People try not to show off in old age, think you can do things as usual need to do, such as a number of immovable work need to know difficult to retreat. Do not do not shame, if overworked resulting in injuries or illnesses, both their own suffering and will be involved in the children, children will be in a dilemma, the tube you need to take care of the other side, no matter what your words in the conscience, purely to the children out of the question. Later in life they have to care about themselves, although not directly for their children to do much contribution, but not to their children to cause trouble is the biggest indirect contribution.
Elderly people do not care more about the outside world, and even more do not care more about the children's business. The children's life trivia, if you are accustomed to see, if you are not accustomed to see, do not see. Anyway, eyes long in your body, see and do not see depends on you, the children's things to grasp the small, as long as there is no violation of the principle or touch the bottom line, you have to put out the posture of the matter does not matter to themselves to do a blind eye.
Children have children's lives, children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren's blessings, should not care about things will not only be laborious, and will not be pleasing to the eyes, and will even be children grumbling or complaining. Although you have an age, but you have to avoid leaning on the old, the past experience of the children as a reference at best, do not use the commanding tone of command, instead of avoiding to argue with the children, and more should be eliminated with the children to argue.
Elderly people can take care of themselves in the case of life, can not trouble the children do not trouble the children, the children are more than a thousand days to raise the army, the army is still a moment. Although there are children this a back way, but not until the last critical moment do not go.
The household chores are as much as you can do yourself, as if you were exercising properly. With children to get along with the time do not say that the words, at least the mindset needs to be optimistic, so that the mindset of the more live more glowing young, such as if you complain to the children, the children can not empathize with the children will increase the children's worries, and the fact that it will also prove to alleviate the pain you do not help.