Wen | Wen Er
When browsing the forums, I saw a mother raise a question, after the child is weaned, I have to go to work, the mother-in-law from the old home to help me take care of the child. My husband suggested that I give my mother-in-law a little pocket money every month, but I think it's right for my mother-in-law to help with the baby, so there's no need to give her money. So I would like to ask you all, the elderly to help bring up children, you give money?
I saw some of the replies from the moms below, and I think some of the people who have been there say very pertinent things, and it's very heartwarming.
Wenwen's mom: Of course I should give it, my husband and I don't have a high salary every month, but I also give my mother-in-law 1,000 yuan of pocket money every month. Because my mother-in-law helps to bring up the child, my husband and I can go to work without worrying, this money is considered to be our heart.
Jasmine Blossom: The old man to help with the baby is a favor rather than a job, the old man to leave their original living environment to adapt to another place would not be easy to give a little money is also a comfort.
Tinkerbell: It is definitely necessary to give ah, please a nanny money a lot of flowers, and also do not worry. The elderly to help bring how good ah, how also cheaper than the nanny, than the nanny peace of mind.
In fact, think about the elderly after retirement can enjoy their own life, and good sister with square dancing, to travel, but also to go to a senior class, learn some new skills, enjoy not for the children to worry about their own lives, but the reality is that the old people one by one to the children with children.