyes are ok.
So the old man helped the old lady cook and wash dishes, and even washed clothes and swept the floor.
When washing clothes, the old man helped the old lady sit on the stool, and a washbasin was placed on another higher stool. The old lady then directed the old man to scoop water, and then the old lady went to wash it. Clothes are hung at the door with a clothesline.
Sweeping the floor is also ordered by the old lady to sweep slowly. I have lived in an old house all my life and know everything like the back of my hand.
It is not that children and grandchildren have poor living conditions, let alone unfilial children and grandchildren. They are all scrambling to take over the pension, but the old couple just won't listen and never leave the old house.
It is boring not to watch TV. There is an air conditioner that doesn't work. It's too expensive. The only pleasure is listening to the Bangzi opera. There is an electronic radio, and how many dramas have been downloaded by children and grandchildren, and they listen to them every day.
That day came, and everyone in the family came, twenty or thirty people.
Some great-grandchildren run around the ground, some are in infancy, and the oldest grandson has a partner, and the whole family is happy.
In order to make the old man and the old lady happy, they put the mat in the yard and eat it together.
You can hear the old man's voice in the house.
The old lady tells the old man when to put his clothes where, when to take what medicine, and finally where to get rich and valuable things.
At first, people outside didn't take it as a joke. Later, I heard that something was wrong, and the bangzi opera that kept ringing was silent.
When I entered the room, the old lady leaned against the quilt and looked wrong. The old man held her hand and looked calm as usual.
Shouted to the son who worked there, and quickly invited the village doctor.
The old man put the radio to his wife's ear on the hearse and played her favorite drama.
Children and grandchildren are heartbroken.
Grandchildren are older, I advise grandpa-don't feel bad. Let's invite a team to sing the play.
Their home is too big to bury their ancestral graves. If they want to occupy other people's land, they should be invited.
The old man himself said that he wanted to sleep at his parents' feet in the future. You can say how much it costs, or change places, as long as you have a place to sleep.
They are old people from generation to generation, so we have nothing to discuss. In a few words, the arrangements were made and the old man was helped into the house to rest.
Just after noon, no one disturbed him.
When I left, I looked serene and seemed to have a smile on my face.
The surrounding villagers are envious.
We'll all die. It is also a blessing to die like this.
Why are you so energetic!
My father, when he was 87 years old, I accompanied him to the park for a walk, bought snacks and played until after 7 o'clock in the evening. As a result, my father died in his sleep at midnight. Although completely unprepared, I still feel that this is a blessing for the elderly and a better ending.
My high school classmate, his father's story is even weirder. It was his father's birthday. He was 86 years old. The whole family spent his birthday with his father. After dinner and tea, his father said he wanted to go out for a walk. As a result, he went home for a walk and finally fell asleep and never woke up. We were all happy for our classmates when we heard the news, saying that it was a white wedding and the old man didn't suffer.
I think there are thousands of endings in life, but the best ending is to die without illness. Like my dad, my classmate's dad, are they all happy endings?
At noon that day, my cousin, brother and sister held a lively and decent 90th birthday party for my old father in a luxury hotel.
Relatives and friends came to celebrate the old man's birthday. My uncle is dressed in festive clothes, sitting on the throne. My son, daughter-in-law, grandson, daughter, son-in-law and nephew kowtow to the old man in turn. I wish the old man happiness as the East China Sea and a long life.
My uncle is in a particularly good mood. He smiled and gave 88 yuan's red envelopes to all the kowtowing children. At the end of the banquet, the guests sang a birthday song together, and then the birthday girl cut the cake, and everyone shared the cake!
Just after noon, I came home from the hotel. My cousin asked me if my old father was tired, and his father said it was fine. Dad drank a cup of tea, then greeted the child and said to go to the room to sleep for a while.
Relatives and friends have come back to see the old man off. They all comforted their cousins and said that the old man was a blessed man, and his 90th birthday had passed. He left without any pain, very calm. This is a blessing!
My cousin was very sad at first, but she was relieved to think about it later. They lost their mother when they were very young. But they are both fathers and mothers' fathers, bringing them up, training them to go to college and helping them get married. Dad worked hard for them all his life, and now the children are living well and happy, and dad is relieved. Old father is too tired and needs to have a rest.
My uncle is hardworking and dedicated himself to two children. I remember one time, my uncle helped others build a house and accidentally fell off the roof and fainted for several days. Everyone thought he was dying, and my mother cried her eyes out. Later, my uncle woke up and said to my mother, don't be afraid, I can't die. I'm dead. What about my two children? They don't have a mother, and I can't even make them cry for their father!
After grandma's 90th birthday, she insisted on letting her relatives stay for another night. When we got off the boat, it was the last time she got along with her relatives. ...
