1, more companionship for the elderly
Respect for the elderly and love for the young is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation for thousands of years, but also a universal social requirements. When the physiological needs such as food and clothing have been solved, the most difficult thing for human beings to endure is probably loneliness. In daily life, each of us seems to have a tendency to avoid loneliness by being close to others. There is almost no one who is willing to be alone and have no contact with the outside world. Children should usually accompany the elderly more, often go home to see, do not let the elderly alone in the empty nest.
2, encourage to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude
The elderly to be happy, we need to adjust their own understanding and attitude. How to make the elderly happy? Happy old people are good at adapting to difficult situations and can seek light in the darkness. The elderly to make themselves happy, must be open-minded, with a realistic view of everything. Do not close themselves, correctly evaluate themselves, can self-knowledge, self-confidence, contentment, follow nature, their ability to reach the things do not go to force.
3, encourage the elderly to develop their own interests
Encourage the elderly to develop their own interests, the dream into reality. In order to develop their interests, they can participate in more outdoor activities, such as hiking, or engage in some volunteer activities, or academic research, all of which can fill the spiritual emptiness caused by not going to work. Before you retire, you need to think seriously about what you like to do, so that when you really retire from your job, you won't be bored because you don't have anything to do.
4, more communication with the elderly
Children usually not only to communicate with the elderly, but also with their parents to reach an effective communication, the most important thing is to express to be clear, specific, in the *** with the face and deal with the problem is even more so. But often there are many people in dealing with the problem of language expression is not clear, it makes the problem can not be solved. Many problems and misunderstandings arise because of vague and unclear communication. Therefore, sharing each other's ideas and learning to listen to seniors is also an effective way to make them happy.
5, often eat with the elderly
Time to accompany them to eat a meal, do not need to be very rich in dishes, only need light, simple, home-cooked on the good. You will be happy to eat with them.