The other day, a news about the baby on the hot search, the party is an elderly man, because the children with children and suffering from mental anxiety, now has a stress reaction, outsiders look very poor. After tracing the root of the problem, I learned that the old man did not want to take the grandchildren, but forced by the pressure of the children had to comply. However, the grandchildren naughty, the two generations of parenting concepts differ greatly, all of which makes the old man doubly anxious, see the grandchildren on the heart beating wildly, can not do things.
These complaints are heartbreaking for outsiders to see, and they are also very sympathetic to the old man's situation. So, many have the same experience of the elderly came forward to help find a way, one of the sixty-year-old woman's approach is very clever, can be said to have elegantly rejected the children, but also not fall into the complaint. The same do not want to be dragged by the children's parents can learn, the feasibility is very high, but also for their own independent and free and colorful life in old age.
Children get married, do not urge marriage to urge the birth of
The old lady was born in the early 1960s, and is now retired, and is currently at home at ease, dancing every day, but also intends to travel after the end of the epidemic. In short, she lives a very comfortable life, showing no signs of being dragged down by her children and grandchildren.
Asked about his approach, the old lady a? It's all over, just because she never meddles in her children's domestic affairs.
When to get married and when to have children, that are not what I should worry about. The old lady said, her knees two sons and a daughter, are over thirty years before marriage, thirty-five before the birth of the child, in their era is a representative of late marriage and late parenthood. Although the neighbors often pointed out, but she never rush marriage, after all, their children's lives should be decided by them.
After her children got married, she never pushed them to have children, and said in advance, ? You can afford to raise children when then again, anyway, do not expect me to bring you, raise you three let me have enough. I've had enough of raising the three of you. Then don't have them.
Whoever gives birth to a child is responsible for it
Don't bother with me.
This practice sounds simple, but in reality there are very few parents who can do it, there is no way, Chinese parents are accustomed to kidnapping the child's life, and refused to return the child's freedom of marriage and parenthood. So it's normal to be morally abducted by your children when you're old. I hope you can understand that the only way to get rid of your grandchildren is if they are not born to you.
Prepare the red packets, break the bank
According to the old lady, although each grandchild she did not bring, but the daily red packets have not given less. After all, the late years will have to rely on the children's old age, the basic etiquette or to understand.
So, whether daughter-in-law or daughter, the day of delivery from the old lady can get a big red envelope. In addition, the old lady also contracted them during the month to hire a sister-in-law's expenses, but also particularly serious pull the children's hand, said, ? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car.
Some of the words said watertight, but also to do things quite well.
So, don't just see the old lady enjoying her blessings, you should also see her paying for it. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.