Actually you have to understand what the old person really needs and what is the reason she is really angry? In fact, I think the reason why your grandmother is really angry is not because she didn't receive the red packet, but because your parents didn't send him a message and didn't accompany her, which made her feel a sense of being neglected.
Elderly people are really just old children who need companionship and attention.
1, when on vacation, often go home to accompany her. Let her feel valued and needed, do not let her feel lonely, in front of her often and your parents video, so that your grandmother and your parents have a form of contact, so that her thoughts get a good support and rest. What's more, let her feel that your parents also miss her and care about her.
2, from time to time to take your grandmother out and around, to divert her attention. In fact, the old man's brain is not so much space to remember a lot of things, she cares in fact is not the red packet, she wants that red packet is not a big role, she cares about the significance of the red packet, is the children of her importance, is the children's companionship. You take her long to go out and look around, see other things, talk to other people, look at the square dance, let her mood relax some.
3 to the elderly to create a small surprise, pick a special day, your parents have time to make up for her a holiday, buy a cake, make a meal, enjoy the knees, the family together to talk about, talk about the current situation ah! Talk about the child's future, talk about East Street and West Street and those things happened, so that the elderly feel accompanied, feel the love of children.
In fact, I think the grandmother is not angry at all, she is just difficult, difficult children in such an important holiday did not think of her, difficult to wait for a long time to finally wait for a chance to get along with their children fell through, difficult to be alone, there is no companionship, there is no children to be happy, difficult to children are too busy to have spare time. The old man is just looking forward to the empty after a little psychological gap, she is not really angry, more with her, more and her chat, so that her emptiness and loneliness have to rely on, it's good.