1, extended family responsibility
In a fourth-tier city, 6,000 yuan a month counts as upper-middle income. If you are like a young man, you just need to take care of yourself and the whole family is not hungry, that will definitely be enough, and you will have a good life. But if you have to take care of a few people, you will be very reluctant. There are old people and children in the world. Children go to school, children spend more money and so on. As we all know, after having a family, we find that money is really not enough to spend, not to mention earning 200 a day. It is estimated that 1000 a day is not enough. It's really difficult to support a family, let alone buy a house. So after marriage, the biggest worry still comes from money. With money, 99% of the troubles can be removed.
I don't dare to spend or get sick at all.
Many friends who work as carpenters and painters sometimes earn 300-500 yuan a day, but this is unstable. Sometimes they don't have a job for half a month. The core thing is that they don't have five insurances and one gold, and they dare not spend money, let alone get sick. Health means saving money. If you are ill, you will work for a year for nothing. A serious illness plunged the whole family into poverty. It is normal for a family to be dragged down by illness. The poor can't afford to get sick.
I often tell my parents, don't be reluctant to eat, don't just focus on making money, and pay more attention to your health. Illness not only costs money, but also needs someone to take care of it. Don't always think about making money, and spend more money on treatment when you are tired. Good health is over wealth.
It costs money to buy a house and marry a wife.
The main reason why many people dare not spend money indiscriminately is that there are three major expenditures, that is, three mountains, which make them breathless. The first mountain is for children to go to school. Children's education is definitely not a small expense, and it costs hundreds of thousands according to the minimum standards until graduation from university. The second mountain is a house. Now many people are forced to buy a house. Children have to have a hukou to go to school. The child's wife and mother-in-law asked to buy a house. It's really hard without a house. But the house price is not cheap now. It is really not easy for many people to save so much money by scrimping and saving. The third mountain is to marry a daughter-in-law for my son. Nowadays, the difficulty of getting a wife has become a hot topic in society, and the high bride price has always been an important reason to hinder marriage. Now, the ordinary bride price is at least1200,000. This is a big expense for ordinary families.
There is no easy son in the adult world, and life is really not easy. When I was alone, I thought I could live well with a monthly salary of 2000. Now everyone with a monthly salary of 1000 feels that money is not enough, and the speed of making money can never keep up with the speed of spending money. As an ordinary migrant worker, it is really not easy to earn money. If you don't save money, where will it be enough?