I wonder if you have heard of a reason for breaking up, called "you are too good to me"?
My good friend Weiwei has heard of it.
Three months ago, Wei Wei changed a new job and got to know A Feng, who is also a new employee. The other party enthusiastically pursued her, and Wei Wei also had a good impression on this handsome guy who came back from overseas and took him away.
Vivian's new job is actually quite boring. She needs to keep calling customers. When she has a new product, she must sell it to customers. At the end of the day, she can make hundreds of phone calls.
A Feng quickly resigned and said, Wei Wei, we are in love now, and it is not good to be in a company. I am willing to change my job for you.
Wei Wei was particularly moved to see A Feng so determined. I didn't expect to meet a man who is so considerate to his girlfriend.
However, A Feng rested for more than half a month and didn't find a new job. Seeing Wei Wei's urging, A Feng said, my friends and I invest in projects in partnership and get dividends every month. This is my new job.
Seeing A Feng's income, Wei Wei also reassured that it is also sweet to date after work every day.
There is only one thing, Vivian. This is first love, that kind of pure love. There is no feng. He is always worried about going to bed. He always wants to seize the opportunity to bring Wei Wei down, but Wei Wei is more traditional and sticks to the bottom line every time.
Over time, A Feng became indifferent to Wei Wei, did not take the initiative to date, did not answer the phone, and did not return to WeChat. Vivian, a good girl, is no longer attractive to him.
Then one day, A Feng, who was impatient with Weiwei WeChat, said to her, Let's break up. You are too good for me.
Wei Wei said that when she heard this sentence, she had an illusion that she was a fairy, fell in love with mortals, and then was dumped by mortals.
Of course, Wei Wei later learned that it was a project invested by his ex-girlfriend and a Feng. A Feng still has a photo of her in her mobile phone, with big false eyelashes, big red lips, wearing a low-necked dress and posing sexy on the bed.
In fact, radish and vegetables have their own tastes. What radish and vegetables does A Feng like to eat? You can chase them as soon as possible. It's just that the reason why he broke up with Vivian is too easy to give people the illusion and confusion, and it's too easy to leave room for himself and return to the grass.
He resigned because he couldn't stand the hard work, but he insisted that it was for Vivian.
He broke up not because "you are too good to me", but because "you are too serious and I like coquettish".
02
Sometimes, in order not to hurt the other person's self-esteem, when refusing, they will also say such words to comfort them.
When Chen Ke was in college, a shy boy pursued her.
This boy is a study committee member in the class and is very kind to people. He copied the final exam notes of the whole class. He brought all the meals in the dormitory. At Christmas, he gave beautifully packaged apples to every girl in the class at his own expense.
When the boy confessed to Chen Ke, Chen Ke was stunned. He didn't know how to refuse this kind offer, so he said, it's very kind of you. I don't deserve you. Forget it.
Boys are misled. Chen Ke's academic performance is very poor, and she loves to play. In order to keep up with her, boys skip classes every day and don't study, and the work of the study Committee is not good. When the final exam came, both he and Chen Ke failed.
The boys are still happy because they can resume classes with Chen Ke.
But does Chen Ke really think the other side is too good? No, she doesn't like boys' acne-covered faces, and she doesn't like the gas field where the other person is not domineering enough.
Chen Ke thought that ordinary people should know what this sentence means, but this boy is really a brain-dead.
So Chen Ke had to reject each other again. When he heard Chen Ke's explanation, the boy couldn't help saying, Shit.
I'm not saying it's all Chen Ke's fault. What I want to say is that when a person rejects you with "you are too good for me", she doesn't really think you are too good, but she thinks you don't deserve her.
So, when you hear this sentence, don't be complacent and don't misunderstand.
I don't believe that a single-minded, handsome and excellent Daniel Wu will stand in front of you and tell you that you are too kind to me. At least, you should make some efforts and try.
03
Whether boys or girls, when the person you like is excellent, she must try to catch up with each other, not push away.
In the mischievous kiss, when Yuan Xiang showed her white face, she was still a poor student in Class F "Hewei" and was the first god in her grade.
The admiration and appreciation deepened Yuan's love for him, so she studied hard and tried to make the names of the two people on the list closer and closer.
Everyone said that Qin Xiang was not good enough for Jiangnaoshu, and even Qin Xiang felt that she still liked it. If you like it enough, how can you push each other away because they are too good?
Her persistence and hard work finally let Jiang Zhishu see her own advantages, and everything will be fine.
Tell the truth, who will dislike that their other half is too good?
Xiao Shui in Little Things of First Love was originally an ugly duckling with dark skin, thick glasses bottle bottom and unobtrusive appearance, but she fell in love with A Liang, the most handsome boy in the school.
A Liang is not only tall and handsome, but also a dazzling football star in the school. Num did a lot of stupid things to get his attention.
In order to whiten her skin, she mashed oranges and painted them on her face. As a result, the yellow on her face could not be washed off the next day.
In order to get close to A Liang, a senior, she applied to join a dance club, groped in contact and was humiliated by her rival in love.
In English class, she sent a note to her best friend to express her love for A Liang, but the English teacher snatched her bag and said she was useless. ......
With various efforts, in the third grade, Num was thoroughly remoulded and became the man of the hour in the school. Finally, he summoned up the courage to confess to A Liang.
Although there were many mistakes, we were happy together in the end.
If you really don't feel worthy of the person you like, try to be better.
If you really don't like each other, then don't bully others with this sentence. You think your excuse is perfect.
The girl who was prevaricated by this sentence, such as Wei Wei, learned the truth, so she put Yu Nian down completely, and then smiled and said, Yes, the old lady is really good to him.