01.
It is said that people and people meet, acquaintance is the need for destiny, my husband and I met is destiny, originally thought that you can go to the end of the earth with him, but unfortunately, my mother-in-law and I do not have the destiny, my marriage only lasted two years.
My husband and I met on the main street, that day was my most wretched day, interviewed for three jobs were unsuccessful, just out of the interview building, the feet of the high-heeled shoes also bullied me, the heel inexplicably fell off.
In a fit of pique, I disregarded the image of a lady and walked barefoot with my shoes, crossing the street while calling my best friend to spit out my bad luck, not noticing the speeding motorcycle and the owner of the car shouting.
When I noticed, I couldn't react, closed my eyes and waited for the moment of being hit, and waited for a few seconds without pain. When I opened my eyes, a young looking gentleman grabbed my arm, he was the one who pulled me aside in time and two years later he became my husband.
Rather, the owner of the electric car was scared enough to return to accuse me: "little girl, crossing the road how not to look at the road, how dangerous ah", may be my bad mood to the top, my tears blazed down, the owner saw me crying, muttered that I didn't say anything ah, rode on the car and left.
At that time, my husband did not leave, took out tissues and handed me, accompanied me to finish crying, may be his warm hearted behavior let me feel warm in this strange city, I borrowed the name of thank you to ask for his contact information.
Later, we contacted each other every now and then, and then we became lovers. At that time I just graduated from college, my husband is three years older than me, two years earlier than I came out to work in the process of getting along, I learned that his family is also a rural area, his parents divorced in early years, his mother alone to him and his great aunt to raise the big.
02.
We fell in love with each other two years later, my mother-in-law urged us to get married, I think my husband is a warm man, after marriage must be a good husband, good father. I secretly got a license with my husband despite the opposition of my parents, who had no choice but to agree to our marriage.
My parents didn't want me to get married so soon, saying that we don't even have a house now, and that it wouldn't be too late to buy a house before we got married, but I didn't listen, and I was convinced that we would soon be able to buy a house.
Not long after the wedding, my mother-in-law had a serious illness, after the illness, my husband wanted my mother-in-law to move over and live with us. My husband emotionally told me about my mother-in-law's contribution over the years, and I was quite touched by his filial piety and agreed to live with her.
We wanted to make sure that my mother-in-law would be comfortable in her old age, and before she arrived, my husband took out a loan to buy a second-hand house with a good location and decoration.
The first two months after my mother-in-law moved in, we got along very well, but slowly, the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law conflict arose. The main source of conflict is that my mother-in-law thinks I don't care about the family, and often says in front of me that women who don't do housework after marriage don't serve the family.
His husband heard his mother-in-law's words and did not speak for me in front of her, but only said in front of me that his mother is old and just loves to nag.
That's when I realized that my husband, although a warm man, is a man without a strong opinion.
03.
I wanted to pay off the mortgage early, and changed jobs after marriage, the salary is much higher than before, but overtime has become the norm, basically can not eat dinner together.
Sometimes I have to work overtime on weekends, and I really can't take care of things at home, but I sympathize with my mother-in-law for doing chores for us, and I pay her 3,000 dollars a month, and I don't forget to give her gifts on holidays.
It's a good thing that I'm trying so hard to make a living for our little family, but my mother-in-law doesn't feel the same way. She thinks that if I marry her son, I should focus on the family and be a good wife and mother.
These two years of marriage, my mother-in-law said explicitly and secretly who's mother-in-law is really lucky, every day in addition to bringing grandchildren is a square dance, daughter-in-law to the home arrangements in order. I pretended not to understand, in fact, I know that my mother-in-law has risen from the suspicion that I do not care about the family to the suspicion that I do not have children.
Later, my mother-in-law said in front of her husband that she saw me having dinner with men she didn't know, and that she often saw me being driven back. What my mother-in-law said was true, but the dinner with the man was for work, and the one who drove me back was a female coworker who was on her way.
Husband, under the influence of his mother-in-law, went from disbelief to half-belief. My mother-in-law took the opportunity to encourage my husband to divorce me and marry a family-oriented daughter-in-law.
Husband obeyed and I mentioned divorce, two people in a marriage if the loss of trust, there is no need to carry on, I did not stay, the next day went to the divorce formalities.
04.
The house was bought by my husband, and I was considered a netizen. After we divorced but half a year later, I heard that my ex-husband remarried, and married a daughter-in-law who was satisfied with his ex-mother-in-law, and who did not go to work, and who was at home all day long to serve her daughter-in-law.
Another half year went by, a year after our divorce, and one day I saw my ex-mother-in-law while I was eating at a shopping mall, and she was mopping the floor, and when I looked at her again, she was wearing a janitor's uniform.
My ex-mother-in-law froze in her tracks when she saw me. I was completely different from a year ago, when I couldn't afford to buy new clothes or bags in order to save money, but now I look very stylish, not like a married person.
At this time, I have been promoted to department manager because of my achievements at work, and my salary has gone up a lot. I was still wondering if I should say hello to my ex-mother-in-law when she had already turned around and left.
Later, I learned from others that my ex-husband remarried this wife is very caring, but does not go to work, this life everywhere need money, the whole family relies on my ex-husband alone to support.
The former mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law does not earn money, but her daughter-in-law is not as good as me, but forced the former mother-in-law to go out to work to earn money.
Now I'm just glad I left such an unassertive, soft-spoken, mommy's boy earlier than I did.