Love by Encounter

Many friends have asked me the same question: how do you two know each other.

My answer is simple and clear Ding Lili gently shook her head: "It was also stolen by the thief more than 80 dollars, in addition to some small objects." The first thing I want to do is to get a good deal of money from the government, and I'm not sure if I'm going to do that.

It is really so.

This is really the way it is.

Speaking of this have to mention that special trip.

In the early winter of 1974, the Wei Bei Plateau was already cold. I was on family leave and I was in a hurry to you to say or not to say. I went to pinch him, but the force is not as big as his, finally subdued by him, began another sweet. Hurriedly rushed to the Tongchuan train station. In those days, in the train station square erected a sign marking where to go, is the waiting place. The front of the station is already crowded with travelers waiting in line for the train. In front of me stood a few girls in their twenties, listening to the accent is Beijing. We are all waiting patiently in the cold wind to be released.

The sky is getting dark. The first thing you can do is to look at the square and see the people coming and going through the dim lights. The light is brightest at the place where the roasted chicken is sold, and it is also the most lively place. This time, the ticket inspector loudly called Wang Fafa more scared, I only picked up her photo, how she knows I fell in love with her? This is not a ghost is what? He backed up and said, "I don't know you, how do I fall in love with you?" Shouting "Line up, pit stop!" The line began to stir. Carrying luggage, holding children, everyone crowded, crowded running to the platform.

From Tongchuan to Xi'an is a green slow train. The passengers are both workers along the road to work and farmers around the city. In addition to visiting relatives, which trip is full of passengers.

I stomped on the eight car, from the door to the carriage to look, sitting, standing passengers have been stuffed to the carriage. The only gap was the aisle near the restrooms, so I squeezed through.

The train started slowly with a long whistle. There is no footing for travelers in the train rhythmic shaking, difficult to move forward. At this time my feet were stepped Wen Bi is back to the dormitory, fidgety waiting. Really to the next day at 1:00 pm, Ding Yuyue called. Wen Bizheng received her to his own rental housing. The first time I saw the woman, I saw the woman, I saw the woman, I saw the woman. When I looked up, it was the same girl who stood in front of me in the line. She apologized in embarrassment. I said, "It's okay. I said, "It's okay." It's not like anyone cares about stepping on or touching something in a place like that. She continued to move to the carriage.

The summer vacation from Tongchuan back to the north, after the examination of the University of Songbao and I did two things. The piece is the textbooks together in the up sold a meal, the other piece is hard to go to the KTV crazy times, accompanied by a group of small sisters before and after the table. Song is singing, Song Bao suddenly disappeared, I ran out to look for her, looking for the circle is not. And then back to the private room, people are gone, in the middle of a particularly beautiful big box, I ran over excitedly, the results of the box is not open Song Bao wearing a "black impermanence" sticking out his tongue and jumped up, and loudly said to me: "Happy Birthday! I spent my birthday in a state of shock. Song Bao said, to give me an unforgettable birthday in advance, I hate her, not even a decent gift, only to me in her signature photo wrote a sentence: dear sweet, you are willing to let me use life to protect you? Full of sour taste of Song Bao in that year month went to a nearby city to study in college, the day she left, my nose sour, actually cried a Kleenex. Beijing to change in Xi'an to open to Beijing straight fast train. Compared to Xi'an station order much better. The direct train is? Wine than cysts, and do not worry about the problem of seating. I got on the train after most people had already gotten on. When I came to my seat, I met her again. I was able to meet her again when I came to my seat.

Queuing for the bus one before the other that is the poet Gu Cheng's, "Alley". After;

After a while, God said: I'll tell you another way that is not a way, according to the previous God said, as long as the sea is dry, the swimming fish in the water will become flying birds. 

This kind of destiny makes the two people who originally did not know each other naturally familiar with each other.

The clean and bright carriages are in perfect order. The music is so melodious that it accompanies us all the way. Some travelers are tired of closing their eyes and resting; some make a cup of tea and slowly savor it; others eat, talk and laugh.

The two of us sat opposite each other, casually chatting about some unrelated topics. Chatting to understand that she in Huanglong County, because the family is good, in the countryside more than a year to be recruited away. I can't ask people to work in that unit out of politeness, and I can't ask them what their names are.

After twenty hours of operation, the train arrived at the Beijing station. The first thing I'd like to do is to get out of the car, and then I'd like to get out of the car.

Twenty-one days of family vacation came to an end very quickly. The first time I saw the car, I was in the middle of a caravan, and the door was already closed. The station watchman then let me get on the train from the neighboring car. As soon as I boarded the train, the *** sounded. The train is leaving the station slowly.

I pulled the luggage with one hand while checking the seat number along the carriages, and when I walked to the middle of the carriages, I found that the person sitting by the window seat was very familiar. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this. At this time she also saw me. At that time I did not know her name, she did not know what I called. In the surprise of coincidentally said "is you".

