Generally, she needs to prepare new clothes, and can't go out. She knows about getting married, taking a shower, combing her hair, the old custom and crying for marriage. Because she needs to leave home, the bride has to cry for three days before marriage and sing some songs with friends and family, which somewhat releases the bride's fear and prepares her for leaving home.
what was the mood of the bride-to-be-married in ancient times?
shy, the father of an ancient girl asked the girl, I want to betrothed you. That woman can cry, so her father said, would you like to? That woman won't cry. Anyway, that's what it means. Listening to the book,
What does it mean to marry on behalf of the bride?
It means to pretend to be the bride and marry the person that the bride should marry instead of the bride.
if you were a bride to be married, which of the following two situations would you marry?
the second one.
introduction of bride-to-be-married
The author of Bride-to-be-married belongs to the genre of romance novels.
Who knows this girl, the bride-to-be-married
Maybe I know her. Take a picture to see
What is the bride-to-be-married? A song with Chinese style
1 wedding background music
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2, "Warm Festival"-full of happiness, with guests into the venue.
3. Proposal-Emil Wakin Chau: It is used at the proposal ceremony to tell the guests present that the bride is happy and a little vain.
4. "Violin Concerto No.8"-Violin Concerto is very suitable for background music, which makes people calm down immediately. Pay attention to the volume when using it. The sound is too high, which will destroy the sense of beauty.
5, "I swear》--westlife: Singing the voice of love in a male voice seems to be a confession, more like a commitment to the future.
6. I like you as you are-Huang Yunling: Whispering in a low voice, singing the simplest love and wanting to get married most.
7. Wedding in My Dream-Piano Music: Music full of happiness will bring the couple and guests into the wedding atmosphere quickly.
8. "You will marry me today"-Tao Jiji/Jolin Tsai: RB's style is jumping and playful, don't be afraid of being a slobber song, simple and straightforward love, why not!
9. "Love"-Cai Qin: Cai Qin has a unique voice, and the mellow contralto has high requirements for the venue and sound.
1. Close Lovers-Alejandro Delfino and Anita Mui: A rare love song in Chinese songs is suitable for almost all ages, and it won't look so bad; Saliva; .
11, "Maria"-the atmosphere of joy and joy can make guests; Warm up; It can also ease the tension of newcomers and enhance the excitement of newcomers.
12. Concerto of Love-the clear sound of the piano like running water is more suitable for indoor wedding venues, which makes the enclosed space endless.
13. "Give me a minute to miss you"-Xu Ruyun: The soft and cheerful violin and piano are like a cheerful heart to be married.
14. "Love"-Rene Liu: Set off the wedding background with simple lyrics and easy-to-understand sentences.
15. "Love You More Every Day"-Jacky Cheung: canto pop, with a high singing rate, likes Jacky Cheung's sincere and long-lasting love, and hopes that his family life will be as happy as his.
Music used by newcomers when they enter the venue:
16. Cannon in D major-a rhythm synchronized with the heartbeat, with the feeling of a typical March, every step is like a heartbeat, which will be suitable for a venue with a more elegant and holy environment.
17. "I Believe"-Fan Yichen: Everyone who has seen the movie "My Wild Girlfriend" has fallen in love with this tune. Even though the process is tortuous, you are my destination. Two people's past dribs and drabs, all the way; I believe; Repeatedly in front of your eyes, causing more * * * sounds.
18. "Aria on the G Spin"-Bach: It can be used in high-altitude venues, and it feels sacred and solemn.
19. "The Only"-Wang Leehom: If it is sung by the hero himself, even if the song is not so perfect, it is still sensational.
2, "My Heart Will Go On"-Celine Dior: Celine Dior's clear voice line requires high equipment, otherwise it can't show a hearty feeling.
21. Norwegian Forest-A cello interpretation of Petros's famous music, combined with the style of European classical folk music, is a perfect combination of seriousness and lightness. The bride and groom enter the venue with cheerful dance steps, no longer worrying about whether their steps are the same or not, and whether they step on the wedding March rhythm.
22, "La Province"-a venue suitable for the layout with an idyllic style.
23, "Wedding March"-Mendelssohn: Familiar music, how many girls look forward to it, at this moment, there is nothing to replace.
24. "Wedding March"-Wagner: The classic melody makes it easy for people to throw themselves into the joy of remarriage.
25, "Wedding March"-Andy Lau: The Chinese version of the wedding March, the lyrics are straightforward and very appropriate.
26, "Nothing Can Change My Love"-the lyrics are melodious and the chorus is wonderful. When cut out, it will show more full emotions.
27. "Air on the G String"-a familiar classic song, solemn and elegant. If you are tired of listening to "Wedding March", you might as well consider this music.
28, "This I Promise You"-slow and beautiful melody, hoarse boy, full of ...
Getting married, but not the joy of the bride to be married, as if it's nothing, always feeling something wrong, maybe rejecting it from the bottom of my heart, what should I do
If you like each other and get married, then you are rejecting it because of your free life that is about to end. If you don't get married because you love each other so much, I believe you know why
The ancient people got married, which is the process of getting married?
China traditional wedding is the essence of Chinese culture. The ancients thought dusk was auspicious, so they would marry at dusk; For this reason, the etiquette of combining husband and wife is called "faint ceremony". Faint ceremony is a gift among the five rites, which is the second milestone in life after the crown ceremony of men or the gift of women.
