Somehow, seeing this topic makes me especially want to speak. Because of my personal experience, the two people closest to me are schizophrenic, one living environment is very poor, about 10 years after getting this disease, 7 years ago, 'gone', a sick 30 years, living environment is particularly good, and now the more you live the better, the more you live younger, most of the cases, outsiders do not know that she has a disease or once suffered from This disease.
The one who 'walked away' is my own elder sister, who had a bad marriage, abused by her in-laws, and was burdened by the rural patriarchal ideology, and by chance, schizophrenia. Since then she has been living a life of "parents not loving, husband not loving, daughter not liking", and in the worst period of her life, she was locked up! (That's the main reason why I'm doing what I'm doing now.) , 7 years ago, at age 42, went.
The other was my mother-in-law, a factory worker, who, as a child, coupled with that particular environment in the factory, also split after a factory manager wronged her.
But he is good, after the split, the old man gave him the maximum care - earned money to the old lady tube, home to the old lady when the old lady, the old lady said what is what, if the old lady and the outside world contradictions, the old man is definitely on the side of the old lady, so that my wife and I combined how to look at the old man, think his thinking and the mother-in-law is generally the same! It is in this living environment, relying on drugs, the old lady live well, in general, the bystanders can not see that she is a patient, 6 years ago, the old man unfortunately suffered from advanced pancreatic cancer, insisted on 11 months, went away --- this cancer, and humility of the old lady has a particularly big relationship: usually eaten meals have a surplus of the old lady is extremely reluctant to put into the next meal, but also do not mean to pour out, < strong> [forced] The old man ate it, before and after a few decades. After the old man went away, mother-in-law lived with us, and the days were more relaxed and comfortable than her original.
1; regardless of our eating problems, selling food problems, he wants to eat when he wants to eat when he wants to eat what he wants to eat what he wants to eat, we will almost not verbalize her, he is not accustomed to see the pots and pans, well, change, not accustomed to the washing machine, well, change, not accustomed to the sofa, well, change, not accustomed to the bed, well, change, not accustomed to the son-in-law 。。。。 Well, we don't talk back, we don't argue, we don't argue, we are positive people, right? You can be happy by chanting, then you can chant!
2: He said someone wants to harm him, well, something to keep you company, and try to go home early at night, not to mention the night unaccompanied. He said he wanted the old man, well, go to the mausoleum to sneak around. He said the fire do not open so big, hurry, put out the fire 。。。。
3: his old man to go out to 'socialize' before 7 a.m., the kitchen during this time, he has to be alone, the toilet, basically alone, do not say a word to him; at noon to go home to eat a lunch break, the afternoon to go to socialize, and at night, 4-5 p.m. to go home to eat, and go out to socialize;
His old man to my house when, in fact When his old man came to my house, in fact, we are not very accustomed to, he is not very happy, now, whistling life, singing out, singing home - of course, this is thanks to the wife in the core area of the old house demolition, the big more than 2 million dollars in the hands of his old man, we never ask, never care about the money this matter, "rich" this state! The first thing I've noticed is that I've been able to get a lot of money out of my pocket.
Recently, the old woman played friends, and chat with an old man on the good, very happy. A few days ago, pack up the clothes, on the old man's home to live.
You see, a patient of more than 30 years, can live into this now, is it by chance? I don't think that's the case! As a patient, we must give ourselves a very loose, very free environment,
For example, in addition to your attention to their own bodies, other people's affairs, you'd better not get involved in, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren's blessings, and others have the reasoning of the others;
Also for example: positive socialization should be there to talk to a friend, more in the relationship with it, even if they go out to wander it, the square, shopping malls, walk around more, and so on, and so forth, and so forth. Malls, more walking around, if the age of the square dance, morning exercise, these are engaged in;
Another example: more time outside activities, because you stay at home for a long time, the condition of their bodies, the more they talk to their families, the more socializing, the more likely to let everyone have negative emotions; that is, to make the home as a hotel, hungry home to eat, sleepy home to sleep;
Conditionally, it is also possible. Participate in the work is also possible, but schizophrenic people, high-intensity work or brain work, inappropriate, easy to trigger the disease, do a little easier, such as sweeping the floor, watching the factory door, a little more cultural, you can work part-time at home, by the work to be busy, the head will be less negative thoughts, to help their own normal life;
We also need to set up a correct attitude towards life, in fact, when it comes to the disease, who are all sick, don't feel inferior, be positive and integrate into the community. Of course, at any time to consult the doctor, to prepare some essential medicines is still a must - some people do not admit that they have a disease, once the emotional anomaly after the drug, they will realize that they are not the right place!
