Bossy mother-in-law

Early in the morning, my girlfriend Y came to complain to me, her mother-in-law, who has four sons of the strange mother-in-law from the countryside to pick a fight, taking turns in a few daughter-in-law's home to make trouble, pretending to be a ghost, no peace. When she was pregnant in the in-laws to give birth to a child out, can be described as escape from death, her mother-in-law because she is a provincial daughter-in-law, usually more scolding and unfair treatment, pregnant also have to go to the orchard to do a lot of manual labor, the month did not eat a meal of meat. More than ten years past, the two families finally raised eyebrows in the city to take root. The aging and disease-ridden mother-in-law was persistent in her dislike of her, but she did not change her mind. The other daughters-in-law are no better, and are equally bossy. The traditional filial piety of the sons, enjoying the daughters-in-law of the food and clothing, one foot into the mud, one foot still trembling to ride to the head of the daughter-in-law to splash.

This type of mother-in-law is actually not uncommon, like to rely on the old bully daughter-in-law. There is no half of the elders of the temperament style, it is estimated that young people do people daughter-in-law have suffered from the gas of the mother-in-law, it is not easy to become a woman of course, to intensify to get back, can not let the year's suffering ate in vain.

Friend W's mother-in-law is more excessive than this, and her husband, oh no, now is the ex-husband, when the relationship is very good, in the county to open a family workshop to do curtains and fabrics, business is booming. The only thing that's wrong with this is that I've had three consecutive pregnancies. The only shortcoming is that three consecutive pregnancies are accidentally aborted, the first time, the mother-in-law is very expressed pain, chicken soup stew tonic. To the second time obviously on the face of the face, worried about becoming habitual miscarriage, difficult to raise in the future. His husband has been comforting her to take care of her, finally let her heart a little better. But to the third accident, the mother-in-law can no longer hold back, calculated that the daughter-in-law difficult to raise, forcing the son to divorce, this kind of daughter-in-law will be broken. The son naturally refused, so she forced her to die. The son was forced to be sandwiched between his mom and his wife, and in the face of this choice that never has a right answer, he finally gave up his wife.

In the early years of my grandmother also belongs to the overbearing mother-in-law, when the parents just married a few years shortly after the conflict, the youthful mother could not afford to sue the grandmother, I want to grandma justice, I did not expect to believe that 'the moon is only round, the children are only good for their own' grandmother's elbow to turn in, not only do not help her daughter-in-law to speak, but also reprimanded the daughter-in-law is not. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.

So a small quarrel between the two into a family war, the mother is not willing to show weakness, in the prime of the grandmother is not afraid of this yellow hair daughter-in-law, son is not good can not be said by you? The woman is not afraid of this yellow-haired daughter-in-law, the son is not good can you say? If it is not the wise grandfather to intervene in time to stop, I am afraid that the three of us have long been separated from where.

That is the old generation of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship. Nowadays, young mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law have long been less tense with each other. Nowadays, the mother-in-laws have been educated to become smart, living a comfortable life naturally become less temperamental. If you have time to listen in on the half-hour chit-chat before the square dance starts at 7 p.m. in the neighborhood, you'll know that mothers-in-law and young daughters-in-law are much more at peace with each other nowadays. At least on the surface.

Auntie L has been bringing up her grandchildren at her son's house for two years now, and has only gone back once in between because of her daughter-in-law's complaints. That time, her daughter-in-law expressed her dissatisfaction with her feeding style, and Auntie L immediately and dryly packed up and went back to her hometown without arguing or quarrelling. When her son apologized and asked her to come, Auntie L said, "Then I won't come, my feeding is not scientific, I can only raise my son, I can't raise your son. She had no choice but to ask her daughter-in-law to come and plead with her, saying, "Since you can raise a good son, we are sure you can bring up a good grandson. Since then there have been no more complaints. I have to say that Auntie L is simply overbearing.

The next door, Auntie X, expressed disbelief and said with a smile, "What's the use of you winning the momentum? It is still not to sell old life for them. My son and daughter-in-law begged me again, I do not go to them to bring the child, I have worked hard for most of my life should enjoy. Now I can get some money a month to buy food and clothes for my grandchildren, and they are just as respectful.

The evolution of the mother-in-law is simply a history of civilization. There are certainly more sensible mothers-in-law than overbearing ones. I admire those who can love their daughters-in-law as their daughters, as well as the son of the daughter-in-law once the fight on the side of the daughter-in-law unconditionally pointed out that the son is not a smart mother-in-law, that is a family's blessing. The eternal topic of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship, cut and cut, in fact, as long as we do respect each other and sympathize with each other as a family, less interference and more care, there will not be a big problem.

Luckily, my mom only has a daughter and not a son, otherwise I bet she would have inherited her mother-in-law's tradition of being extremely critical of her daughter-in-law, and the elbow has to be turned in the same way. Hush! I can't let her hear this, or I might become her daughter-in-law in my imagination.