The day before yesterday, a roommate suddenly asked me, "would you choose this useless, cowardly, good Franke?" Can you accept it if your partner's career is not as successful as yours? " I looked at her with two eyes. I don't know whether she didn't understand the movie because of emotional intelligence or whether she really didn't watch it. I want to say that Frank is not a man who has accomplished nothing. If a woman is mature enough, she can't resist his charm! 3000 RMB can't even hang a scalper number, which proves what an excellent doctor he is! He has a successful career, but for his family, his daughter who loves her like a life, and his wife. I am willing to give up my good career prospects and cater to my wife's wishes. In America, I take care of my daughter's life and study alone. I'm not afraid of being scolded to death by others, or in other words, laughing at him as a soft rice, but I still take care of my family without regrets. I want to say that this is a heart that most men don't deserve. Who can retire when his career is in full swing? Even so, he didn't say a bad word to his wife, but also helped her with her wedding dress and forgot to take off his wedding ring at the wedding. It's really great. It hurts. I'm not saying this because I want my future lover to give up his career for me. If I am lucky, I can't bear to treat such a man with such a heart. It is also very important that there is no such bitter resentment on his face. I've seen this look in my ex's eyes. Obviously, he doesn't have such a mind, and he can't accept such a failure. Obviously, he can't accept that I did what he didn't do, but he has to pretend to be bold and open-minded when he goes out. I passed the interview and he didn't. From the moment he said he would destroy the company and never go there again anyway, I completely saw through this. Moreover, I was particularly moved by his words and deeds of taking care of his daughter, the conversation between "old fox" and "little fox" when helping her deliver asthma medicine, and the warm plot of spending Christmas with her daughter. I'll talk about the father-daughter plot later. By the way, I especially like tall people carrying baby seats. This is the most handsome moment for boys. There is a scene in the play where franke holds the baby seat and Wen Jiajia in his right hand and says I have something better. His image is instantly tall in my eyes! When I was working in America, I met an American boy who confidently told me that he wanted to buy sanitary napkins. I stared at him blankly, and he naturally said to me, yes, it's for my girlfriend. I really appreciated him at that time. The image is extremely tall.
Then I will talk about whether I can accept the topic that my future husband's career is not as successful as mine. Maybe everyone around me thinks I'm an ambitious person. Actually, I want to say that I'm not enterprising, and I don't particularly like dressing down Fang Qiu women in suits and ties in the workplace. There is no point in showing it to others. I work so hard because I have the ability to do what I really want to do-NGO. Because I have enough material capital to live the life I want and pay for my trip. That is, for my dream, so I don't particularly care about success in the eyes of the secular. I just can't stand people who don't work hard! Especially men who are not motivated and do not work hard! Hard work and self-motivation do not mean quick success. Many so-called "hard-working" boys around have read a lot of books about success, such as Modesty-There is no more difficult business from now on, Larrabee, How to reprimand Fang Qiu in finance, The Golden Key to Success and so on. I hate this kind of successful book. Boys who are "hardworking" in the eyes of roommates are just watching "teaching you to buy a car for two years and buy a house for three years" all day. Speaking of which, you should understand my understanding of hard work and self-motivation. So I don't care who earns more money and whose reputation is louder and brighter. I care whether this person works hard and has a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, so I like talented people. Just use a lyric from Christine: "I really don't care as long as I can snuggle up together. The so-called "snuggling" means that when my career and dreams encounter difficulties, he gives me inner strength to help me make suggestions and overcome difficulties. When I was about to give up, he encouraged me to stick to it and achieve my goal. His shoulders are my harbor. Just like in the movie, Frank gave a thumbs-up many times and said "Come on". In fact, how happy it is for two people to sit on the windowsill and blow the summer wind together and share the happiness of the day quietly. I cut the fruit and he mixed the salad, which is the greatest happiness. Isn't this the best portrayal of a happy family life? Two people can understand each other, have the same life beliefs, and two people pursue one thing. I like this kind of love very much. So I like to learn to mix wine, taste red wine, ponder aromatherapy, watch videos on youtube that teach people to plan and use home space, and so on. I just think these are the wisdom of a happy life. Being a housewife is something I resist, but I like the exquisiteness of life. Being a person who can make people happy will make them feel happier. It is very important to make themselves and their loved ones happy. I won't say that I don't care about money at all. The money is right. I won't treat money like dirt. I like money. Why not? It gives me a better quality of life and is a guarantee not to starve to death. My goal is that two people can live a high-quality life, but I never thought of owning tens of thousands of Prada and Hermes bags and scarves. With that money, I can travel around the world dozens of times! Now let's talk about the last one: Frank's "weakness". Frank is indeed a man without temper, but once in the play, he had a big fight with Wen for his daughter. I want to say that he is the kind of person who is not angry and arrogant. In other things, he is accommodating and easy-going. But when it comes to the crunch, I never lose my chain. I am particularly responsible, independent and good at making decisions. For example, when he was in new york, he went to the police station to solve the misunderstanding and take his daughter home. When he was at the police station, he managed his emotions well and didn't get angry at all. He calmly told Wen Jiajia how to solve the problem, and the reaction decision was very quick and the method was very accurate. Finally, what kind of temper is out of the police station to be very angry with my daughter, because my beloved daughter is his daughter for life! How can such a man be weak? I want to say that his emotional intelligence is very high! When Wen Jiajia fainted, she made a clean phone call with Dr. Tang, without a word of nonsense. She talked to the doctor in the hospital and saved the lives of mother and daughter. I didn't panic at all. Although Dr. Tang used to call him DB, he smiled and didn't refute anything. Something really happened. He can especially point out all the problems of Dr. Tang. When Dr. Tang scolded him for not having a medical license, he retorted angrily, "I saw more patients today than you did in a week." Come to the hospital if you don't want to have an accident! "Then shake Jia Jia's hand hard to keep her awake and hold her hand all the time. Generally speaking, his broad mind doesn't care what others say. When his life was at stake, he was unequivocal. How can this be called weakness?
