Followed by, is "now I" can't understand two problems:
First, why did Fang Siqi return to her attacker for the second time after being forced to "use her mouth" for the first time, so as to carry out a more thorough rape.
Second, why do victims have to force themselves to fall in love with their abusers, and whether there can be other endings.
On the first point, "I now" will think: If I don't like it, I can just say so. "I don't want to go to teacher Li to change my composition again!" Even if someone asks, tell the real reason, or make up a lie casually, it is better than being a lamb delivered to the door.
But Fang Siqi didn't do it. And before Li Guohua decided to do it for the first time, he also expected that Fang would follow his script and cooperate all the way. I have to say, he is very accurate in judging people.
So, in fact, the reader got the author's answer to the first question from Li Guohua. She was selected by him according to certain characteristics.
The first one is: enamel doll girl.
I specifically checked the meaning of enamel: enamel is a product in which the surface of a metal blank is coated with sintered glass enamel. It is characterized by beautiful and pure appearance, but it is easy to break. Once bumped, the metal blank inside can remain intact, but the enamel outside is mottled and ugly.
Fang Siqi is beautiful, which is undoubtedly a great attraction for suitors.
The love words on our lips, "Your beauty is a sin", are really imprinted in the abuser's thinking mode. There are many words in the book describing Li Guohua's different treatment of beauty and ugliness. "How ugly he is, even if he doesn't have to be forced, he won't be bothered." . Except for the girl who looks almost the same as Fang Siqi, Liu Yiting asked Li Guohua to rape herself in pursuit of empathy after learning what happened to Fang Siqi, but Li Guohua said, "No, you are so ugly". Therefore, from this perspective, the author is convinced of the role of beauty in this kind of crime.
Fang Siqi is a pure girl, even more virgin than a virgin.
If "virgins" means "girls who have no sexual experience", then girls who are virgins than virgins are "girls who have no sexual awareness". 18 years old, said eating sea cucumber is like "oral sex", and Fang asked, "Do you really understand what this is?" Liu said "I don't know". Visible, even close to adulthood, "sex" is still beyond the understanding of most girls. Fang Siqi once questioned his parents in the book, "We have all kinds of education in our family, but it seems that only sex education is lacking." He also asked Li Guohua: "You said you loved me, but I was so young, how could you have the heart to treat me like that?" Therefore, from this perspective, the author believes that the lack of sex education and consciousness is an important reason for the success and persistence of such crimes. After all, conscious girls will not easily believe that "rape" is a form of love.
Fang Siqi is very fragile.
On the one hand, her fragility belongs to nature, which comes from enamel glaze-she is a child with little experience and little strength, and her body and mind are in the stage of being cared for, but she will be broken when she bumps. Li Guohua said, "An enamel doll girl will never break if no one intentionally throws her to the ground. ... so as to truly change a person's life. "
Most importantly, Fang Siqi's fragility comes from her self-knowledge and maintenance of beauty. In the tone of Li Guohua, "Fang Siqi's self-esteem finally made Li Guohua determined to take this step. Such a delicate child won't say it because it's too dirty. " The enamel is broken. Call a craftsman to repair it. Maybe it can be restored to its original state. But if it is not repaired, it will only continue to deteriorate until the metal blank inside rusts to death.
I think that's why the house will return to the abuser. Because only around the perpetrator can she show her ugly side.
The second rule is: educated girls.
Li Guohua said, "Let her be crushed in the sea of words that middle school boys still don't understand Chinese, let her feel the growth in words, and then let her soul deceive her body. She, a middle school student full of difficult words, ... told her that with him behind her, her body could catch up with her soul. "
At the same time, Li Guohua "deliberately plays the fool (Li Guohua's daughter) because he knows best what more educated people will do."
We always think that educated people will be less deceived. In fact, culture itself is deceptive. When a person believes in culture, he will cheat himself in live high as expected in culture. Therefore, Li Guohua believes that a stupid daughter can follow her instinct to ask for help in times of crisis, and Fang Siqi, who has a bookshelf of books, will consider love and social vision in this matter, and eventually cheat her soul and then cheat her body.