The formation of a child's good behavior has a lot to do with whether adults pay attention to the child's education in this area and whether the education method is appropriate. The following is m
The formation of a child's good behavior has a lot to do with whether adults pay attention to the child's education in this area and whether the education method is appropriate. The following is my compilation of information related to parenting knowledge in the middle class of young children, all parents take a look at it.
The child's good behavior has a lot to do with whether or not the adult pays attention to the child's education in this regard, and whether or not the education method is appropriate. A good habit of forming a good habit is generally to go through a process from the inner yearning, behavioral practice, the formation of habits of such a process. Due to the constraints of the child's neurological development and the influence of the child's weak control ability, the process of the formation of the child's behavioral habits inevitably has three characteristics, namely, gradual, repetitive and practical.
Graduality is folding the formation of children's good behavior is gradual, the content from less to more, the requirements of the low to high, and gradually accumulated arch, and gradually enough sex, stereotypes.
Repeatability refers to the formation of children's good behavior is not static, but in the formation process will often appear repeatedly, fluctuations in the ups and downs, showing a kind of instability.
Practicality refers to the fact that the formation of good behavior is mainly dependent on the child's daily life and social practice activities. The formation of good behavior throughout the child's daily life, interaction, games, labor and other activities, in the child's specific life and activities in the practice of practice, strengthen, and ultimately form a natural habit.
These three characteristics of the formation process of children's good behavior determines the formation of children's good habits of education is a long-term, systematic, coordinated educational activities. In this educational activity, to play the child's leading position, cultivate the child's self-esteem and self-confidence, so that the child's pursuit of progress in the internal drive to play a role, you can receive good results. This is where the adult's educational methodology and approach to education becomes important. The law of pedagogy tells us that good motivation for education is not equal to good results in education, and it takes more than just good motivation to achieve good results in education. To have love for children, the correct way of education is more important. To chapter and verse to use encouragement, praise, criticism, punishment and other means of teaching Xiao to achieve the desired purpose of education.
When educating children, praising good behavior is more effective than criticizing bad behavior. Praise allows children to learn more, it promotes children's self-confidence, raises children's self-esteem, and gives children more courage to face the new world and take on new tasks.
Finding your child's spirit
Finding your child's spirit
Finding your child's spirit is as important as finding your child's spirit, in a sense, as finding your child's spirit, in a sense, as finding your child's spirit, in a sense, as finding your child's spirit. The spirit of the child, where, as found in the success of the door brick and paving stones. Each child from the time of birth, he was formed by the genetic predisposition is different, some children are born, some organs or physiological functions than the average child to be good, learning a skill on several favorable conditions. For example, excellent vocal cords are important for the development of singing: long fingers are a good condition for playing a musical instrument.
If the child's ability to distinguish between the sound of the green is relatively fine, outstanding sense of music, with a good sense of tune and rhythm, the voice is round, bright, there are good qualities of music in the month: if the child is physically strong, responsive, flexible and coordinated movement, well-proportioned, good flexibility, is to develop athletes of the material: if the child's image of the expressive and imaginative power is very rich, a keen sense of perspective, there is an outstanding sense of line, proportion and color. If the child has a strong sense of expression and imagination, a keen perspective, and an outstanding sense of line, proportion, and tone, he or she is better suited to develop in the arts such as painting and face modeling. These children are more likely to become good musicians, athletes, painters, etc., under the same environmental influence and educational guidance as the average child. This innately inherited good quality is the child? spirituality.
How do you find out what that?
How do you find out what that "spirituality" is?
How do you find out where the spirituality lies? In general, the child is engaged in a variety of activities, there will be different performance, parents should always pay attention to observe and grasp the child's? Parents should always be aware of their children's spirituality. When you find that your child excels in a certain activity and outperforms other children of the same age, it may be a sign of his/her "spirituality". Spirituality Spirituality The characteristics of spirituality are: a little bit of it, a little bit of it, it's easy to get started, a lot of motivation and initiative in learning, a lot of enthusiasm, and a lot of performance.
Xu Jing is a girl, and her parents pushed her into the wave when the piano and electric piano boom swept in. The parents designed a beautiful picture for their daughter early on: it is better for a girl to learn a musical instrument, and the beautiful spinning body is like an angel's spirit, which will enable her to form a kind of superior childish temperament. Xu Min's father accompanied his daughter to the piano lessons with the wish of Yinghao, carrying an electronic piano on his shoulder. However, sitting next to the piano, the father saw his daughter's tears. The daughter's tears shocked the parents' ardent hope, and the father coldly parked down, realizing that his daughter was not interested in learning the piano. Where is the daughter's heaven from? He carefully recalled and pondered? Daughter at the age of 4 can tell a big story, less than 5 years old has been able to read some small articles, its language expression ability far beyond the same age. Being a father understood that his daughter's day from is in the language rather than in the music, should focus on the child's interests, the father took his daughter into a young children's English classes.
