The epidemic has come on strong, but it has left reluctantly, and has come to bother us a little bit to return to a peaceful life. I originally planned to wait for the epidemic to pass, back to Xi'an to visit my parents, did not expect to wait for is once again the whole of Shenzhen citizens alert.
June 20, Father's Day, I thought of my father, the man who used to go door to door every morning to collect goat's milk, thin body, always through a stream of indomitable. In those hard times when he lacked money to spend, my father still wore a smile every day and was busy. Although he did not do anything earth-shattering, but he used strong will and hard work sweat, for us to hold up a sky.
On the day of the Dragon Boat Festival, my father and my mother were chatting on WeChat video, and my father said happily that his health was very good, and that he could eat and sleep every day, so I didn't have to worry about them. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
Looking at the video of my father's face with a happy smile, I remembered that my father has been in his old age, in the peaceful enjoyment of his old age, but suffered a big disaster from the sky. 2019 Spring Festival, home to visit his parents, to see his father in recovery, my mother's sentence, "you almost can't see the old man," let me The first time I saw this, I was so happy to see you, and I was so happy to see you.
That disaster, my father stayed in the ICU ward for more than a month, and we siblings took turns to guard outside the ward, hoping every day that my father, who has always claimed to be strong, would be able to stand up again. But we could only watch our father lying on the hospital bed in pain, but we could do nothing. The feeling of being unable to do anything, let us every day can only clutch a heart.
The good thing is that the hard days are over, and my father, as strong as he was when he was young, has survived a journey to the gates of hell.
My mother said that she and my father drank the protein powder we bought every day, and their bodies became more and more robust, and their spirits were very high, and their high blood pressure had disappeared. I was on the other end of the video phone call, feeling my parents' happiness, and my own heart was also happy. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
My father was in the 1950s when the state planned to build the Sanmenxia Dam to make a big migration event, followed by my grandparents to leave the country, after all the hardships, and fell to the place where we now live. After being introduced, I met my mother and got married, and gave birth to several of our siblings.
Perhaps it was the difficult life on the immigrant road that made my father treasure this family. He put all his heart and soul into us, and although the family was very poor, it was a very happy family.
My father was a milk collector at the time. He got up at 4:00 or 5:00 a.m. every morning, and went from door to door to collect goat's milk from the neighboring villages, and then sent it to the milk station, so as to earn money to support the family. The father's work is very hard, no matter how windy or rainy it is, the work is the same every day.
One time when it was raining, my father finished delivering the goat's milk and rode the goat's milk cart to his home, struggling to move forward in the rain. The result, because the rain is too big, the father did not see the front of the road, even with the car fell headlong into the roadside ditch.
Early in the morning in the countryside, shrouded in sudden rain and fog, the villagers are still hiding at home, eating breakfast, the road even a ghost shadow can not be seen. Father looked at the car and milk bucket collapsed in the canal, half a day back to God. It is good to have finished the goat's milk, otherwise, he really did not know what to do. Not caring about the physical pain, my father moved the car and the milk bucket back to the road by himself. The car was so broken that he could not ride it anymore, so he could only push it home. When he returned home, we found that his father's clothes had been dripping water down, and his arms and face were injured.
When my mother asked my father, "How did you get like this?"
My father only said, "I fell, I'm fine!"
We wanted to put medicine and wine on him, but he refused to do so, saying that it was a minor injury and that he didn't need to worry too much about it.
No matter how hard life is, my father never complained. He hid all the suffering and pressure deep in his heart, and stood by himself.
It is said that "the truth comes out when you are drunk", and this is also the case with my father. When he was drunk, he would cry out that he was so bitter and tired. Whenever he was drunk, he would cry out that he was so tired and miserable. Whenever he was drunk, I could feel the heavy pressure on my father and the burden on the family.
However, the next day after he sobered up, he seemed to forget all about what happened when he was drunk, and he was motivated to continue working hard to earn money.
