The first thing you need to do is to get your child to take a break from the game.

The year "Valentine's Day", a rare to give yourself a vacation, I put the 7, 8-year-old son to the child's grandmother, I want to go and girlfriend shopping, to take a break.

I sent my son to his maternal grandmother's home, before going up the stairs, my son pointed not far from the supermarket and said: "Mom, you wait for me, I'm going to buy something." I said: "Mom accompany you." My son said, "I'll go by myself. You wait for me here, I'll be right back."

...... ...... I and my girlfriend shopping back, I went to my grandma's house to pick up my son, a son does not allow me to say a few words with my mom, and kept urging me: "Mom, let's go home!"

As soon as I left my grandma's house, my son took out a piece of chocolate from his coat pocket and handed it to me, saying, "Mom, this is my Valentine's Day gift to you."

Oh, the unexpected joy it, rare son of this heart, think of this day, my son in the grandma's home, how anxiously waiting for me to come back, to put this surprise to me.

The son's eyes focused brightly on me, so the deepest love for mom. Thank you, good son.

The son said again, "I see my father, so many years have not bought you any gift!" Instantly, weeping.

Good son, mom does not need anything, have you enough. You are my best gift in this life!

I am a 70, I was married for three years, my husband had a rich disease! He could eat and drink and could not do any work! I work alone while bringing up my children, and in the zero years when the field work was manual wheat harvesting and rickshaw pulling wheat! My son was a good boy! He always did me a favor! I remember my son was seven years old in the fall, Sunday, we went to the corn field with Lou on the fertilizer, at first I pulled to let my son to help me hold the handle, pulling two rows of corn! I poured fertilizer when my son saw me pulling the rope on the shoulder pressure bleeding! My son's words have never been forgotten! My son cried and said, "Mom, your shoulder is bleeding, I pull you to hold:, I am a man! When I grow up and have money, I won't let you do this job! I was really moved to tears by the child's childish words! My son had blisters on his back from the heat that day! Neighbors saw the poor man and said, "Your child really understands! Look at you two on such a hot day! The child was standing in the cornfield with his head almost exposed, pulling Lou! My eyes blurred with tears as I looked at the blisters on my son's back! There was nothing I could do! No one can help me!

Summer day, surprisingly busy, from 8:00 a.m. until 7:00 p.m., that day I took the child, leading the customer to see the house, not even a meal, just casually buy her two hamburgers and milk tea, at least pad it.

The good thing is that the day is not white, the business income almost have 2000 dollars. When I got home, I thought we hadn't eaten a proper meal during the day, so I took out vegetables and meat from the refrigerator, fried two dishes, and then steamed rice.

Waiting for the meal to be served on the table, my daughter sat on a chair, took the chopsticks to eat rice, eat before wiping her nose with her hand, look very budding, said a sentence, I heart is very difficult, she said that one day did not have a full meal, and then eat up a big mouthful. Watching her eat, originally strong tears could not hold back, downstream, also blame yourself for being stupid, in such a busy situation did not think of letting the mother-in-law see the child, but also did not think of letting their own mother to see, I thought that the customer look at the house to see one or two will be finished, I do not know that the day is so busy.

At noon, the child has the habit of napping, then she was sleepy and couldn't stand it, just when I was looking at the house, so she let her lie on the bed in the house to sleep. During her sleep, there are two groups of people successively look at the house, so she is a sweet nap. We mother and daughter spent almost the whole afternoon in that house that day.

If there is an afterlife, I will never choose to be a woman, because women are too hard, not want to be a full-time housewife, but also want to be a good companion of the child's childhood, such a job is almost nothing, unless it is their own single work. During the years I have been working as an agent, my child has sometimes followed me to see properties, and I have suffered a lot during this period. The child has not been weaned, she went to a house to see other people's bed is very good, curious to take off their shoes to go up to play, play almost, will pat the bed, let me lie on it, she had to eat a few mouthfuls of milk will not get out of bed. There are a few peers who get along well, know my daughter's temperament, sometimes when I look at the house, my daughter in bed, I know what's going on, and told me, go to the child breastfeeding, feed the finished and then come out, I can only smile, go into the house when the breastfeeding.

Now my daughter has grown up, but as long as I go out with me, to the house, from the milk into the closet to the closet, their own hide-and-seek with themselves, sometimes with me to see the homeowner said that your girl is really naughty, but it's fun.

Fortunately, the customers and homeowners are good people, never because I bring children to me have any discrimination, are very understanding, this point I am very grateful to them, regardless of the business success or failure, but the benevolence is still there, so that I am in their hearts trustworthy.

Every time I look at the house, my daughter will look up with her little face and say one thing to me, "Mom, did you get a single? The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know what to say. I'm not going to be able to get a lot more than that, but I'm going to be able to get a lot more than that. Looking at my daughter's clear and bright eyes my answer is often a word - buy!