Say that, and then say I like the details of the plot. Regarding the deep affection between father and daughter, in the doctor interview of franke in new york, the daughters accompanied him to the interview one by one. Their conversation, dialogue and eyes make me feel that Julie and her father's father and daughter, like a pair of comrades-in-arms, fight for their dream life together, and father and daughter are their respective shoulders. This is a revolutionary feeling. Dad takes care of his daughter's daily life, and her daughter gives him strength and encouragement! Every time franke and julie hug, I feel warm! There are two lines that I especially like. Wen Jiajia fainted at the wedding, so Franke picked her up and rushed to the hospital. I like a series of plots, feeling full of love and special men! "26 years old, pregnant for the first time, ten days after the expected date of delivery, so I got rock preeclampsia! Are you a doctor? Yes! His understanding of a pregnant woman is not because of duty, but because of love. A person's understanding and care for a person is so meticulous, is there any reason not to be moved? ! "What kind of bird certificate did you take? You are so handsome as a doctor! "Very good. I refuel ",the shallow smile and self-confidence on my face, and the hand holding Jia Jia's hand especially moved me. In the back, "You are 44 years old. Can you tell us why it took you so long to come back? " "In order to get my life back. "Suddenly let me go. Plus Jia Jia's self-report: "I'm trying to make my shoulders strong. Maybe it will be a little bitter and tired, but I have earned every penny and spent it practically. I think only on that day can I say to the person I love, hey, I'm ready for love to fall from the sky. What about you? "What a beautiful passage, girls really should have this mentality. This is also the growth of Wen Jiajia after so many experiences. These two people are becoming better selves for each other. In fact, Wen Jiajia at the beginning of the film is also a rich man with "China characteristics" thinking. I can feel that she has many similarities with many wealthy tourists from China who come to Macau, but what happened after Christmas made her start to think and examine herself and her life. I slowly began to understand the truth and grow up. Therefore, whether a person can be happy is often not whether he meets the right person, but whether he can get rid of his wrong self. Only a better self deserves a happier love and life. If Wen Jiajia hadn't grown up, she couldn't be with franke. A man who loves his daughter as much as his life in his forties can't fall in love with someone casually. And such a difficult little girl will not accept an aunt casually. She deserves all this happiness.
After Jia Jia returned to China, she called the old clock. The old clock said, which capable man do you think is at home with his wife and children all day? This sentence, my mother, my grandmother, they chat during my period, has been repeated countless times. At first, I didn't care. Later, I found that most of the families I saw in China were divided into three types. 1) Men don't have time for their wives and children, so go out and do something. And women's vision is derailed from the real society, and they don't have the same topic. 2) Both men and women are strong men, lucky enough to be together, but unfortunately divorced. But none of them are at home, and the children are loveless. 3) Men stay at home, women are awesome, and then women scold men for lifting their heads every day. Very ... sad ... so this sentence makes me feel healthy love or what I think is healthy love. My favorite marriage is to be a harbor for each other. There is a scene, in the kitchen, Wen Jiajia is making soup, and Frank is sitting at the western-style dining table with paper and pen to prepare for the blackboard test. The steaming kitchen is full of warmth and love. There's nothing better. Wen Jiajia also said that I have to make my shoulders strong before I can tell the person I love that I am ready for love to fall from the sky. Therefore, love should not conflict with future careers. It should be two people who support each other and encourage each other to become better themselves for love and family. This kind of balanced and warm love will be happy. Only when a person grows up relatively soundly and experiences love again will it be easier to get happiness. Love and the future are in perfect harmony. Marriage and love are particularly beautiful! Wen Jiajia's child was born and lived with Frank. How warm and happy Julie was when Frank covered her with a blanket for the sleeping mother and daughter! They painted franke as a big face, and then there was a deleted plot on the internet, which made me warm! Franke who takes care of Jiajia can give me a strong sense of security and warmth.
When Beijing met Seattle, I met too many dreams about life and love. Help me think more clearly. I also saw myself and my former love more clearly. Give me great warmth when I am sad. I just broke up with ex when I stopped watching movies and reviews. I'm still sad. Isn't he the one who can run a few blocks to buy soybean milk? After watching the movie, franke's warmth, mind, care and charm are unparalleled. Either riding a white horse, a prince or buying soybean milk is franke, haha, just kidding.
I said a lot, a lot of truth. I really hope I can do all this. I am still constantly enriching myself and practicing. Life is a kind of practice. I heard it when I was a sophomore, but now I finally understand it. From 1 to now, I have encountered many difficulties, setbacks, bullying, happiness, happiness, success, and the process of hard work and so on. All this is constantly casting a different new me. Those hardships and happiness are all processes that must be experienced in practice, and then those who realize and comprehend will become better themselves over time.
By the way, the actor Tang Wei taught me a sentence: "The husband is indisputable, so the world can't compete with him." In her own words, there is no doubt that there is also your world. An actor who is too comfortable. Very plastic, just like you play. Unlike some actors who are too strong in flavor, they performed "eggplant" once, and everything behind them turned out to be like "eggplant"! Tang Wei is carrot, pepper and eggplant, all of which are well explained. But I think she can grow up better. Ang Lee is really good at judging people.