One, quarrel not to mention the word "divorce". Do not quarrel with the couple is not normal, sometimes couples because of a meal, fry a dish can be argued, because both sides of the idea is not the same, have their own ideas, when their own ideas by the other side of the dissatisfaction and questioning, the contradiction will be inspired.
Many small conflicts between husband and wife, in fact, are caused by some small things, but because they are not well resolved, so it will deteriorate. But no matter how big the conflict between husband and wife, how fierce the noise, can not mention the word "divorce".
Second, there is a sense of responsibility. When a party feels the need for more intimacy, the best way is to take the initiative, let the other party know how they feel at this moment, rather than silently waiting for the other party to take the initiative.