Recently, I received a private message from a netizen who is a senior science student, but recently realized that what she really loves is fashion design. She has nearly 8 years of art foundation, but apparel design belongs to the liberal arts, she has been in the science class since her sophomore year of high school, and a lot of the contents of the liberal arts have not been learned, if she decides to study apparel design she will have to be downgraded into the liberal arts class and repeat the study.
She had discussed this with her parents, but they were not very supportive, not supportive of two reasons, one, they think it is too late to change to study fashion design, but also to pay more than others, this choice is unrealistic; two, they think that fashion design, this kind of artistic profession in the future is difficult to find a job, the future of the road will be more difficult to go.
She still wants to study fashion design, but now she is very hesitant to choose her favorite road, or to follow her parents' wishes to take a more secure road.
In fact, there is no road that is absolutely right or absolutely sure, there is always uncertainty in the sure thing, and there is always doubt and uncertainty in the right thing. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
In my teenage years, I used to think that life would be a straight road, and that I could walk along it, work hard, and go all the way to the end. It is only now that I realize more and more that life is full of forked paths, life is full of crossroads, and if you are willing, you can even open up a new road.
So, there is no "better road", there is only one road, the one you choose.
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Well-known writer Feng Tang in the book "36 big" mentioned that he abandoned the medical from literature from the business of the transformation process.
Before becoming a writer, Feng Tang studied medicine at the Union Medical College for eight years, from the serious class to read to the doctor of medicine, from DNA, RNA to cells to tissues to gross anatomy, from physiology to pathology to pharmacology, from traditional Chinese medicine to internal medicine to neurology to psychiatry to obstetrics and gynecology, which can be said to spend a lot of effort to read out such results, Feng Tang should be considered a superb learner.
After spending so much effort and energy on medicine, he still couldn't stop him from finally abandoning medicine and choosing to become a writer.
In the Phoenix TV program "Medallion", Feng Tang once talked about his inner belief that doctors and writers are in fact one and the same, and he did not think that the past eight years of medical career is not useful at all, on the contrary, the whole process of studying medicine has brought him a lot of things.
For example, he cares more about human beings than the average person, and is psychologically more able to appreciate everyone's hard work and happiness, and then, for example, as long as something related to the human body, he describes it more conveniently, more detailed and more precise. It is through this eight-year-long medical career that he is more certain that his future goal is not to be a doctor but to write.
No part of life is in vain, even the unexpected experience, as long as the heart to walk well, you will always find it special meaning.
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The famous Japanese writer Mr. Haruki Murakami didn't decide to professionally engage in novel writing until after he was thirty years old. Before that, he had been running a small store similar to a jazz club, and the store had suffered all kinds of severe situations. Then, with great difficulty, and thanks to the desperate efforts of Murakami and his wife, the store finally broke even when he was about to turn 30, and hired help.
But at this point he decided to give up the store and turn to writing novels. In his opinion, no matter what you do, once you do it, you have to do it with all your might, otherwise you can't rest easy. If the ambiguity and duplicity end in failure, the feeling of remorse will not be able to brush off for a long time.
So Murakami, who was in his 30s, transferred the rights to the store despite the opposition of those around him. He discussed with his wife, "Let's give me two years of freedom. If it doesn't work out, why don't we just open another small store somewhere? We're still young, we can start all over again." Although the Murakami family still has a number of outstanding debts, with the encouragement and support of his wife, Murakami believes that everything will be fine.
Although he was a bit of a late starter, Murakami became a professional novelist as he had hoped, and not only that, but he won many awards for his work, which has become a favorite among readers.
It's important to note that many people didn't think it was a good idea for Mr. Murakami to move his store to focus on his writing, but that didn't stop him from doing it.
When you really want to do something, you don't care what other people think, or what they say to you, all you care about is how persistent you are with the idea.
What you care about is how persistent you are with this idea.
I have many friends around me, although there are ideas, but just think about it, and not willing to put in the effort to make a change, but only to find all kinds of reasons for themselves to make themselves at ease, or simply to blame everything on the fate of the arrangement.
You need to be clear about whether you really like or want to do something, or just daydream about it.
Don't refuse to change, don't be afraid of the future, what you lose is only temporary, what you seek is forever.
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Not long ago, the Taiwan rock band Mayday for HTC to create a new brand promotional video "because of the insistence so brilliant" came out, the film that insisted on the dream and change the fate of the girl Lin Jinglan's story is unforgettable.
Lin Jinglan, who suffers from a congenital severe hearing impairment, is considered by ordinary people to have no possibility to realize her dream of dancing.
Her dance teachers invariably told her that she was not a good dancer, and that she would not be able to pursue a career in dance. However, in the face of others' prejudice and blows, Lin Jinglan still did not give up on her dream, and with her dedication and love of dance, she gradually learned to use her own way - the vibration of the soles of her feet on the floor to feel the rhythm of the music.
Now she has not only realized her dream of dancing, but also has her own personal dance troupe and has become a real choreographer, who has rewritten her own destiny with her courage and perseverance.
This sounds incredible, but it is clear that destiny is not impossible to change, but how you think and what you do.
Sometimes give us the strength is precisely the prejudice of others and blow, do not be so easy to deny yourself, even if encountered difficulties and setbacks, even if they are looked down upon by others, who has no right to judge your future, about tomorrow's genius knows.
People who have dreams will always find a way out for their dreams.
Blaming fate is better than changing yourself. Only you can be responsible for your own destiny. Life can not turn back, but can turn. And every turn in life lies in your choice. The process of transformation is not easy, but the results are fascinating and worth a try.
Stick to what you think you should do, and then, prove it to others.
If you want to realize your aspirations, you must both walk bravely towards your goal and never back down, and also learn to adjust your course judiciously, making gorgeous turns at every fork in the road of your life.
When you can not make a choice, is not no way to go, but you should adjust the route, change the idea, and even create a new road.
Some roads in life, the choice can not go back, can not regret, can not start over, but can turn.
Waiting for the wind is not as good as chasing the wind, the process of chasing is the meaning of life.