Love your wife is the Lord, love your son is the pro. What does this sentence mean?

This is a sentence in Augmented Xianwen, which means that love for his wife is a kind of love for his master and more affection for his children. It doesn't sound the same as modern couples' equal love. In fact, the Lord is older than the relatives, and the flesh and blood are the younger generation. There is no discrimination against women as previously understood. In ancient times, women were the backbone of the family, and the reasonable mother-in-law was on the side of the daughter-in-law. However, why augmented and virtuous articles were popular in ancient times, in fact, many of them are the truth of giving people a handle. The disadvantage is that the main viewpoints and ideas are standing in the social background at that time, which is slightly different from the present. Famous sentences in augmented prose are based on the idea that human nature is evil, so they run through many strategies, but they still make people learn well. Many standards with ancient ethics may not be suitable for today. For example, loving your wife is loving your master, which is actually in line with human relations, but in reality, people's selfishness and ego are always self-centered and male chauvinism-centered.

Master's love

The master's love is a kind of responsibility and also a kind of pressure love. The height of standing is the height of an adult. The master's love is a kind of family responsibility, the responsibility of parents and the responsibility of elders. The love of wife here is that the Lord puts his wife in the position of master, not a despised woman. It's just that traditional men don't put more love on their wives, which leads many women to work like slaves all their lives. In some places, women are treated as maids. Today, there are still many places where women are not allowed to eat. What an ignorant habit, no equality and no respect.

Love, as far as human beings are concerned, includes the love from women, and then the love from family and relatives. After marriage, love is upgraded to the main love, that is, the love for the wife is the main one.

Affectionate love

Affection is the most primitive feeling in all love; Because it comes from parents. The love of combining rigidity with softness from mom and dad comes from the blood bond that blood is thicker than water. Therefore, the love of parents can never be forgotten, and the love of children can never be given up. This is the depth of affection.

In the traditional eyes, some people compare children to debt collection; Either repay kindness, in fact, this view is also wrong A child is born with a blank sheet of paper, just like a blank tape or disk. It is parents who fail to fulfill their responsibilities, which leads to children's growth in doting, willful growth, no discipline, no responsibility, no gratitude, no etiquette, no knowledge and so on. When he grows up, that's why Gu Yan said, "It's dad's fault that children don't teach."

True affection is giving: the cultivation of living habits; Cultivation of study habits; Infusion of cosmic knowledge; Cultivation of etiquette; Cultivation of gratitude; Cultivation of work responsibility; Cultivate a philosophy of life of self-reliance and self-improvement. This kind of love is the love of family members. A responsible parent must do this, instead of holding the child in his arms, kissing and calling the baby every day until he is twenty years old, and nothing happens. At this time, I complained that my children came to collect debts, but I never reviewed my ignorance and smallness.

Parents in the world should understand well, cherish your wife, cherish your family, and give your children responsibility and deep love. This is the happiest thing for the rest of your life.