When we were young, because of our work, we had to work with some people we hated. After you retire, there is no need to force yourself. Avoid those people who are of no benefit to you and avoid them if you can, so as not to feel bad.
The first type is a ruthless person. This kind of people often don't know how to be grateful. When they ask for something from you, they will do everything possible to please you; when they feel that you are of no use, they will immediately throw you aside; when you ask for something from them, Sometimes, they will shirk in every possible way. So for people like this, whether they are relatives or friends, it is recommended to stay as far away as possible.
The second type is a duplicitous person. This kind of person will have different words in front of different people. He will never talk about your shortcomings in front of you, because he knows that everyone likes to hear good things. If you foolishly believe him and tell him your secret without any reservation, he may turn around and tell other people in exchange for their trust, and in the end it will only be you who will be hurt.
The third type is a selfish person. Such people always only have eyes for themselves and no one else. They only do things that are good for themselves. For profit, they can betray anyone, including their own parents, brothers and sisters. Moreover, such people will never put themselves in someone else's shoes. They will only consider problems from their own perspective and never consider other people's feelings. In their hearts, personal interests always come first.
Old people can no longer withstand hardship after retirement, so we must stay away from these heartless people and not let our kindness be taken advantage of by villains. Instead of wasting time interacting with these people, it is better to spend more time with your family, or do things that are good for your body, such as: square dancing, playing chess with old friends, going to a senior college, etc.