The grandmother in the same village is 90 years old. She is deaf and can walk around the village with crutches. She was 90 years old at the end of August last year, but her family gave her a birthday on the Mid-Autumn Festival half a month in advance, which made it easier for her relatives to reunite. Everyone who goes to work or school will have a holiday.
On the Mid-Autumn Festival, relatives and friends from afar came, and descendants who worked and studied abroad also came back to celebrate the old man's birthday. There are also villagers from all directions who help and give gifts. They put up 50 tables of rural dam banquets, one round of 10 tables, and went back and forth for five rounds.
That day, the old man's interest was also very high. She was invited to the table, and later generations took turns bowing to her to make a series. Say hello to her birthday!
The old man looked kindly at the younger generation, touched this one's head and shook that one's hand. He was so happy that he couldn't keep his mouth shut!
The children and grandchildren also invited the band to order songs for her, which can be said to be very lively all day!
The first day was a banquet, because there were too many people and everyone was busy, so relatives could not talk. The next day, my closest relatives sat down, took a rest and said something from the heart. That's the real reunion.
But after lunch the next day, almost all relatives and descendants went home and returned to their own places.
Just as everyone was discussing to say goodbye to the old man and go home, the old man grabbed his little sister's arm and almost said in a pleading tone, "You are all here, so stay one more night." I have a lot to say to you. I will leave tomorrow morning. I won't leave you tomorrow morning ... "
The old lady's little sister family is actually over 60 years old. She looked at her elderly sister, but she was actually very sad. Because the two sisters seldom meet each other, she said to all the relatives of the old lady, "If we don't leave, let's all stay at her sister's place for another night. It's rare for everyone to get together so neatly ... "
In this way, everyone stayed, the relatives of the bride's family and the descendants of the old lady, and it was another happy afternoon. ...
That night, the old lady's little sister slept with her, and the two sisters chatted for a long time in bed. From childhood memories to the present, it can be said that the two sisters talked for decades that night.
Later, the old lady's little sister said that they were covered with a quilt that night. Her sister sleeps inside and she sleeps outside. 65438+ at 0: 00 in the morning, she got up to go to the toilet and drank water. She also asked, "Sister, do you drink water?" Do you want to go to the bathroom? ″
The old lady agreed, "I don't want to drink or go to the toilet."
At dawn the next day, the old lady's little sister got up first. She watched her big sister sleep with her face inward, so she wanted to let her sleep more so as not to wake her!
After getting up quietly, my little sister finished washing and waited for breakfast to be ready on the table before calling my big sister to get up for breakfast.
The little sister called a few times: "Sister, get up and eat. ″
The old lady didn't promise either!
The little sister thinks about how the big sister sleeps so heavily.
She reached out and patted the old lady on the shoulder, but the old lady didn't respond. She felt something was wrong, so she shouted "big sister, big sister" and her nose was out of breath.
The little sister of the old lady began to wail loudly, and her relatives who were going to eat out heard it. They all ran to the bed one by one and found that the old man had left peacefully because there was still some temperature in the bed.
The old man has been sleeping on his side. When he was asleep, he didn't even move, and his face was so peaceful. Maybe she was still dreaming, immersed in the reunion of her relatives and the happiness recalled by her sisters yesterday, and quietly left. ...
While the family members are sad, they are happy that the old man died naturally, without pain or regret!
It's amazing! The old lady's husband died two years ago, so he died in his sleep. They are the same!
Everyone in the village said that the two old people practiced well and were always charitable, which led to such a good result and went away! Leave like a dream!
Grandma is 90 years old. She watched her children and grandchildren become talents, get married and succeed in business. It can be said that she has lost a lot of worries, but she still has to give up her relatives. However, at the last moment, her relatives and children can get together to celebrate her birthday. It can be said that she left with peace of mind and peace of mind. This should be the best ending in life!
In the first month of last year, the old lady in our village 102 passed away.
The old man has lived under one roof for five generations. His eldest son is over eighty, and his eldest grandson is almost sixty. The grandson of the eldest grandson is also four or five years old, running all over the ground. The old lady 100 years old, her eyes are not bright, her ears are slightly deaf, and her mouth is very good. At noon on the last day, I ate half a plate of jiaozi.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, the old lady woke up from her nap. Seeing his great-grandson playing with his great-grandson in the yard, he was afraid of hurting his children. I asked my grandson to help her in the yard and tell her myself. After telling her, my great-grandson told her not to play. Take her son and father together to help her go home. The old lady said cheerfully, "My great-grandson is really obedient!"
Grandson and great-grandson took off their shoes and helped them to the kang, and Xiao Xuansun also took off his shoes and climbed onto the kang to join the old lady. The old lady smiled and stroked the little great-great-great-grandson's head and touched it, but the old lady's hand stopped moving. Grandson leaned over the folded bedding and shouted, "Grandma, what's wrong with you?" My son, daughter-in-law, grandson, daughter-in-law and others came running when they heard the sound. The son explored with his hand: I have already left!