As soon as Xu Min came into contact with the English language, she fell in love with it as if she was obsessed with it. In the eyes of others, the 26 letters of the alphabet are as simple and boring to Xu Min as the most wonderful notes in the world.
The success of Xu Min's parents in educating their daughter lies in the fact that they are not the only ones who have been able to make a difference in the lives of their children. The first thing that they did was to find the best way for their child to be successful. Spirituality.
To create a good reading atmosphere for small children
In order to cultivate the child's love of books, the family should create a reading atmosphere, when you subscribe to newspapers and magazines every year, do not forget to specialize in subscribing to a certain number of newspapers or magazines for the child, and it is best to subscribe to a subscription in the name of the child, and take the child with you when you fetch it so that the child will have a good understanding of his or her own life and the child will have a good understanding of what the child is doing. To pick up, so that the child on their own magazines or newspapers and magazines will be easy to produce a sense of pride and responsibility, in the reading of the time will naturally be very serious. This is also a good way to develop your child's sense of autonomy and independence.
To create a good reading atmosphere for the family, through the family members of the love of reading, to cultivate the child's affection for books, the whole family love to read the family atmosphere on the child has a great influence. From the child 2 years old, in the conditions, should often take the child to the bookstore around, the family to go to the bookstore is a fun, in the adults to buy books at the same time, also emperor children to buy the right books, can be underestimated and children with the impact of the children's books on the children, if there is no child's personal involvement, only by the adults as the main to the children's purchase of books, the child did not experience a specific purchase of books, book selection process, he will not be able to appreciate the book buying process, he will not be able to experience the book buying process, he will not be able to experience the book buying process. The process, he will not experience the enjoyment of buying books and choosing books, and will not be able to get the books to produce a deep impact. If you take your child together *** with the purchase of books, in the bookstore, not to mention the wide range of books in the bookstore and people in the purchase of books in the kind of atmosphere on the child's influence, that is, in the face of a wide variety of counting a large number of books, the child will also feel dazzled, probably do not know which books to choose. At this time, adults should give children a certain amount of guidance to help children choose the right book box, on the bookstore not only broaden the child's horizons, but also through the process of selecting books, but also to develop the child's ability. Children personally involved in the selection of their favorite books from a large number of books, naturally, both the impact of the ringing moment and very emotional, reading is also extraordinarily attentive. If the child at the same time looked at several books, you can not meet all the requirements of the child, leaving a few books and so on later to buy, tell the child and so you read these books and then buy those books, or that a few books and so you do something good after you buy, so that the child has a few books on the idea of a few books, the child's role of the Pride of the City will be better.
Usually on holidays or children's birthdays, you can also make the book as a gift to the child, you can also let the child to the book as a gift to others, etc., these are in the cultivation of the child's hobby of the book and the interest in reading.
To help children manage their own books and magazines, books should be put in a fixed place, do not throw and put. Usually to cherish the books, wash your hands before reading, do not dirty the books. Don't eat while reading, wash your hands after reading and then eat, because the oil used to print the book usually contains lead, in case of sticking to the food and eat into the mouth of the child's physical development is not good. The magazines that you order for your child should be carefully stored after you finish reading them, and when they are all collected for a year, you should bind the magazines together with your child for a year. This will not only cultivate your child's good habit of borrowing books, but will also be good for developing your child's self-care ability. And this can also play a role in making the books always read new.
Learning to read after listening, speaking a long time to prepare, but also have a certain perceptual knowledge as a foundation, for small children is a certain degree of difficulty. However, it is important to develop a love of reading at a very young age, because the ability to read is the ability to visualize and understand the new world, and the ability to achieve success in future studies.
In short, 1-3 years of age is the key period of the child's physical and mental development, as well as the key period of the child's intellectual development, to seize this period, to provide the child with a good external living environment and educational environment, not only pay attention to the development of intellectual factors, but also pay attention to the cultivation of non-intellectual factors, in order to promote the child's comprehensive and healthy development from all aspects of the body, intellect, and psychology, to lay a good foundation.
