To chat with the elderly in good faith, chatting without impatience, we must know how to throw in the towel, to talk about things of interest to the elderly, to learn to coax the elderly happy. We often say an era a generation gap, so and elders chat is a lot of young people are reluctant to do things, because the elderly ear back, talking back and forth, but also always with a didactic tone, so the young people are not do not want to communicate with the elderly, and feel that there is no *** with the language, communication is particularly difficult.
In fact, it is not difficult to chat with the elderly, the main thing is to have patience, sincerity, and politeness, when we are chatting with the elderly, no matter whether the old man said that his youthful deeds, or said that the young people's behavioral habits, you only need to listen patiently, when he asked for your point of view, you can be contrary to agree with the old man, or euphemistic The first thing you need to do is to listen to the person you're talking to, and you can agree with him or her against his or her will, or say what you think politely, but you can't refute him or her directly because he or she is just like a child.
When you master his chat, you can go along with the words of the old man, you can praise him appropriately, so that the old man knows that you are with sincerity to chat with him, and at the same time, you can also say your things, so that the old man to give you advice, You should know that the old man has a psychological, that is, he feels that he has lived a life of knowledge, if the young people to ask for advice, he is very happy to talk about his own So this is the **** same topic of communication between you.
In addition to this, is to cast their favor, for example, the old man was young when he experienced the battlefield, or young heroes, he will certainly tell you, this time you not only to look at him with adoring eyes, but also to hold him up, and at the same time, you have to say that they have to live in the era of hardship, say that era of the triggering of you have something. Then there is to talk about the topics of interest to the elderly, the life of the elderly is nothing more than playing chess, playing small cards, participate in senior activities, square dancing, so in the chat you can mention his usual cool interests, create your **** the same topic.