If someone accuses you of not letting do sit, you say "Sorry!
If someone accuses you of not letting them sit, just say, "I'm sorry!
Now the seats in the bus compartment is generally divided into red, orange and ordinary gray or blue color, generally red and orange seats are concentrated in the middle of the carriages on the left and right sides, the old carriages will not be more than 7, and now the new pure electricity in the middle of the three rows of seats in a special color of the seats are fewer, basically can have a seat, unless it is the peak of the point of a mix of a seat is difficult to a little bit of the peak of the week, basically can have a seat for everyone, just you said your own personal experience, and you will not let the seat. Just now you said their own personal experience, everyone may have special circumstances, if we do not feel comfortable that day and get on the car when sitting in a special seat for the elderly, then wait for the elderly to get on the car, directly to the elderly to explain to the elderly, today I have a little condition, can not give your old man to give up his seat, I estimate that the elderly will understand us, or if we see the back of the compartment there is a position, we change to the back to sit, generally, the elderly will understand us, or if we see the back of the compartment there is a position, we will understand us, we will understand us. We switch to the back to sit, the general elderly like to sit in front of the carriages and carriages in the middle of the seat, because they move slowly, but also to save time for everyone, there is another aspect is the middle of the vehicle is the most stable, because of the bumpy road car rear is the most bumpy, so the elderly also do not want to go to the back. I think as long as they are not comfortable, directly express their difficulties, perhaps the elderly will also be very concerned about you!
Look at the definition of a thing to discuss first, the definition of the fraternity seat is to give the old and infirm women and children, because of their physical state in the moving bus may fall, and thus damage to the physical health.
The body is not comfortable, even a strong person will have a state of discomfort, so it is considered a "weak" group, eligible to sit on the fraternity seat, the next step is to practice:
First, someone to sit, you can speak directly, politely and feebly, I have just finished the operation, the body is weak, can I let me sit.
Second, there is no one to sit on, directly sit on, but the child or the old man came, but also straight, politely and weakly, I am sorry, I just finished surgery, need to sit and rest.
Personally, I think it's a relative matter of acting weaker than the other person and needing to sit and rest, and under normal circumstances, the other person shouldn't have a problem with that.
If in a very extreme case, the other side of the self-reliance of the elderly, must force you to stand up and give up your seat, well, can not, you will sit and wait for the public security to come over to comment on it.
Or the other squinted at you, just do not stand up to let you, then, you can only turn to the next door to ask for a seat, because you need to sit, in this society, there should be someone to give up their seat.
If you are not feeling well, I will let you go if you are very old and have trouble with your legs. In addition to these two points I will not let, they are also difficult, such as motion sickness and so on, but also want to sit for a while.
In fact, I also often by the elderly to let the seat, let me very touched, the reason is that I sometimes take the child on the car, the car has no seat, there will be older people let my child to sit. I am embarrassed, repeatedly push back, the other again and again courtesy. So, when I encountered an elderly person did not sit, will let out.
I think the bus trip or selfish point of good, for the elderly, sick and disabled people can let let, can not let on not to let, the same passenger you also have uncomfortable times, I have such an experience, I stood after the car, you are kind to others to give way, he took the opportunity to squeeze you, so that you do not even have a place to stand on the foot of the people are selfish, no matter how many people crowded and blind grab, as if the world has not day as well. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
The movie "Search" is about a white-collar woman who got cancer and didn't give up her seat on the bus to an old man, which later triggered a series of effects. In fact, our nation was originally a nation y imbued with Confucianism, that is, respect for the elderly and love for the young, modesty and mutual accommodation. If one is very unwell, one should clearly prompt the elderly waiting for a seat because one needs to sit down more, and this should be understood. At the same time, you should discuss with the person in the seat next to you to give up your seat for the elderly. This is the most reasonable way.
I hate those who rely on old people, dancing in the square dance lively, a bus to let others give up their seats, young people are now under pressure, work a day is also quite tired, understand a little can not?
