When people reach middle age, their state of mind has also changed dramatically, from the initial marriage full of longing to today's full of chicken feathers. Adults have long understood the truth of life, the deepest concepts have also changed dramatically, most of them in the marriage has long been scarred, can no longer rise to anyone.
In order to prevent gossip, many people will intentionally put distance between them and the opposite sex, especially when they reach middle age, many of whom usually fall in love over time. To keep their feelings for a long time, they should have to make every effort to distance themselves from these opposite sexes, otherwise it is very easy to also produce a different kind of love.
Mutual admiration of colleaguesColleagues often together to discuss the problem, if each other mutual admiration for each other's talents, that day long get along with, it is likely to be a long time to love, so that the original pure friendships produce qualitative changes, I believe this is the majority of people do not want to let see.
The love of friends stops at work, for other ideas should be avoided. Even if you find yourself in the heart of the abnormal, you should always call it quits. Make yourself recognize the reality, never get farther and farther on the incorrect path, not to mention not to cause trouble to each other.
Long time no see old friendsOld friends who have not seen each other for many years have changed dramatically. Perhaps the former ignorant teenager has become stable, can not help but within the heart of the birth of another kind of love, and therefore meet old friends, it is best to be able to bring their own other half.
There will always be endless topics to talk about when we haven't seen each other for years, and when we talk about our emotions, it's inevitable that we'll know each other, but if we bring our loved ones with us, we'll usually pay attention to each other's feelings, and we'll automatically avoid some sensitive words and won't let the chaos shake our other minds.
Often comfort their confidantWhen their own emotions are lost, it is inevitable to want to get other people's relief, a woman wants to comfort you unconditionally, perhaps her heart to their own have other ideas. You always call each other as a confidante, but do not know, in your day to day process, a relationship has been gradually tasteless.
Traveling together with friends when you are out of townWhen you go out, the human heart is vulnerable, especially when relying on your own partner. Pick to travel with a friend, I believe that this person must be its own trusted good friends. In the process of traveling, many interesting things will happen, sharing and helping each other together, which is an unforgettable memory for both of them.
People have a good memory together, this paragraph will become a trivial life outlet, in the long run, you can miss those times, and even wonder if you have long been in love with the other side. In fact, this is only a kind of false, life can not only happiness, real life in the inevitable trivial things.
The opposite sex
Everyone always likes to talk with their own chatty people to talk about the past and present, you say the previous sentence, the other party can guess your next sentence, even if we look at each other speechless, the other party can also understand your mood. With him, you don't need to cover yourself, because your subtle state of mind can always be easily captured by the other party.
You talk about the past and present together, and feel life together, perhaps you will mistakenly think that this is the real person to find yourself. But when you get to middle age, a lot of things are already set in stone, even if you form an emotion with the opposite sex, you are not willing to make a choice again and again, so you have to be a little more spaced out when dealing with friends who talk to each other a lot.
First love
First love is beautiful, those times enough to warm life. Especially when people reach middle age, see through the truth of life, know how to run a relationship, it is inevitable to deplore their first love, if they can be brave, smart, maybe you will have a different ending. The first time I saw my first love again, it usually stirred up these unforgettable memories.
You see the old restlessness in each other's eyes. If time could be turned back, how we wish we could go back to that moment again, with only each other in our eyes and the other in our hearts. People but to middle age, and then see the first love is very easy to grow out of the abnormal feelings, therefore, not as a last resort, do not have to meet with the first love.
Emotional message: life is a chicken feather, especially people but to the middle age, for this matter y touched. For the beautiful things full of longing, but all the good to operate, keep the clouds open to see the moon is the truth! People to the middle age, very easy to feel tired, for some of the opposite sex between the feelings of friends inevitably produce new reverie, especially the top of these points associated with the opposite sex, it is very easy to be born day after day love. Think about their own marriage smooth, must be and these points of opposite sex friends to pull away.