In any case, it is important for people with schizophrenia to feel safe, free, and to think less about unpleasant things. It's possible that family members will look at you differently, and use behaviors you don't understand (like sending to a mental hospital, locking up) but with this disease, it's not very useful to get a strong sense of security and enough care in any way other than...
Schizophrenia plagues many patients and families, who face a variety of confusion and despair ...... Today I address the question "How should people who have had schizophrenia live? This theme, do a relatively comprehensive overview.
1. Causes of schizophrenia
The causes of schizophrenia, in a nutshell, include three aspects: biological factors, psychological factors, and environmental factors. From the biological point of view, there is no conclusive evidence, but the closer the blood relationship with the patient, the greater the probability of the offspring of the disease, that is to say, the patient and his offspring are susceptible to schizophrenia; psychological is a person in the physiology of the long-term interaction with the environment in the process of the formation of a relatively stable psychological characteristics, the patient is often because of the physiological susceptibility to the stimulation of the adverse events of the acquired, resulting in a distortion of the psyche, and thus to the The patient often has a wrong understanding of external things, which makes the patient far away from the truth, and the growth of his consciousness slows down, stops, or even retrogresses, and the process of normal psychological development is damaged; human survival cannot be separated from the dependence on the environment, and it is also indispensable to interact with the environment. The stimulation of the environment indirectly affects the physiology through the psyche, and the response to the human environment brings new stimuli from the environment to the human being. These stimuli are benign and destructive, the specific stimulus is benign or destructive, one is to look at the thing itself, the second is to look at the state of the person at that time in all aspects of the state and what kind of reaction to the stimulus.
2. Characteristics of schizophrenics: living in their own world, lacking the sense of others and organization
One of the distinctive features of schizophrenics is that they always live in their own world, lacking the sense of others and organization. And it is impossible for a person to live and work without dealing with others and organizations. Lack of awareness of others, there will be a lack of empathy, will not be for the sake of others, and even indifference, desperation, etc.; no sense of organization, it is very difficult to carry out long-term, stable and good cooperation with others, it is difficult to form a **** win situation.
3. The basic requirements for the normal operation of society: certainty and security
Society is very large and complex, involving all kinds of people, strange things will happen, but also encounter a variety of items, but the reason why society can operate normally, and even keep a long period of time to move forward steadily, there are two main reasons: certainty and security. Certainty and security. Certainty and security is the basis of trust, and trust is the basis of cooperation, people can only through cooperation to complement each other's strengths and weaknesses, amplify the ability to *** enjoy the results and so on. Schizophrenics, because they always live in their own world, often disregard the feelings of others, according to their own wishes to deal with the problem, express their emotions, etc., this practice can easily cause conflicts, contradictions and misunderstandings, and even tragedies, thus destroying the cornerstone of the normal functioning of the community Certainty and sense of security.
4. Inborn, long-term and stability of personality (difficult to change)
The first part of the article has already said that the cause of schizophrenia has certain biological factors, that is, inborn. And the influence of predisposition is usually long-term, stable and difficult to change, "nature is not changeable" is this phenomenon. Including the human psyche, also has a certain degree of stability, change is never easy. Therefore, the life of schizophrenic patients is destined to be different from that of normal people. It is usually counterproductive to limit the patients with normal thinking, which will not only be unfavorable to the patients, but will also cause certain losses to their families and society. In fact, the lives of ordinary people are not all the same, but the differences between them are quite small, and it is relatively easy to understand and tolerate each other.
5. Discover interest, discover mission, and find the meaning of life
Because schizophrenics mostly live in their own world, and lack the sense of others and organization, their social skills are usually inadequate, so light social skills such as technology, academics, arts, and manual labor are usually more suitable for patients. Also since patients mostly live in their own world, they usually lack patience for things they don't like more than normal people, so respecting and cultivating patients' interests is very important, and even an important way for them to recover. In addition, helping patients to discover their mission and the meaning of life is also conducive to their finding greater motivation in life and discovering the beauty of life and the joy of life.
