But many couples will gradually lose patience with the other half in their long-term relationship, because they are too familiar with each other, and the novelty has disappeared.
In marriage, women will become more and more dependent on their husbands, and husbands will gradually become disgusted and irritated by this dependence. If a woman's feelings are not answered for a long time, she will have doubts about herself and her husband and become anxious.
There are more and more contradictions between two people, and finally, because of a little thing, in the face of a woman's inexplicable temper, a man may feel unreasonable.
Faced with such a woman, men just want to escape, but for their own responsibility, they are not allowed to maintain this marriage that is about to collapse. At this time, they will want to go outside for comfort.
Once a man has a "relationship" with a woman with a family, there is only one best ending left.
Lao Zhou and his wife have been married for ten years, and their feelings have long since lost their original passion. He has begun to get tired of this boring marriage.
My wife has changed from young and beautiful, gentle and considerate, to a yellow-faced woman now, irritable and irritable. Men like young and beautiful women, and so does Lao Zhou.
Just then, Lao Zhou's company recruited a female secretary. She is married and has a three-year-old daughter. At work, the woman is gentle and considerate to Lao Zhou, and the work assigned to her can be completed well. Lao Zhou thinks she likes this woman.
Especially when he got home and saw the gap between his wife and that woman, he just wanted to run away from his wife. Two people live together day and night for a long time, and the woman also has feelings for Lao Zhou and betrays the other family together.
Finally, their affairs were discovered. Lao Zhou's wife wanted a divorce, and he agreed, and her wife shared more than half of the property. But he just wanted to be with that woman and agreed without thinking.
When the woman knew that more than half of his property had been given to his wife, she suddenly changed her face and said that she would not be with him. At this time, his divorced wife is no longer the old yellow-faced woman, and she has become radiant again. Lao Zhou regretted it, but he had no choice.
Marriage requires both husband and wife to tolerate and help each other, rather than being rejected after one party has given everything for this family. As husband and wife, both of them should take responsibility. Men earn money outside, and women take care of children and the elderly at home, with a clear division of labor.
But some men only see their own suffering, but ignore women's suffering. It is clear that both sides are fulfilling their responsibilities, but men mistakenly think that only they are shouldering the burden.
Men will dislike their wives because their faces and bodies are out of shape, and they will want to escape because women don't know themselves.
However, people also have emotions under the pressure of housework and children. This kind of emotion has always been digested by oneself and endured silently.
They can tolerate these negative feelings about their families, their husbands' incomprehension, and even their husbands' scolding, but they can't tolerate their husbands' betrayal.
Husband's betrayal is betrayal of this family, so what is her daily contribution? Whether this determines their efforts, pressure is not an excuse for cheating.
Many men think that women outside are better than their wives in all aspects, but forget that their wives used to be like this, just for the family and for him.
They think that women outside marriage are just fresh and curious, and it is really unfair that their wives have paid so much for them, but they can't get what they deserve in return.
This tells women from another angle, after marriage, don't blindly pay for the family and ignore yourself. You can't focus on your family, you should get in touch with things outside and try to make yourself more perfect.
The truly perfect marriage is that two people are improving themselves, rather than one party voluntarily compromising life in order to reach the other.
A woman's contribution to the family must be seen by her husband, and she must stand in the same important position as her husband, so that men will respect and appreciate her contribution.
Therefore, once men and women who already have families have sexual relations, both families will be affected. The best result for two people is to delete each other from their lives, manage their marriage well and pray for forgiveness from their partners.