In the traditional thinking of the Chinese people, it is a very important requirement for two people to be well-matched when getting married. Pay attention to the fact that the two families have similar family backgrounds and are close in age. Generally speaking, the gap should not be so big. In this way, in the eyes of everyone, it will be considered a good marriage. But not all marriages are like this. The couple we are going to talk about today has a very different age gap. It is precisely because of the big age difference between the two that their relationship was not favored by others at the beginning, and they have been living in the criticism of others.
With the development of the times, people's minds have gradually become more open and they are more and more accepting of more things. But to this day, many people still cannot accept that the age gap between husband and wife is too large, because in the eyes of most people, this is against ethics. Ma Yuqin married a young man who was only 28 years old when she was almost 60 years old. The gap between the two people can be seen in the numbers. At that time, the relationship between the two people caused quite a stir.
In 1977, Ma Yuqin was a duet actor in a song and dance troupe. The song and dance troupe often performed in various places, and it was during the performance that she met her young husband, who stayed with her for the rest of her life. This 28-year-old young man is called Li Yucheng. When he first saw Ma Yuqin perform, he was only 8 years old. Looking at Ma Yuqin performing on the stage, her singing voice was melodious. Everything seemed so perfect in Li Yucheng's eyes. Although Li Yucheng was very young at that time, Ma Yuqin had become a goddess-like existence in his heart.
After that, Li Yucheng mentioned Ma Yuqin to his parents, and found out that his father knew Ma Yuqin and had been classmates. Li Yucheng himself likes duets very much, and as long as he joins the same song and dance troupe as Ma Yuqin, the two of them will definitely become familiar with each other. So he told his father that he also wanted to become a duo actor. After reaching the appropriate age, Li Yucheng's wish to become a duo actor has never changed, and Li Yucheng also fulfilled his wish to enter the song and dance troupe where Ma Yuqin was. When the song and dance troupe was undergoing a duo transfer, Ma Yuqin and Li Yucheng also began to get really familiar with each other. At this time, Ma Yuqin also had a very good impression of Li Yucheng.
Time passed quickly, and in a blink of an eye, Li Yucheng had reached the age of starting a family. No one knows that Ma Yuqin has been in his heart for a long time. He also looked down upon the marriage partners chosen by his parents and rejected them all one after another. At this time, Li Yucheng also felt that he should get married, but the person he married must be Ma Yuqin.
In this way, when the time was right, Li Yucheng expressed his heart to Ma Yuqin. Ma Yuqin was also shocked, because she never thought that a young man would like an old lady like herself. Ma Yuqin also had concerns about Li Yucheng's pursuit. Because of her age, external pressure, and various objective factors, she was unable to respond. Li Yucheng knew that Ma Yuqin rejected him because the age gap between the two was too big, but Li Yucheng really didn't take it to heart and kept pursuing her. Ma Yuqin originally had a good impression of Li Yucheng, but seeing Li Yucheng's sincerity, she agreed.
Obviously, this relationship is one that does not receive blessings from others. Li Yucheng's parents were very angry after learning that their son was actually with Ma Yuqin and severed ties with him. Because of this incident, his mother became ill and eventually died. The lack of support from his parents and the disapproval of people around him did not affect Li Yucheng's heart, because in his heart, this was love.
After the two got together, Ma Yuqin once felt inferior to her own conditions, because she was already old and yellow and no longer looked young. In order to better match Li Yucheng, she once went to a plastic surgery hospital, hoping that the doctor could make her look younger, thinking that there would be less rumors outside.
But in fact, Li Yucheng didn't care about this. What he really liked was Ma Yuqin.
The two have been married for many years now. Their relationship has always been stable and they live a happy life. Although the negative voices never stopped during this period, this did not affect their happy life.
Summary
Li Yucheng and Ma Yuqin got married for no other reason than love. The reason why the two people have been able to work together until today is because of the power of love supporting them. During this period, they must have experienced pain and fear, but fortunately, the two of them spent it together. These hardships will eventually turn into sweet memories between each other. In front of love, everyone is equal. It is the worldly perspective that classifies love. Li Yucheng is very brave to be able to face his own heart and endure the pressure from the outside world.