In such a case it must be too many times in a single loop. A good song can't be an alarm clock because it has the best memory in the morning, and an alarm clock song can easily ruin the image of a good song in your mind. I suggest you don't listen to songs when you study, even pure or light music, because listening to music can be distracting. For a while, I also listened to songs and played background music for other things. I always made the mistake of getting drunk. I probably wasn't paying special attention. The worst way to catch it is to cry; the other person shows a determination to repent and he still persists. Then the other person says, "You always think I'm having an affair anyway, there's no way I can live anymore. I'll just leave and find another one.
I listened to the music and was taken away by the music thoughts drifted across the ocean. Sometimes singing along to a familiar melody, and once writing answers along with the lyrics. Music is for relaxation, but too much relaxation makes it hard to reach our learning goals and delays learning. I need to clear my mind and deal with the junk. I would go for a walk, find someone to talk to every day, make a phone call to wash out the aftermath of that song. One situation that is the worst is when the cell phone store downstairs keeps yelling for a sale.
Listening to a few rounds of promotional words the whole thing would be memorized still lingering. It's like a big mom's square dance, it's meaningless and pointless to swing around in your head. Getting out of the house isn't enough unless you drive farther away. If this environment is predictable, it's no wonder cars are banned from honking during high school. Really all in all, whatever the case, try not to let your ears listen to the same thing over and over again, it gets tiring and annoying. Take care for your health.
Make your lover think you are better than that ambiguity by improving your thinking and behavior. There is no need to maintain a relationship. He will naturally come back to you. This is the best policy. The middle policy is to catch, but after you catch, be careful not to cry and fuss so easily, and let the other person take a stand and choose which way to go. If the other person says he has changed the past and is determined to break off the affair and live a good life, then forget about it and never mention it again.