It feels like there is less and less to talk about with my parents, what should I do?

We have a generation gap with our parents a lot of the time, because of growing up in a different era and accepting different mainstream values, so in many cases it will feel like there is nothing to talk about between the two generations. Especially for young people, many times they accept a kind of modern values that are different from the mainstream of other people, which leads to the collision of two kinds of ideas, and there is no way to integrate them well together. What we can do is need to go to break such a barrier, in my opinion can start from the following aspects.

One, more communication with parents.

And parents talk less and less, there is a generation gap which is inevitable, especially with the growth of age, slowly into the work. There is no more time to get along with your parents, and gradually there is no way to get into the same environment, but also slowly less a lot of topics. But many times on the parents of the company, do not necessarily have to tell them everything, as long as they talk to them more about some of the trivial things in life to communicate with them, slowly and naturally this situation will be better. As an adult, with their own responsibilities and their own life in the trouble, these can talk to their parents, more think, let us become more intimate with each other.

II. Encourage your parents to get in touch with new things.

More often than not, the reason why there is no topic with the parents, is because nowadays the young people have been in contact with a lot of new things, but the parents gradually have no interest in this matter. Every generation has its own interest in things, parents should also encourage them to contact some new things, so that they have their own life. As a parent does not mean that you have to put your heart and soul in your children's heart, have a career, have a favorite thing, naturally there will be more topics between the two generations.

Three, more talk about their own ideas.

As the saying goes, the relationship with parents, especially after reaching adulthood, is more of a state of reporting the good news and not the bad news, all and parents say some happy things in their own lives, and even talk more about some trivial things in their own lives, will make them feel very happy. Because they do not have the means to understand their own career, and some of the parents will be more able to make them interested, so do not care and the parents of the topic becomes less, is so that some of the family matters will make them feel happy.