My father would come home from work every day with a new pair of shoes, a new dress, a new pair of shoes, and a pack of white rabbit milk candies, which made my siblings feel happy.
I remember when I was in elementary school, I came home from school one day. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good look at this. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new pair of shoes, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new pair of shoes, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new pair of shoes.
It was a pair of very beautiful leather-soled lace-up embroidered boat shoes, which I had always dreamed of. My second sister was so excited that she felt happier than if she had bought a new pair of shoes for herself, which made all the students who came home from school together cast envious glances.
All of this seems like yesterday, and it is still fresh in my mind.
Our family has five brothers and sisters, and I am the third in line. People often use this sentence to describe the feelings of parents to several children in the family:
" big, to the small, in the middle of the sandwich a suffering. " But in my father's heart, I was never ignored and forgotten.
When I was a child, I was very thin, weak, often sick, my father as long as the home, no matter how busy, will take me to the neighboring village doctor.
Once I had a high fever, very serious, with a temperature as high as forty degrees. My father and mother were very anxious, they were afraid of burning out my brain. My father carried me all the way to the doctor's house and anxiously asked the doctor to see me.
Fortunately, the treatment was timely, and my body temperature quickly returned to normal, so my father and mother were relieved. The first thing I did was to take me to the doctor's place to check that everything was normal, and then I let go of my heart.
When I was in middle school, I attended a middle school in town. One winter, my feet were frozen and swollen so high that I couldn't walk. During that time, my father, in order not to delay my schooling, specifically ran to the school, to pick me up to go home to see a doctor.
I went to school in Yanliang in high school, far from home. One day, the weather suddenly turned cold during my stay at school. Dad was worried that I was freezing, he was hungry, riding a bicycle for dozens of miles, to give me a thick cotton clothes. He himself, but because he was in a hurry, did not have time to change clothes, wearing a single coat, freezing in the cold wind shivering.
I grew up with anemia and was afraid of needles. Once in the school physical examination activities, fainted because of the needle. As soon as my father and mother heard the news, they were nervous. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling.
The first time I went to college, my father was not letting me suffer for my living expenses, and he went to Xi'an, where he worked at a construction site to earn my living expenses. The first month just after the paycheck, my father ran to our school, to send me the living expenses. Looking at my father's thin body, I couldn't help but shed tears. I secretly vowed in my heart, I must work to earn money, can not let my parents worry about themselves again.
Then I went to school and worked part-time to earn a living as a tutor. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it. When asked, I realized that my father had gone to the market to prepare for the New Year's Eve, and had only two hundred dollars on him, which had been stolen by thieves. The father was y remorseful and regretful for his carelessness, and worried about how the family would spend the New Year.
When I took out a few hundred dollars from my pocket and handed it to my father, he was in tears. I feel like I've really grown up," he said.
My father is an acute, hot-tempered person, but in my impression, he never seemed to scold us. On the contrary, my mother, who has always been calm, would teach us a lesson from time to time for doing something wrong.
The only time my father was angry with my siblings was with my second sister.
On that occasion, we were playing in front of the house with a few young sisters from the village. Maybe because we play too much into, father shouted a few times the second sister, but the second sister like did not hear like, just focus on playing. My father was in a hurry to do something, and his hot temper was instantly angered by my second sister. The father casually copied the hand of a small bench, threw out.
My father originally wanted to scare us, but I didn't expect the bench to hit a little girl who passed by on the main road in front of our house, causing her head to swell up with a big bag. My father apologized to the family for this and paid the medical expenses.
Father regretted his reckless behavior. Since then, he has never thrown anything out of anger again.
In our family, my mother was responsible for cooking, and my father took care of all the other chores, big and small, and handled them quickly.
Our father bought all the clothes and footwear for the whole family. Although my father never took us to the market to pick out clothes, the clothes and shoes he bought every time fit us well, and the styles and colors were all to our liking.