6. The family is the patient's harbor, and the family is the patient's dependence
It cannot be said that the onset of the patient's illness is due to the existence of problems in the family, but the family certainly has a certain responsibility in this matter. Since we understand the causes of the disease and the characteristics of the patient, the family should understand, tolerate and support the patient, and guide him to gradually mature. When the patient makes progress, celebrate with him and encourage him to keep up the good work; when the patient is frustrated, give him a hug, analyze the process together, and make it clear whether to continue to insist or to give up with stop loss. When the patient's life gets better, the family's life will slowly become easier and happier. Family coziness, understanding and tolerance, will also make the patient in the community with better performance, to withstand greater pressure or less than desired, and so on.
7. Creating opportunities to promote consciousness growth
Promoting consciousness growth is a fundamental way to maintain a healthy life for patients. The maturity of a human being is primarily the growth of consciousness. Those who are stuck in their ways are bound to be abandoned by society. We must gradually create opportunities and environments to help patients develop and expand their awareness of others, their sense of organization, and even develop a higher level of cosmic consciousness, in a step-by-step manner. Let him have the ability to see through the nature of the world, to see the truth of things, to get along with people with a smooth mind, to see all kinds of people and things with an open mind.
8. Different degrees, different stages, different conditions, choose different lifestyles
In fact, each patient's family is different, the reason for the disease and the severity of the disease is not exactly the same, the patient is in a different stage (latent, sick, treatment, recovery, cured), they choose a different way of life is naturally different: at home to recuperate, institutionalized care, sheltered employment, supported employment, independent work, independent living, and also whether to get married or not, whether to have children or not, whether to pursue materialism by buying a house and a car or focusing on spiritual simplicity and fulfillment. Thus, there is no uniform model of life that fits all patients.
9. The current social environment is very unfavorable to schizophrenics as a whole
Due to the limitations of the current level of medical care and the development of social civilization, and for historical reasons, there is a great deal of prejudice, discrimination, and stigmatization against schizophrenia in the society, and the patients and their families suffer from a very serious sense of shame and great mental stress. All these are not very conducive to the disclosure of patients' personal medical history. It is also for these reasons that, under the Matthew effect, if the patient discloses his personal history, his development is usually extraordinarily difficult and relatively limited.
10. Final note
Every person is a system, and every family is even more of a system, so don't give advice to others unless you know enough about it. Because without some certainty, it's really hard to predict what chain reaction your advice will trigger, not to mention whether the chain reaction will be positive or negative. To solve the problem, it is best to find a professional to analyze the specific problem.
How people who have had schizophrenia live their lives, this needs to be looked at in 2 ways.
1: Once suffered from schizophrenia, after the correct way to deal with the problem, completely solve the problem, schizophrenia symptoms no longer appear, such a situation is the same as a normal person, learning to live on, pay attention to the future of life in the continuous learning and growth, to understand the basic concept of "live to learn", and learn to work and live on the good.
2: People who have suffered from schizophrenia, because the solution to the problem is not the best program, the current state of schizophrenia symptoms, or sometimes appear, sometimes good. Such a situation, need to be taken seriously, choose the right way and method (program) to deal with, as soon as possible to completely solve the existing psychological problems, completely eliminate a variety of symptomatic state. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
People who have suffered from schizophrenia must cherish the learning and growth changes in the process of solving the problem, and must continue to learn and grow, and do not stop their learning and growth changes in the road, and through learning to improve their level of wisdom, to improve their ability in all aspects, to adapt to the world, and to find their own happy happy happy happy life.
(The scope of psychiatric patients is very wide, which contains a lot of situation state, the situation state is not the same way to take different methods are also different.
A: schizophrenia:
1: schizophrenia in the most serious degree, a long time, curing, the age of these patients, the possibility of cure is very small, there are a lot of many need to be hospitalized for a long time. 2: schizophrenia in the degree of the severity of a short period of time, the emergence of the patient's age of the use of reasonable ways and means, can be cured. 3: schizophrenia in the degree of the severity of a short period of time, the patient's age of the use of reasonable ways and means, can be cured.
Two: neurological psychological problems, such as: "depression" "anxiety" "hypochondriac" "bipolar disorder " "phobia" "obsessive-compulsive disorder" "dysthymia" and so on neurotic psychological problems can be cured.
1: Go to a regular hospital psychiatry, looking for a high level of psychiatrists (psychologists), to psychological training, supplemented by drugs, can solve the problem. (All of the medication to solve the problem will likely be repeated, can not be completely resolved).
2: looking for formal psychological counseling services to help, looking for a high level of psychological counselor to help guide the training, through learning to grow and change, to improve the level of wisdom of the helpers, you can completely solve the problem, completely solve the problem after the problem will not recur.
