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Someone asked: when is a man most real?
The answers are varied: when drunk, when smoking alone, when sitting alone in the car after work and not going home ......
All right and all wrong -
it's when you're in bed.
Backstage got a message from a reader yesterday that was a little angry.
A 28 year old girl who hates to get married and has found someone she likes with great difficulty, has been together for 6 months and has taken 5 boxes of birth control pills.
I went back to her, why don't you wear a condom and take the pill?
She said, the other side does not like.
I asked her: don't you have a problem with that?
She said: he said he loved me very much, and he was good at everything except not wearing a condom? Sounds really a bit ridiculous.
He is not even willing to put on a condom this small thing to do, just by words, and you have to believe in love?
Honestly, with the man to man understanding, he does not wear a condom, love or not love you I do not know.
He has no sense of responsibility, but it is true.
In fact, he doesn't want to wear a condom because he thinks it lowers his experience in bed.
All he cares about is his own feelings, and you have to bear the consequences.
A bed, on the head, regardless of the man, not to say how bad, but really selfish.
In the end, the bed is not good.
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How he made love, how to love you
Eating men and women, food and color sex, love to the thick, dry fire, natural.
However, many problems have been exposed in this bed.
We have long since passed the age of hearing love, empty talk, love or not love a person, the body is the most honest, see how he does.
A female writer friend of mine was counseled:
The girl wanted to break up with her boyfriend when they were talking about marriage.
Because she felt that her boyfriend was like a different person in bed and out of bed, very rough, never taking into account her feelings, only by their own preferences.
In fact, it's hard to disguise yourself when you're honest with yourself, and it's the best way to expose a person's character.
In bed are rude, do not care about you, and can expect him to be able to you how good?
No bedside manner of the man, character and how good?
I remember a few years ago, Wang Xinling in and boyfriend after the breakup, the other party actually sunshine her private photos, but also to the media wantonly show off their bed:
"At that time she was only 17 years old, I thought her first time is to me, but surprisingly not, I was very disappointed."
In short, he had no intention of cherishing her the moment they got into bed, and it's no wonder that he later maligned the private just as bragging capital.
The nature of the slag at a glance, not only treat the feelings of slag, but also poor bedside manner, most of all, the character of the slag.
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Adult love, all in bed
In the end, the bed is to see the character.
In the relationship, character may be more important than love itself, you love what kind of a person, you will have what kind of life.
As Zhou Guoping said: sex is physical life, follow the principle of pleasure; love is spiritual life, follow the principle of ideal; marriage is social life, follow the principle of reality. Are three completely different things.
If going to bed is passion, and passion is nature, then marriage itself is turning its back on nature.
So we must recognize that basically no one will be able to stay in a marriage without cheating.
And from love to marriage, when the passion fades, the relationship between two people is to rely on character and affection to maintain.
This character and affection, not only in bed, more in bed.
Cheng Lisha talked about her married life in "Wife's Romantic Journey":
She said that whenever Guo Xiaodong went out to shoot a movie and wasn't at home at night, she couldn't sleep on her own, and was especially unsure.
Because Cheng Liza has been accustomed to the pillow someone, turn around and have an embrace, before going to bed, the couple exchanges talk about the heart, embrace each other and sleep.
Doing actors itself is very busy, so extraordinarily cherish the night in bed to embrace the time to chat.
Before going to bed together to share the day's sights and sounds, joy; will be half-awake to help you cover the quilt, padded pillow; fall asleep to hear you have nightmares and talk in your sleep, will hold you tell you do not have to be afraid of .......
All of this, has nothing to do with passion, has nothing to do with desire, just day to day love.
A British study that couples **** sleep way to assess the good and bad of marital relations:
Sleeping with each other snuggling couples, marital happiness and satisfaction accounted for 94%;
And sleeping farther away from the couple, the proportion of marital satisfaction for 68%.
The feelings of adults, all in bed, how he loves you, how to sleep with you.
When the passion is no longer, from the life of the little bits and pieces, from the daily sleep, will be able to know how many points he treats you.
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There are many people who want to sleep with you, and very few can sleep with you for the rest of your life
Lin Qingxuan said that for the vast majority of men, love, is a process of subtraction, and when the freshness is getting less and less, the sweetness is getting less and less.
But when the day-to-day life, polishing off the original passion, but also precipitated the weight of the human heart.
The man loves you or not, when you go to bed, maybe it is a moment of passion, but you can see clearly after getting out of bed.
The bed is not real enough, the birth bed to be able to see the true heart, above the hospital bed can witness eternal.
Then when China is old, years like twilight, the hospital bed, more proof of the initial bed when the true love.
An old couple with sixty years of companionship, grandmother sick, grandfather day and night in front of the hospital bed.
I don't dare to sleep even if I'm drowsy, I'm afraid I won't be able to see you once I wake up.
Grandma was sick and had her blood drawn at the window. Grandpa covered her eyes and held her in his arms in order to prevent her from being afraid, just as he did when he was young and newly married.
ICU ward, a pair of elderly people lying in bed, holding each other's hands, calling each other's names ......
All the love in the world, can not escape aging and disease, but also a demon-spotting mirror of marriage.
From going to bed, to sleep in the bed, to the birth bed, to the hospital bed, the test is not only love, but also character and humanity.
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In the American drama "Sex and the City", Shanmansa said, "How we behave in bed indicates how we live our lives." ?
Marriage is really simple when you take off the glamorous trappings, it's just about dressing, eating and sleeping.
Love is good, the bed to see the difference, small to just initially bed, he would like to wear a condom for you, give you a hug.
The so-called sex, not only sex but also love, this love is: from the bed, to the bed, to the bed, to the birth bed, to the hospital bed are always respect and love you.
The first thing you need to know is that you have to be able to get to know the person you are sleeping with, and you have to be able to get to know the person you are sleeping with.
There are many people who want to have a night of passion with you, but there are very few who cover you in the middle of the night and get up in the morning to **** into breakfast.
The bed is character, love long time to see people.
It's always unusual to see a person at first sight, and it's not easy to be with them for a lifetime.
The rest of your life is not long, find a man who can sleep with you.