When it comes to Xu Jinglei, the label "talented woman" flashes in many people's minds.
The title of Xu's talent is not a misnomer.
Xu Jinglei, who was born into an ordinary working-class family, began learning calligraphy and copying Yan Zhenqing's characters under her father's supervision.
Later, she studied painting for a few years because of her love of drawing.
Xu, who was already 17 years old at the time, had already become a talented literary young woman under the cultivation of art.
When she graduated from high school, she aspired to enter the Department of Choreography and the Academy of Arts and Crafts of the Chinese Academy of Fine Arts, but unfortunately failed.
When she was heartbroken, she met a director who mistook her for an acting student, which made her think of becoming an actress, and she was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy.
The teacher of that class was Yu Feihong, and her classmates were Jia Jingwen, Liu Zi and Liu Lin.
Xu Jinglei, who entered the university, gradually fell more and more watery, and Liu Zi, Liu Lin, Xie Run and known as the Beijing Film Academy 93 four golden flowers.
The year of her sophomore year, Xu Jinglei just ended her first love, after the baptism of love, from the "good girl" into a rebellious little sister.
Because she didn't like the show, she often skipped classes to play, and became obsessed with rock, dirty braids, beggar's clothes, wild punk style.
It was also at that time that I was introduced to Wang Shuo, a writer who was already famous in the literary world.
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Wang Shuo, who was already 36 years old at the time, formally entered the upper reaches of the "Beijing Circle" through his novels Half of the Flame, Half of the Sea, I'm Your Father, and Fierce Animals.
And with Feng Xiaogang **** with the scriptwriter out of China's first TV sitcom "Editorial Story", which aired to rave reviews.
Wang Shuo in the literary world and the acting world is also considered to have mixed some fame, and at the same time, led Feng Xiaogang, co-founded the good dream movie company.
At that time, Wang Shuo was already married and had a daughter, and his wife was a schoolgirl that he had pursued with great effort.
But when he met Xu Jinglei, he fell in love at first sight. He left his husband's and father's identity behind to win the girl's hand.
Years later, Wang Shuo said, "I like the kind of rock origin, the paradigm is positive, playing is scruffy handsome, not trim, I especially like."
With Wang Shuo with Xu Jinglei can be said to be resources.
Wang Shuo first pushed him into the Gao Xiaosong executive producer of the "you at the same table" to participate in, and also because of this, so that Gao Xiaosong on Xu Jinglei have a different sentiment, these are all the words after the fact.
Mr. Wang in order to win the beauty of the happy can be regarded as all-out efforts, Xu Jinglei graduated from college, personally, recommended her to the buddy director Zhao Baogang, which led to her screen debut, "a wind and flowers and snow and moon thing".
Xu Jinglei enjoyed Wang Shuo's resources while fantasizing about getting to the top.
She brazenly went in and out of Wang Shuo's house, and demonstrated to his wife Shen Xujia, "I've been strutting in and out of your house, so just give him to me."
Shen Xujia thought that men are like children, play enough will always go home.
So she shot back at Xu Jinglei, "You don't understand, I'm his mom, you can't replace me".
However, at that time, Wang Shuo was already overwhelmed by passion, and had forgotten his promise to his wife.
So he moved directly from his home to the hotel, and Xu Jinglei began a blatant cohabitation.
Two years later, Shen Xujia finally died and Wang Shuo divorced, and took his daughter to live in the United States.
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After the divorce, Wang Shuo did not stay with Xu Jinglei.
In 1997, 23-year-old Xu Jinglei met 26-year-old Wang Xuebing for her starring role in the movie Love Spicy Hot. The two then ****ed together in the idol drama "Carry Love to the End".
Subsequently, gossip about Xu Jinglei and Wang Xuebing was all over the place. Also because of this drama, there was a girlfriend of Li Yapeng also on the Xu Jinglei love, and because in the "will love" in the role of the couple, and was known as the "golden boy and girl".
About these two rumors, the outside world, there are many sayings, but Xu Jinglei said: Li Yapeng does not come to electricity,
After breaking up with Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei fell in love with the famous musician Sanbao. It is said that the three years with San Bao for its abortion 3 times, and finally because of the other side cheated on a female singer, and led to the two people broke up.
The point is that after the breakup, Xu Jinglei returned to Wang Shuo, who accepted him again.
In 2004, at the age of 30, Xu Jinglei was not satisfied with being an actress and wanted to try her hand at directing, so she asked Wang Shuo for advice.
With Wang Shuo's help and mobility, Xu wrote, directed, and starred in Me and Dad, which was released in theaters.