According to legend, the earliest marriage relationship and wedding ceremony in China began with Fu Xishi-made marriage and Nu Wa's matchmaking. As a mirror and an external discipline says: "In ancient times, there was no difference between men and women, and Tai Hao began to set up a wedding ceremony, taking the couple's skin as a gift." Since then, the couple's skin (paired deerskin) has become one of the classic wedding gifts. After that, in addition to the "ceremony of getting married", you have to "tell your parents"; In the Xia and Shang Dynasties, there appeared the festival of "welcoming in front of the court" and "welcoming in front of the hall". The Zhou Dynasty is the era of etiquette. At that time, a complete set of marriage etiquette was gradually formed. There were detailed regulations in Yili, and the whole set of rituals was combined into "Six Rites". Since then, the production of six-ceremony wedding has been the template of Chinese traditional wedding, which has been passed down to this day.
weddings in China can be divided into three stages:
prenuptial ceremony, that is, "engagement"
formal wedding, that is, the ceremony of "getting married" or "getting married", which means the combination of husband and wife
post-nuptial ceremony, that is, the ceremony of "getting married", "getting married" or "getting married", which means that men and women get married.
It is recorded in the Book of Rites that: "Those who are confused about the ceremony will be in line with the interests of the two surnames, and they will serve the temple in the upper class and inherit from the later generations. Therefore, men pay more attention to accepting gifts, asking for names, accepting gifts and inviting guests in the lower class. All the masters are only a few times outside the door, and they are promoted in the concession, obeying the temple and worshiping at the door. ..... Therefore, it is said that those who are unconscious of ceremony are also the foundation of ceremony. "
According to the records of the ceremony, the so-called six rites are: accepting gifts, asking names, accepting gifts, inviting guests, and welcoming relatives. It is said that the Six Rites originated in the Zhou Dynasty. Some scholars believe that there were already Six Rites in Zhou Wenwang's era, but some people did not follow them.
In the third year of Emperor Han Ping's Yuan Dynasty, Liu Xin and others decided to have a wedding ceremony, and the fourth assistant, Dr. Qing, told the family members of Qianlang that it was feasible to meet him personally. The next year, the empress was also appointed to accept Cai and Buji. During the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, the wedding of the Crown Prince to the Crown Princess was not invited, and from the Eastern Han Dynasty to the Eastern Jin Dynasty, many people did not follow the six rites to get married.
after the Tang dynasty, the crown prince began to invite guests, and the prince's wedding would follow the six rites. Later, "asking the name" was based on "accepting" and "inviting date" was based on "accepting"; Therefore, although the concept is still in accordance with the six rites, in fact, there are only four rites: "Nacai", "Naji", "Nazheng" and "Kissing". Zhu Zi's family ceremony combined "Naji" and "Nazheng" into one ceremony, so there were only three ceremonies.
In the Yuan Dynasty, there was a ceremony to discuss marriage.
In the first year of Hongwu in the Ming Dynasty, the party decided to make the wedding ceremony based on Zhu Zi's family ceremony.
in the Qing dynasty, according to the records of general rites, officials in the Han dynasty had nine rites from seven or more items, but all of them were combined into the ceremony of becoming a wife and a husband. In ancient times, only five rites were left: discussing marriage, accepting gifts, accepting coins, inviting guests and welcoming them. Other scholars and Shu Ren are relatively simple to get married, while folk weddings are generally carried out according to Zhu Xi's family law.
Three Books and Six Gifts
Three Books
Three books are letters of appointment, gifts and wedding reception:
Letters of appointment are books for engagement, which are handed over by the male family to the female family when "Naji" is over.
a gift book is a book used for "collecting gifts" (giving gifts). The gift book will list the types and quantities of gifts in detail.
as the name implies, a book for welcoming a bride is a book for marrying a bride, that is, it is used for "welcoming a bride".
Six Rites
Nacai, also known as Caixuan, is equivalent to "proposing marriage" and "matchmaking" in later generations. It means that the man has made a decision after careful consideration. "Wen Gong Jia Li" said: "Accept the gift of choosing, and the so-called promise in this world." In ancient times, it was more simple and simple, with the ceremony? It is recorded in the book "Shi Hunli" that the meeting ceremony held by the literati class is called "Zhi" or "Zhi" and only "uses geese". It was supposed to be a pheasant, but pheasants are not easy to be captured alive, and most of them are dead pheasants. It is not suitable for marriage, and the wedding is a major event in life, so the licensed couple has to wear and use clothes beyond their status.
There are 3 kinds of accepted gifts recorded in the Tong Dian of Du You in Tang Dynasty:
Gifts symbolize
Yuan Yuan, Yang Yuan, like the sky and the land, Yang He Xiang, and the flock is not a party
Wild geese follow the sun
sake and happiness
Liquor and liquor are the reasons for happiness
. Soft in nature
soft in reeds
Selaginella Selaginella is attached to the winding
Jiahe Xulu
Long-life wisp sewing clothes, and life-prolonging glue can combine different colors
paint with good internal and external light
five-color silk ...
Why do you want to have a "top" wedding?
In a wedding, the audience should keep their eyes on the bride's face for a long time. Therefore, if the bride wants to be different, she should make a surprise move in the hair style and headdress closest to her face.
' Shangtou' is a dramatic word, which means that before an actress goes on stage to perform, she has to work hard on her head. Depending on the characters who appear, it takes two or three hours to comb her hair, make hair ornaments, put on films, wear various kinds of' bubbles' and decorate flowers, etc. These procedures are called' Shangtou'.
The wedding should be the most beautiful and beautiful day of the bride's life. Make the best use of today's means to dress up beautifully to commemorate the most brilliant day of her youth. It is recognized to spend some money. Like a bride? All kinds of hair accessories, gauze, crowns, garlands, etc. on the head are quite expensive.
the most basic rule of "above" is that the bride is surprisingly beautiful.