All psychological problems are solved by the patient's desire to seek treatment (help), and the help and support of family and friends is very important. The "right amount of love" from family and friends is the best medicine to solve all psychological problems. （The best way to get rid of these problems is to have the right kind of love and support from your family and friends.)
The self-reliance of the patient is the basis for a complete solution to the problem.
I am engaged in psychology and mental health education work of psychological teachers left uncle, I come to answer your questions.
I will answer your question from the following aspects based on my experience of doing psychological counseling work:
I have met several schizophrenic patients in more than a decade of psychological counseling work, and there are two more impressive. One is an adult patient, this year has been more than 50 years old, male, he suffered from adolescence after schizophrenia, due to family negligence, family history of schizophrenia, as well as the onset of the disease did not have timely treatment, his schizophrenia transformed into a delayed schizophrenia, on and off, but the condition of a while well, a recurrence; onset of the disease before the onset of a teacher of English, according to his family, the patient's class is good; suffered from schizophrenia, never returned to the podium. One is a college student, female, in 2015 because of emotional problems induced acute schizophrenia; her condition found early, timely treatment, the family is more cooperative, after the psychiatric standardized treatment, recovery psychological counseling and guidance, the patient resumed school in 2016, the patient has graduated, schizophrenia did not relapse.
First, people who have suffered from schizophrenia, even if they get better and discharged from the hospital, but also strictly follow the doctor's instructions to take on time and in accordance with the amount of drugs, can not be arbitrarily reduced, stopping the drug; at the same time, in accordance with the principle of schizophrenia treatment, continue to take the medication for about two years of treatment of schizophrenia after the hospital, in order to minimize the relapse of schizophrenia.
Secondly, schizophrenia patients should have a good life and interpersonal environment after discharge, avoid negative life events to stimulate the patient, which is very important, there are many schizophrenia patients who were discharged after stabilization of the condition, but due to the poor living environment, stimulation of the negative life events, the disease relapsed, transformed into a delayed The patient's condition is not a problem, but the patient's condition is not a problem.
Thirdly, after the schizophrenia patients are discharged from the hospital, according to their condition, they should do some return to society, adapt to the social interaction of social adaptation training, starting from the family, first to restore normal daily life, and then expand their own circle of life, and then slowly out of the family to adapt to the social life, which is the recovery of schizophrenia patients, the necessary conditions to adapt to the life. This is a necessary condition for schizophrenic patients to recover and adapt to life.
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I am also a heavy schizophrenic who has suffered for more than 20 years, although now under control, but my husband does not care, not to beat both scolding, go to the hospital to get medication but also have to go to my mother's family, I have thought of suicide, and also thought of divorce, but think of leaving the child too poor, I am now also very confused!
If you can work, then work well, work is part of life, if there is no suitable work to do something they like, if the pursuit of spiritual soul beyond, it is recommended that the cultivation of the body and mind to cultivate cultivation, such as schizophrenia, this disease should know how to save themselves, since the degree of destiny is in their own hands, to be self-confident, self-reliant, self-improvement, to be committed and love life!
Adhere to the medication, cooperate with the treatment, and hallucinations, fantasies and harmonious **** living, but do not go to disturb them. If you are not happy, communicate with your family and don't think too much.
All psychological problems can be completely cured, only the energy state is too low, clinging to the wrong thinking! What you believe will become what you believe, believe in those negative thinking, follow it to run will become negative energy, the spiritual world is occupied, so those symptoms will appear! Raise the energy state will be good, change the wrong mindset and thinking pattern, release and link the positive energy will be good! So many people have tried so many methods why no effect? Because the direction is wrong, farther and farther away from the truth can be good! There have been several healed, the truth is always in the hands of a few people!
Good life with normal people, oh also sent, the hospital locked up, the drug ate as if where the pain, sad. Do not eat, their own life think open on the good, do not have the pressure will not have guess disease. The surrounding environment is also very important.
Schizophrenia is actually quite painful, sometimes very sad, feel hopeless, want to die a white. But I think as long as you adjust your mindset, every day to insist on sports exercise can be overcome. Schizophrenia is not terrible, the terrible thing is that they lose confidence in themselves, as long as you have a handful of great skills, you can build up a strong self-confidence, then your disease will be much less, or will be cured. The reason why people get sick is that many times they have a noble heart but not a noble skill. When your instincts and your thoughts can overlap, your sickness will naturally be cured. Or if you can recognize yourself, your illness will be easily cured.