First, don't pester him and give him a quiet space.
Whenever you fall in love, the most taboo is pestering and beating. Whether you are in love or breaking up, you must maintain a certain gentlemanly demeanor. After all, you are still you. You should at least have dignity and respect each other. No matter how deep your feelings are, remember to care about each other's feelings. Maybe the other person is in a mess and needs calm time and space. Your endless pestering will only make him more tired of you and strengthen his determination to leave you. So if you really want to get it back, don't force him with your entanglement, let him have a chance to calm down and think about how your relationship will continue. You can contact, but be rational.
Second, strive to improve yourself and make yourself better.
Love is like traveling. You explore slowly in a fresh place. When you have seen all the scenery, you will be tired, and you will begin to yearn for a new distance, so the attraction between two people will gradually decline. When a person doesn't love you, the best way to save him is to focus on himself, strive to improve himself externally and spiritually, and make himself more perfect, so that when he sees you again, he will feel that he has left for three days. At this time, you might as well read more books, learn a musical instrument, learn to dance, learn to dress up, and learn how to become thin and white. Women will never stop on the road to becoming beautiful and better. If you are in full bloom, the butterfly will come, and he will notice your brilliance.
Third, always recall the happy past with ta.
Being together for so long is bound to leave many good memories. If you want him to remember your feelings, you must remember them with him. Those unforgettable memories will be remembered, and he will be as unforgettable as you. Relive those stormy days with him, how did you get together? Think about your first confession, first date, first intimate contact, and many, many memories will come to mind. After everything you've been through together, I'm sure he will be very reluctant to part with you. Everyone is very affectionate. Even if it is two people, he will definitely feel uncomfortable. If there is a possibility of redemption, he is absolutely willing to return to your sweet moment. Let him know your thoughts and how much you miss him.