The change in the view of marriage, on the one hand, the reason is caused by the catalyst of the progress of the times, the rapid development of the economy, resulting in a portion of the low-capacity people with low incomes, while the actual consumption is far from being able to support the life that they aspire to, so it leads to their choice of marriage, pay more attention to material. The aim is to shorten the gap between them and the rich so that they can lead a better life.
Lao Rongzhi
The other reason is comparison and following the trend. A part of the people envy the high living standard of others, and their own ability is not enough, in order to make themselves in and out of the bright and shiny, so they will put subjective consciousness on the choice of marriage. And this speculative practice invariably formed an abnormal wind, leading to a part of the people to follow the trend and played a role in promoting the role of the trend, prompted by its tendency to become popular.
Lao Rongzhi
In addition, there is a part of the special self-importance and vanity of the people, their own ability is not able to ask others to be God, their own is a frog in the bottom of the well, but salivating in the sky high flying swan. This kind of eyesight is not wide pattern is not a small spread of ideas, but also lead to a part of the people blindly follow the trend, only to cause a part of the lovers eventually break up. Pompous world, pompous people, pompous love, pompous marriage, this is the pale reality, can not help.
Now the love is very vain, marriage is not porcelain, are looking toward the money, there are a lot of people do a lot of things people do not understand, one is the other pre-marriage to buy a house, the other party has to add their name, as if the feelings of talk can not guarantee the stability of the marriage, only to seize the money to be able to stabilize, as if it is not in order to live a life, and the heart is always thinking of what I can get after the divorce.
Lao Rongzhi
And can not understand is that the wedding banquet, and want to invite guests and do not want to pay out of pocket, the man said that I only out of the man, the woman refused to do so, and had to be the man of the woman's invitation to the money and out of the money, and finally made a mess, the marriage did not come to fruition, for some of them divorced, so the original love is so fragile ah!
In fact, whether or not the distortion of the concept of marriage to recognize the fundamental, lies in a person's selfishness to a serious degree, depending on a person's character qualities of the marriage value of knowledge and the attitude held. In real life, the distorted view of marriage rampant rampant rhetoric, but not everyone's approach to distort the nature of marriage. They are usually the wise people in life, and the behavior as well as the understanding and statements that supposedly distort the view of marriage are only believed and emulated by the foolish.
Lao Rongzhi