This work by Ye Dajing, Jiang Wen, Zhang Yuan and several other in the Beijing circle of dignitaries to participate, Xu Jinglei thus won the Chinese Film Awards Best Screenwriter, the Golden Rooster Award Best Debut Award, the value of the ship has risen.
So, there must be more than one man behind a successful woman, and Wang Shuo is definitely the indispensable man behind Xu Jinglei.
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Xu Jinglei, who rose to fame as the director of Me and My Dad, directed and acted in another movie, Letter from a Strange Woman, in September of the same year.
And in the play, the lead actor Huang Jue sparks, even by the media photographed the two late at night in and out of the same apartment, Huang Jue also considerate to take her cat to the pet hospital for treatment, the state of the state as a couple.
For the media exposure, the two people do not recognize and do not avoid, as usual, shopping and dating together.
Just as people were waiting for their official announcement, news of their breakup broke out.
It is said that after the breakup with Xu Jinglei, Huang Jue also told his friends that he would look for a girlfriend to find an "ordinary woman" who can live a stable life together.
After the breakup, Xu Jinglei did not idle, in a party, met Zhang Yadong engaged in music, and fell in love at first sight.
In July 2005, Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong were photographed holding hands on the streets of Beijing, and it was suspected that they were in a relationship.
However, it did not take long for Gao Yuanyuan to explode with evidence of five years of love with Zhang Yadong, dozens of handwritten love letters.
For a while Xu Jinglei became a "junior". Gao Yuanyuan chose to leave.
However, the relationship between Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong did not last long, and then announced the breakup.
Meanwhile, Wang Shuo's romance with actress Prince Wen was revealed.
After that, Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei completely separated.
Wang Shuo once said, "We are very close, but we each have male and female friends, do not get in each other's way, and grow separately."
That's why some people say that artists' feelings are really hard to understand.
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In 2008, Han Han and Xu Jinglei were photographed by the media at a secret meeting in Beijing, where they were laughing and chatting on open chairs.
In response, Xu Jinglei responded, "Yes, Han Han came to see me, and it was just the two of us, but we are all adults, it is necessary to meet alone with the opposite sex, and we still need to report to teachers and parents?"
Whether the two are really together is unknown, but Han Han adores Xu Jinglei is certain.
In May 2010, Han Han, in an exclusive interview with a media outlet, revealed that he wanted to give himself as a birthday gift to Xu Jinglei, but laughed at the fact that the old Xu didn't need him anymore.
Last year, the CCTV news about "single women prohibit egg freezing regulations", someone used this to bring out the Xu Jinglei egg freezing incident.
Han Han the first time to send a microblogging blast, bluntly said:
"Want a child but just do not want to marry a man can not? Can't you use your own eggs? Can't women exercise their reproductive rights independently? Also, if an unmarried woman gets pregnant, she won't be given a birth certificate, and the child won't even be able to get a hukou in the future unless she recognizes the huge social support fee. Does childbirth have to be tied to finding a man to marry? Even I, a straight male cancer, can't stand to watch."
In fact, it is speaking for Xu Jinglei, secretly protecting Xu Jinglei.
It has been said that Xu Jinglei's greatest skill is to enlist all of these several scandalous boyfriends on her side, making them the closest friends.
Wang Shuo also said, "Whoever does something to Xu Jinglei, I will not let him go!"
It can be seen that Xu Jinglei must be a person with high IQ.
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Huang Lixing should be regarded as the last man in Xu Jinglei's life.
In 2009, Xu Jinglei once again directed her own movie "Dulala Promotion", and 35-year-old Huang Lixing in the play love like glue, after the play gossip flying, both sides hold a denial attitude.
A year later, the two worked together again in the movie "Intimate Lovers", the gossip is once again heating up, but the parties still did not do any response.
Until 2014, a media exposure Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing have been living together in Taipei, Xu Jinglei is only counted as the existence of default romance.
And in the microblogging generous admitted: "five years have not red face more did not quarrel, it is not allowed. The right person, is to make you become a better person".
It can be seen that the two have been together for five years, the romance is also open.
Later, Xu Jinglei followed Huang Lixing to Taiwan to see his parents, and Huang Lixing and Xu Jinglei in Shanghai airport was photographed, but also a kind of "old married couple" look, and do not be afraid of paparazzi and the presence of the camera.
Xu Jinglei should have met her true love this time.
As she said, "I am sick from time to time, you always have medicine."
Although the two are still not married, but ten years together, but also more and more inseparable from each other.
Marriage is not a very important thing for Xu Jinglei, the important thing is that two people are happy and free together.
These views and Huang Lixing simply coincide with each other, which is the reason why their relationship is so long.
Everyone's attitude towards relationships is different, so love looks different.
As long as the love is right, how is good.