Usually, my daughter will also tell me that I love you, mom, mom, you hard, as long as you hear her say such words, no matter how tired I am during the day, after hearing this word will also be swept away, and I feel that my own efforts are for her, even if outside the more aggrieved, back home to see her cute little face, the sense of well-being will be born.

The child's grandfather died almost half a year, I thought 2.5 years old, she has long forgotten, one day she took her picture book pointing to a pile of gorillas said to me, "This gorilla is mom, this is dad, this is grandparents, this is grandpa," I thought I heard wrong, I pointed to the gorilla and asked her once again this! I pointed to the gorilla and asked her again, "Who is this gorilla?" She said, "It's Grandpa", which instantly brought tears to my eyes, even though Grandpa has been gone for a long time, she still remembers him! I was so touched! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get it right, but I'm sure you'll be able to!

It was August 12, 1992, the day I will never forget: my husband took the family's fourteen thousand two hundred all out to go to Zhengzhou to buy goods, who knew that this day in Zhengzhou, all were stolen by thieves [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears]! That is really desperate ah, we two mouths crying to death, is at this time, my daughter is only three years old said: Mom and Dad, you do not cry, I do not spend money from now on, thirsty I drink the cold water of the hose, hungry I eat bread on the line [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears]! At that time, when I heard such a small daughter say so, I smoothly briefed my daughter and said: Mom and Dad do not cry, my good daughter! This incident has been the past almost 30 years, now mention me or two eyes tearful [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears]!

I remember every time I went back home to see my children, she cried out "you don't go", really can't stand the moment.

Just two days ago on May Day holiday, and 13-year-old daughter because of playing the phone conflict, she said I'm not her own mother, really put me angry burst into tears. The specific situation is, just ate dinner, I have the habit of going to square dance, I will give my daughter said to help wash the bowl, rare you at home for a few days, because usually their school time is very tight, home for dinner time is only just half an hour or so, after all, they are a private school, look at her so hard, basically did not tell her how to do housework, she promised to be very fast, but it is not moving, has been playing games there. There to play the game, I have to dance clothes are changed, also did not see her move a bit, I called her again, I said you a vacation back to play the phone, play the game, homework has not been done, the bowl also do not go to the wash, she began to have not spoken, I came to anger, I raised the volume of voice to her said "and then do not go to wash the dishes I will give you a cell phone broken, more and more disobedient! ", she immediately got angry and said "you just don't like me, just don't like me, I doubt if my own mother" which suddenly came out such a sentence to me confused, how I'm not your own mother, hard work to bring you up you still say this to me, the tears immediately stayed! I was angry to go to hit her, his father came over at once to pull me, children, talk about you have to care about wow, this is not to care about, the child how to think of me like this, I think in my heart, I said, where I'm not good for you, you say it out to me to listen to a little bit, she said a lot of firecrackers, what I do not understand her, what is always mean to her, her brother said that she was not born, is picked up, her aunt also said that she was born not me. The first thing I did was to ask my husband if he was going to be able to get a good deal of money from me, and then he would have to pay for the money. He suddenly asked me, "Mom, what about your mom?" Then I couldn't control it, the tears flowed down instantly, the kind that can't be stopped ......

2017 was the hardest year for me.

Hubby needs to go to Beijing to do a surgery, this time the old family father also entered a coma, I took my two and a half year old son back to my hometown hospital to accompany his father, this is to live is twenty days, I took the child and mother in the hospital days like years, looking at the day is not as good as a day of the father's heart like a knife. During this period of time, my husband in a distant relative's brother care in the hospital in Beijing to do minimally invasive surgery, in about a week's time he was discharged, in this matter I have always felt indebted to my husband.

Never left my daughter only in first grade, I had to send her to her mother-in-law's home, she began to call every day, crying and said I want my mother to think of my father, and then think that my mother really can not go back, one day she said, "Mom, you take care of grandpa, I will write my own homework properly, do not let you worry about it," I listened to the moment after the collapse of my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress, my stress. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good look at this, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good look at this, and I'm sure you'll be able to get a good look at this.

It is said that the greatest is the mother's love, in fact, the child's love for the parents more than the parents of the child's love, cherish the person in front of you, live happily ever after.

I came to Korea when my child was seven years old, every year will go back, the child has a godmother and godfather, I remember that year back to go to the child's godmother's home, I have some things to go later, the child and his godmother went ahead, the child's godmother said I do not know what your mother loves to eat dishes, my son instantly burst out of the I love to eat dishes, his godmother according to do so, I went to his godmother joked about my son and said that the mother kissed your mom love to eat dishes open mouth to come. Love to eat dishes open mouth, I instantly tears, because I'm outside for several years he did not forget what I love to eat, thankful to have you.