At the age of 40, middle-aged men and women have completely opposite desires for "husband and wife life". Women want their husbands to spend more time with them and show more love. Men, on the other hand, hope that their wives had better not disturb themselves and give themselves more private space; Two people's ideas are in the opposite state, and after a long time, there will be emotional cracks.
It's really distressing to have such a woman speak her mind!
She and her husband only have one daughter, which should be a particularly happy family in our opinion. In first-tier cities, there are houses and cars. Although the salary of husband and wife is not particularly high, their average monthly salary is about 1.6 thousand, and the company's welfare benefits are not bad. But the seemingly luxurious appearance, the original husband and wife have been sleeping in separate beds for about 5 years.
The child is more than 5 years old this year, which means that since the birth of the child, they seem to have been sleeping in separate beds and have no husband and wife life. Husband and wife always quarrel, and they quarrel only when there is not much. Men are basically the kind who go out with their buddies all night every Friday night. Husband and wife belong to the kind that can't talk, and they will quarrel when they talk. It feels impossible to return to their old feelings.
Therefore, for women, "husband and wife life" makes them more eager, especially in middle age. They want their husbands to be faithful to their marriage. As children grow up, they want to have more time to themselves, and husbands can express more love and make life full of surprises.