Take the bus, when they are uncomfortable, should not give the elderly seat, depending on the circumstances. Because they are the kind of people who need help.
Nowadays, every time you take the bus, in the car can hear the radio said, please give a seat to the elderly and needy passengers. Although he is not an elderly person, but his health is not good, so he is a passenger in need, so there is no need to give up his seat.
One day in the fall of 2013, I went to the city with my son. My son had a fracture at the knuckle of his right little finger, and his arm was hanging from a bandage. I was able to get a seat on the bus, so I stood in the corridor.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman with a broken arm, and I've never seen one. My son politely declined.
The bus seat has been an old topic, in the bus because of the friction of the seat problem is also quite a lot, but there are still people in the bus because of the seat problem noise, and even hit people.
Not long ago, I saw a video of a boy who was beaten by an old man because he did not give up his seat. An old man who has the strength to hit people, do not have the strength to stand on one or two stops, waiting to get off the bus when there is an empty seat to sit again?
A few days ago, an old man bullied a little girl on the bus, smacking the girl did not let the seat. The other people to let the seat is not sitting, want to seat the girl's seat, said the girl took up the old man special seat.
Who said that the yellow seats on the bus elderly special seat, that is the old, young, pregnant and disabled special seat. The little girl sat there and right.
Now there are individual elderly special selfish, sometimes have reason to say, so meet the old man hubbub, even if they are not good health, have to avoid a little farther, otherwise, the elderly have high blood pressure or heart disease, and is not generous and kind, to give you a few words of contention, in case of an accident, is your responsibility.
In recent days, we have seen a few old people arguing with others, and finally died of a disease.
You said that you argued with others, their families said that you are angry with the old man, you said yourself is not, say it clearly?
In short, when you meet a strange old man outside, you don't know each other's situation, so once the friction occurs, quickly apologize to the old man, and then leave, don't get entangled with the old man.
This is not a weakness, it is to protect yourself. If the old man has to ask you to give up your seat, just get up and stand for a while, and don't get yourself into trouble, because some of the trouble might make you lose your family's money.
It is a Chinese virtue to give up your seat on the bus to someone who needs it. Anyone is obliged to help the elderly, the sick, the disabled and the pregnant. Not only to give up their seats on the bus, there are many other places where we should respect the old and love the young. Then, many young people feel that the elderly are not all mobility problems, to see their own walk up also very strong, why have to give them a seat?
In fact, the truth of this matter is very obvious, because although the elderly seem to be very healthy on the surface, but, after all, the body has the appearance of aging. There is no comparison with the physical quality of young people. We young people do not also have sub-healthy time it? So, it is not necessary that the elderly must show a very weak, it will be necessary to give up their seats.
Because of the general decline in the body functions of the elderly, in such a crowded environment as public transportation, there may be a fall ah, flash back ah, and so on these special circumstances. Therefore, the elderly is a high-risk group, in this kind of more chaotic, more swaying bus environment, we young people have the obligation to provide a safe and stable environment for the elderly, sitting there is obviously much safer than standing.
Our society as a whole still respects the elderly. Of course, young people do have the difficult task of commuting to work in the morning and evening rush hours, especially on some of the long-distance buses. The total distance to more than two hours, and, in general, this long-distance bus, will be arranged to have someone to supervise the queue, a lot of young people at work will be in the morning row for half an hour or even longer to seek a seat, at this time, if you sit on the two stops, came to their own in front of an old man, really want to pretend to be asleep.
Oh, in fact, this situation does not have to pretend to be asleep, you can stand up and let the old man first sit, only to clearly tell the old man, you go down after the seat back to me, because I have to sit again a dozen stops it. I believe the old man will remember your pain, will understand your difficulties. When you get off the bus will call you in time, the problem is not solved. If the old man standing next to himself anyway I can not sleep!
This is a clichéd problem, let is the sentiment, do not let is this, their body is not comfortable of course can not let, do not want to let don't pretend to be uncomfortable, this will make their own guilt.