Because of the epidemic, the family simply sent the old lady away. Because the old lady is over 100 years old, her mourning clothes don't use white cloth, but red cloth. People in the 80 s and 90 s in the village also bluntly said that it was the first time to wear red mourning at such a big age!
In fact, what people envy most is being over 100 years old, living under one roof for five generations, and dying without illness. Aren't these the end points of life that everyone yearns for?
My uncle was married twice when he was 32, with two sons.
As the saying goes, "raise one son but not two, and raise two official horses." Besides, you are not your own son, and everyone is worried that my uncle will be abused when he is old.
But my uncle decided to marry my aunt.
One year after marriage, menstruation gave birth to a daughter to her uncle. Now my uncle has three children.
In the 1990s, other people's families were only children, but my uncle had to raise three children. Originally, his family was thin, and the burden at home could be imagined.
Difficulties didn't frighten my uncle. He relies on home 10 mu paddy field, raises pigs with his aunt, and supports three children to go to school.
Biological daughters and stepsons are treated equally. I hope they can study hard and get ahead in the future.
But none of my three cousins are reading materials. I don't even want to study after graduating from junior high school. Said he was going to work to reduce the burden on his family.
Uncle thought, they don't want to study, so learn a craft for them. It will be better to stand in the society in the future.
In this way, the eldest brother learned to cook and the second brother learned to paint furniture. After finishing school, they all went out to work. The eldest brother went to Vietnam and the second brother went to Guangdong.
A few years later, my cousin also went out to work. She is her own daughter. My uncle didn't teach her art. My uncle has something on his mind.
What are you planning? My uncle has two brothers, two daughters are born to my father, and my uncle is also a daughter. None of us in this room has a son to inherit the incense. So in the future, the biggest possibility is that my cousin will eat old rice at home.
Cousin became a working girl on the assembly line. A young and ignorant girl met her prince charming in the factory.
When two young hearts meet, they will soon be jealous of each other. After two years, my cousin brought the young man back to see his uncle and aunt and said that he would get married.
My uncle is firmly opposed to the idea of his daughter marrying Hebei far away.
My uncle said, "Daughter, Dad is your only biological daughter, and he plans to leave you at home to eat old rice and give me a pension. How can you marry so far away in Hebei? "
My cousin didn't listen and cried that there were two brothers at home. I don't eat old rice at home, only one son. What if my parents are there?
Father and daughter are deadlocked, and no one can convince anyone.
At this moment, the second brother who works in Guangdong called back and said, "Dad, you can agree to your sister's marriage. I will be responsible for your future retirement. I will come to you when I am 2 years old. You are my real father. Don't worry, I will honor you well. "
My second brother's confession gave my uncle some comfort. However, an old father is still unwilling to marry his beloved daughter to other places. His uncle secretly cried and slapped himself, but he still agreed to his cousin's marriage.
My cousin got married naked in Hebei, and his family was poor. There was no bride price, and my uncle didn't want it. I only ask my brother-in-law to be kind to my cousin, nothing else.
Two years later, the second brother used the money earned by working to push the old house at home and rebuild a two-story building.
After the house was repaired, the second brother also married a beautiful Hunan sister.
After the second brother got married, he continued to work hard in Guangdong. My sister-in-law is pregnant at home, and my aunt and uncle are responsible for taking care of her.
The child was born, another daughter. It seems that our family only has a daughter's life.
But there is nothing wrong with having a daughter. My uncle's granddaughter, who followed my uncle and aunt since childhood, has now grown into a big girl and is amiable with her grandfather.
Cousin married to Hebei and gave birth to a good word. In recent years, life is flourishing. Cousin became a full-time nanny at home, driving a BMW to pick up the children every day.
The second brother bought two suites in the city and took his children to school in the city.
Big brother also earned his own money to buy a house. I'm still expanding my own chain store, saying it will be two years before I get married.
My uncle's three children, who haven't read any books, are making more and more money.
In the past two years, my family has been rich, and my uncles and aunts have become more and more foreign. My second brother's wife is a beautician. Can I buy clothes that are not foreign?
My second brother has a good opinion of stroke in our family. The second brother was afraid that his uncle would be cold when riding a motorcycle, so he bought an electric car for his uncle to drive. As long as his uncle asks, he will give anything he wants.
These are all seen by relatives, and everyone unanimously praised him for being filial, sensible, polite and earning money.
This is all thanks to my uncle's previous life. When he got married for the second time, he brought two stepsons. Everyone laughed at him. Now? It's not your own. It's better than yours.
Isn't it for health and filial piety that people get old? My uncle is almost 70 years old and my aunt is 60 years old. Both of them are in good health at present. They go to their daughter's house in Hebei for a period of time every year. The old couple became migratory birds for their long-married daughter.
In this life, my uncle married my aunt and raised three children together. All children know filial piety. It can be said that this is the most perfect ending of life.