When chatting with a friend, I heard about a thing that I really lamented. An old man in his early sixties went to his daughter's home to make a fuss, noisy daughter if he does not support him, he will file a lawsuit against the daughter, the daughter told her father, she can pay the alimony, of course, provided that the father do not come to the door to visit annoying her, she wants to let her mother to spend a stable old age. Originally the old man and his wife's relationship is not good, usually do not have a penny for his wife, drunkenness is also move to scold his wife. The daughter was too young to defend her mother, and after she married and had a child, she advised her mother to divorce and live with herself, but she was worried that she would be criticized if she divorced when she was older, and she could not make up her mind. Until that time, the old man because of a small matter to beat his wife again, the daughter came home to see her mother's eyes did not eliminate the bruises, asked her mother is to go on like that again or want to stabilize the days for decades?
In the daughter's strong support, the old man and his wife divorced, the daughter of the mother received home to live together, indifferent to the father. At first, the old man did not think there is anything wrong, no one beside the chatter, no matter their own smoking and drinking and playing cards or go to the lover's square dance are so casual, this is really want to live. But but 2 years, the old man suddenly found no one cooking and washing clothes at home in a mess, family and friends ignore him, pro-daughter also never contact with him, drinking and playing cards together with the old people behind the scenes to make fun of him alone, which just thought of his daughter. How can the daughter from small to large to see her father on the mother's many personal behavior, the heart of the father early no emotion, not the slightest bit indifferent, only to cause the old man door-to-door service to make a big fuss.
Hilarious people have not found the truth, the family pointing fingers, say what have, some people found the truth, gossip old man blamed by the daughter to see. Objective analysis, the old man is now living in this way, really self-inflicted, even if the daughter allowed to raise him, will not give him is how much warmth, but with the age is getting older, most of the old people need is often the love and care between loved ones, rather than alimony. The reality is that there is no shortage of such old people, not at all to maintain the maintenance of their children in the eyes of the brand image, do not maintain the maintenance of the couple's relationship, short-tempered and irritable, arrogant and selfish, his wife and children here suffered a lot of aggravation.
People's willpower is very limited, children will always have to resist the day, the partner will always be unable to tolerate the day of departure, before planting what cause, old age will be able to get what fruit. People to old age, if you do not want to be children do not see, there are some confusing things must not do. Can not do things to destroy the relationship between husband and wife, please treat your partner like the old man mentioned above, the partner has nothing to talk about, husband and wife could have been mutually supportive, late in life when they become crutches between each other, but have to be bossy, overstepping the wife above.
Marriage, and who has been suffering from inequality? When the partner again and again cold hearted, on their own nothing to hope for when, will definitely be desperate to leave you to find a new life of freedom; when the children see the dad so rude to look at the mother, but also from the depths of the heart will grow up to snort, the father's image in the heart of the children collapsed, and regret has been of no avail. Destroying the couple's relationship is to cut off their own retreat, living again free and elegant, until the age of gradually getting older, others happy couples, mutual support, New Year's or holiday family reunion, you have no one to rely on alone in a large house and the practical significance of it.
People to the old age, do not do to destroy the couple's relationship this confusion. Really far-sighted old man, figure out the necessity of the partner in their own, if the young did damage to their partners, it will be brave to face, diligently repair the couple's relationship, and once again establish a brand image in the minds of their children. It will love their partner, respect her, trust her, love her, thank her for giving them their own offspring, and even more thankful that she has not left them since the beginning. Because she figured out that the children will eventually have to go out, the partner is considered to be the longest with her side of the person.