To give the child more to create a musical atmosphere
Music is through the notes, melody, rhythm to express thoughts and feelings, to cultivate the child's ability to feel the music, the key is to have a plan, purposeful training of the child's feelings for music and imagination, first of all, you should cultivate the child's interest in the sound bearer. Experts believe that the best period for human beings to learn music is 3-10 years old. around 3 years old is the best period for sight-singing and ear-training, and around 3-5 years old is also equipped to learn the key organ? readiness? However, from the perspective of cultivating children's interest in music, letting them realize and appreciate the beautiful melodies of music, and enabling them to sense and respond to the joyful rhythm of music, children's musical cultivation should begin at an early age. Rousseau, a great French thinker, said: ? To inspire the child's interest, when this interest has matured, and then teach him to learn. If the adults in the family can sing, they can often sing to their children, sing beautiful lullabies to their children when they put them to sleep, humming a little song of Yoguan while doing housework, teaching their children some children's songs of Yoguan when they go for a walk with their children, and often playing music in the house, and so on. It doesn't matter if the adults in the family don't know how to sing, they can often let the child listen to music tapes and records. The first thing that you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
Provide your child with some toys like drums and instruments that make noise and play with them. When the child is more than 2 years old and almost 3 years old, we should pay attention to the child's visual singing and ear training, and the child's ability to listen to the sound of the training. If possible, you should let your child practice singing with the piano. Do not think that the child is still small to the child to let go free, because this time the child is in the critical period of sight-singing and ear training, if this time the child can not be thorough to a good external musical environment, resulting in the child to listen to the sound is not allowed to sing or singing out of tune, it will be very difficult to correct in the future. This period should let the child and the music read aloud children's songs, and music melody dance play, let the child listen to the soundtrack of the story, and so on.
The music you listen to for your child should be melodic, cheerful, soft, and in the right key. Because the child's hearing organs are in the developmental stage, and those very high sound, the melody rhythm is very intense jazz, percussion, disco and other music is very likely to make the child's tender hearing organ damage, generally not suitable for children to listen to.
If your child has a good sense of music and is interested in music, you should give him or her further training.
But in the field of raising children's sense of music, we must master two principles: First, the cultivation of children's sense of music is inculcation rather than indoctrination: Second:, whether it is music learning or music activities, we must adhere to the child-centered activities must continue to the child's interest in the child is willing to as a prerequisite, and can not be forced or coerced to avoid the child's rebelliousness.
Learning knowledge should be combined with the cultivation of ability
Teaching children to learn knowledge should be combined with the cultivation of the child's thinking ability, this is because the learning of knowledge needs to cultivate the logical memory, and the cultivation of the logical memory must be developed in the development of the child's thinking activity as a prerequisite.
So how do you develop a child's ability to think through the learning of knowledge? As in the 1-3 year old period to be young children to set up the thinking is mainly intuitive action thinking, the signatures of this thinking is characterized by: thinking and children's feelings, perception and action closely linked to the play young children's thinking who activities are clearly affected by their perception of action. In other words, the thinking activity is obvious by virtue of the **** body image. According to the characteristics of this stage of the child's thinking, so it should be through the body of things to stimulate the child's thinking.
To young children thinking process: first through the perception to obtain the material, and then after analysis, synthesis, comparison, classification, abstraction, generalization and other basic processes to complete the entire thinking process. Therefore, to teach children to learn to think, that is to say, to teach them to learn to analyze, learn to compare, learn to generalize and classify, to teach children a variety of different thinking operations, especially analysis and synthesis, comparison, generalization and classification, which is not only for the development of children's thinking must be, but also these various thinking operations, but also can be transformed into a way of logical literacy under certain conditions.
First of all, in the intellectual learning activities with children, it is necessary to consciously teach children to learn to compare the similarities and differences of things and pay attention to the characteristics of things.
Observing things, comparing their similarities and differences, and recognizing their characteristics is an important method of scientific research. This ability should be cultivated in children from an early age. For 1-3-year-old children, one of the main elements of knowledge learning site is to have as much understanding of the world around him. Adults should help the child gradually recognize the world around him, the real world is full of endless wonders. When teaching children to understand the world, we should first teach the characteristics of the remarkable things, because the characteristics of the remarkable things on the child's profound impact, easy to understand and remember: and through the characteristics of the remarkable things, but also easy to guide the child to compare the similarities and differences, so that the child to pay attention to the characteristics of things.
It is also possible to help children categorize animals by making them play the game of finding friends for small animals.
You can ask your child to classify objects into two categories according to animals and plants, or to classify objects into two categories according to food and utensils. For example, let your child divide objects such as cabbage, apple beams, watermelon, pots, bowls, chopsticks, etc. into two categories, food into one category and utensils into another category, etc.
In short, combined with the child's learning of knowledge, the child's classification training, not only can make the child's knowledge systematized and organized, improve the child's ability to think, but also to cultivate the child's logical thinking is also very helpful.