Maybe I'm used to my father doing all this for me.
When I went to college, the first time my classmates pulled me to buy clothes, I reflexively blurted out, "No, my father will buy for me."
Even when I went to the mall with my classmates, I was at a loss for what to do when I looked in the window at the wide array of clothes in various styles.
When I got married and had children after graduating from college, I got my parents to live with us in Shenzhen to help me take care of the kids. My husband and I are busy with work, and rarely have time to spend with them. So, usually it's the old couple who accompany and take care of each other.
The mother is still only responsible for cooking, and the father takes care of everything else at home. This way, the mother has a free time, often go out to dance and play softball, but also with a group of uncles and aunts around the neighborhood to participate in a variety of elderly competition activities. The father always quietly support the mother, as long as the mother is happy, the father will also be happy.
In 2019, I need to renovate the house I bought in Chengdu, and my husband and I both work in Shenzhen, so I need someone to help us with the whole renovation process. I've been struggling with this, and when I discussed it with my parents, they were happy to take my son and go over to Chengdu to help look after it.
The house renovation lasted a few months, and my father was busy every day, helping me to take care of the house.
In the meantime, my father celebrated his birthday, and I forgot about it. My father and mother didn't bother us, and on my birthday, they took my son out for a meal and took a picture at the photo studio as a souvenir.
Years later, once back to my brother's home, in my parents' room to see this photo, only to hear my mother told me about the story behind this photo. I felt so ashamed for forgetting my father's birthday and not doing my duty as a daughter, but at the same time I was happy for my parents' romance and love for each other.
The age of the wind and frost of the people old, in a flash, the father has been the old age. In the past two years, both parents live in their home county and help their brother take care of their grandchildren.
2019 and 2020 are two extremely extraordinary years for our family. My father went through a major catastrophe, my mother went through my father's major illness during these two years, and was herself hospitalized for two surgeries because she couldn't see well with her retinal detachment, but fortunately it wasn't as severe as my father's.
The first time my father fell ill and was hospitalized in ICU, my mother was so worried that she couldn't sleep almost every night, and several times she had to come to the hospital to watch over my father herself. Fortunately, we have many siblings, persuaded the mother to come to the hospital to take care of father's idea. And the main thing is that there are still grandchildren at home to take care of, or else my mother will always be at my father's side.
And during the two hospitalizations of my mother, my father did not move an inch from my mother, and always stayed with her, like a little child, although his old man still needed us to take care of him at that time. The good thing is that my mother just can't see her eyes, and she was discharged from the hospital soon after the surgery.
I'm in Shenzhen, I can't be with the two old men every day, and I'm always worried about their health. Since my father was discharged from the hospital last year, I've been buying protein powder for them to drink in order to enhance my father's physique.
Now my father and mother have recovered healthily, my mother said that my father now drinks the protein powder we bought every day, his body is getting stronger and stronger, his spirit is very strong, my father every time he mentioned his physical recovery, he is very proud of himself, and smiled with a face full of wrinkles.
My father said that he didn't need to bother his mother to give him a bath and change his clothes, and that he could take care of himself completely, so I think it's because of my mother's care for my father in the past two years that my father's heart ached.
Every time I video chat with my parents, I look at the two of them and see how much love and care they have for each other, which makes me feel a little bit more comfortable in my heart.
Today, on Father's Day, I talked to my mother on the phone early in the morning, and learned that the epidemic there has been alleviated, and they can not take masks outside to sneak around. However, I still urged my mother and father to be more careful.
At noon, my little sister sent me a photo of the whole family gathering, which turned out to be a celebration of Father's Day, my little sister and my little brother invited a few old people to get together and have fun. Listening to the little sister said father's appetite is good, I will be doubly pleased. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it.
When I was a kid, my father used his thin body and hard work to hold up a sky for us. Now the old age of the father, it is time for us to return the father, I wish my father a happy holiday, I hope that his old man can always live a healthy and safe.