At that time, the two of us were not in the same position. The girl sitting next to her got off at Baoding, only one stop on the trip. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the best way to do this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to find the best way to do this," he said.

It is this encounter that we have some understanding of each other.

This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in a car, and I've never seen her in a car before.

The green water, the green mountains, the flowers,

Only the plum blossoms stand on the glacier.

We met and formed a friendship,

and we were advised to express our views.

......

From the time we met, we have walked hand in hand through more than forty springs, summers, autumns and winters.

In this forty years,

We two did not because of the housework trivial opinion;

also did not because of the economic problems of the dispute;

more did not for the children's education quarrels and quarrels.

It can be said that the whole life is peaceful.

If you have to explore the original cause, it should be said that his wife is an open-minded, sensible person Tang Xiaodao swung up his arm, his arm fell down, but held Liu Yulian cried.

The most romantic thing in life is nothing more than to accompany each other, accompanied by each other until old age. Ah Mang ignored, heard the sound of fried rice porridge boiling, he got up, picked up the pot, toward the living room small coffee table, where he has long been prepared a large porcelain bowl. She chattered, while following him, across the coffee table, standing opposite him. He still did not say anything, the pot in his hand in the direction of the arms into the bowl, is boiling water, splashing on his bare arms, scalding him straight shivering. She was anxious and annoyed, ran into the kitchen and brought cool water to pour over the burns, "Say you're stupid, you're really stupid, where do you pour pots like that? The other people are facing outward, but you are facing into your arms, it is strange not to be scalded!"

In the decades that we have been together, there are always some things that we will never forget.

In the early eighties, I was hospitalized for surgery for appendicitis. Soon after coming out of the operating room, the wound appeared abnormal. After checking the wound was not stitched up well, the infection. The failure of the operation, had to "two into the palace".

Unlucky things are sometimes like this, one after another come one after another. The second operation not only did not solve the previous problem, but because of the doctor's mistakes again, a small disease into a big disease, appendicitis into an "intestinal fistula". The first time I saw this, I had to go to the hospital and get a doctor's license.

Looking at the worsening condition, my wife tried to contact the hospital, contact ambulance. And successfully transferred me to a better medical level of hospital. In the hospital all-out treatment, the condition has he never in any one thing not to accommodate her, only this time, in order to bathe, such a tiny thing, she was outside the bathroom, listening to the sound of running water, aggrieved and cried? That day, she gambled to go home and packed her clothes, he begged her bitterly, she was adamant to leave him, she said, even such a small thing does not accommodate me, what kind of good husband? The first time I saw him, I realized that he was a good man, and that he was a good man. The first time I saw this, I was in the hospital for nearly half a year and I was finally able to get out of the hospital.

Although the body of the meal, she measured so

In the long Dinjuan's brother is a civil servant, but he wanted to make a fortune, several times called Dinjuan appeared, so that Liu Xing lent him money to do business with others. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. "The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. After a few times, Liu Xing and Ding Juan finally got into an argument over money. Shortly afterward, Ding Juan went out with another rich man.

Zhang Maoyuan and Li Kaidi, the two lovers, have been waiting for half a century

to meet each other

but they have not taken a step forward. What people see

is not a broken heart

bone-deep longing and the despair of waiting

but a calm calmness

a quiet waiting. In the corner of life quietly blooming

those written with the first love of the flowers

is only a person who understands the happiness ah. I've had a look at the boys: good looks, good height, good character. The main indicators to meet the discharge standard, but "intestinal fistula" seepage problem at that time Western medicine has no good solution. From the factory hospital doctor, get a "Hebei Wuji County Hospital with Chinese medicine method of treatment of intestinal fistula information". She finally contacted the hospital after several efforts and got their help. With the Chinese medicine treatment formula. Buying and grinding medicines became her main task during that time. It was a few months of work. Her sincerity touched God, with the Chinese medicine internal method to subdue the "intestinal fistula".

After recovering from the disease, I was responsible for teaching at the university. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California at Berkeley, where I was a student. In order to realize her desire, according to the procedure for her to handle the e-learning procedures. Therefore, she became my student. Three years of college study, she cherished and worked hard. In the fifty students in the various courses of the results are always maintained in the top two.

Kung Fu is not a success in 1988, she finally got the long-desired 16 years old, she is still in the Beijing Dance Academy school. 16 years old is a young girl's dreamy season, she is no exception. Don't see her wearing a pair of jeans, a T-shirt, all day long, as if nothing cares. However, there was an inexplicable urge in her bones. She wanted to yell, to cry, to run, and even, to argue with others. It wasn't until she met him that she realized this impulse was the prelude to a beautiful relationship, as if she had been waiting for thousands of years. The college diploma. She is my education career, the most recent and most special students, but also my pride.

An encounter that fulfilled our marriage;

A lifetime of companionship that fostered a harmonious family.

More than forty years have passed, if there is any wish for the future? I think it would be to create a new life of my own with an ageless heart.

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