Eileen Chang said.
"Life is like a ball, but the person who teaches you the first dance steps may not be able to accompany you to the end."
So is love. But no matter what, when you love, you love seriously and when you don't, you let go.
The ancient poems that say "I don't love you" are very sad to read now.
01
After that, the book will not be sent, and the painting will not be available.
-- "Qing Ping Le" (清平乐留人不住)
Don't send letters after you leave here. The pleasure of the Painted House becomes broken clouds, vain and groundless.
Goodbye and live up to the encounter.
02
I break not thinking, you do not think of me.
--Xie Zhi "Bu San Zi Giving Prostitutes"
I will never think of you again, and you shouldn't think of me either. Since we broke up and stopped loving each other, what did we miss?
From now on, you are just a passer-by to me.
03
I heard that you have two intentions, so I came to break up with you.
-- Zhuo Wenjun "White Heads"
It is said that Sima Xiangru wanted to marry a concubine, so Zhuo Wenjun wrote this poem: I heard that you have someone else in your heart, so I came to cut you off.
Love is as pure as snow. If you do not love, I will not love.
04
From now on, do not think of each other again, and think of each other and you.
-- "Something to Think About"
Since we broke up, from now on, I'm going to break up with you!
No more lovers, no more lovesickness.
05
And you grow old together, old age makes me resentful.
-- "Poetry Rogue"
When I first promised to grow old with you, now I am anxious before I grow old, this kind of saying of growing old suddenly becomes empty.
Since the vow was broken, it's over.
06
A parting of the ways, each with its own joy.
- Li and Shu, Tang Dynasty
We are no longer in love. Since we decided to separate, let's say goodbye and enjoy each other.
Let go of each other, accept the blessing and say: take care, goodbye. It is open-minded and perfect.
07
Xiang Wang has a dream, the goddess has no heart.
- Song Yu "Goddess Fugue"
You like me, but I don't like you. Instead of being needlessly entangled, you should reject it outright.
Because I really don't love you.
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It is easy to change the heart of the old man, but the heart of the old man is easy to change. --Nalan Rongruo "Magnolia Flower" Nowadays, it's easy to change your mind, but on the contrary, it's easy to change your mind in this world. If you don't love, you don't love. Why make excuses? 09 This love should be long-lasting. --- Zhang "If you don't have a heart, I'll take a break" It's okay if we can't be together forever. If you don't care, I'll take a break. That's the dignity of love. Say love, confess and give up, it's spontaneous. 10 Hearing that you have another heart, pulling and destroying and burning. The destroying of it, when the wind is in the air! From now on, don't think about it again! -- Han Dynasty "Some Thoughts" When he heard that he had fallen in love with someone else, and was saddened in his heart, he destroyed and burned the exquisite token with an infatuation, and then raised its ashes in the wind. "From now on, don't be lovesick!" , and how decisive it was to cut it off like that! In love, there will always be humble people. When the breakup comes, why not be spontaneous? If the person you love is not in your heart, rather than endure the pain of breaking up, why not break up painfully. Say to the person who left, "I'm glad you came, and I'm not sorry you left." Then, move forward! Have faith that we'll eventually find the person who will watch the long, flowing river with us. Image source from the Internet, invasion and deletion Recommended reading The Most Beautiful Ancient Poetry in China The beauty of poetry is timeless. Like the sound of rain that has been beautiful for hundreds of millions of years, it is the drizzle on the sycamore. It is the intoxicating shade of flowers, the cool east wind of a small building. Under the moonlight is the shadow of the bird, and in the fragrance of rice is the frog, is the connection between the cloud waves and the small dance, and is the murmuring of the falling red and the grass. China's Most Beautiful Ancient Poems is a selection of nearly 200 beautiful ancient poems. The selected classic poems accumulate all the souls, wisdom, character, emotions, embraces and cultivation of the great poets and poets of ancient times. It enhances our spiritual qualities and cultivates our cultivation and delicate feelings.