In a word, rituals are important.
Think about the time when you first fell in love, no matter what holiday it was, you would go through elaborate preparations to give each other a source of joy. And during this festival after festival, you deepened your understanding of each other and **** the same topic more and more.
So put, I think, if you can re-prioritize the sense of ceremony this thing, perhaps you can keep your love in a more energetic state. As for the sense of ceremony how to reflect, I think you can through the following ways:
(1) do not let go of any holiday that can create a surprise: Whether it is the anniversary of the love or what Valentine's Day, you can take advantage of it.
For example, you can choose to prepare a gift for each other on this special holiday. The gift does not need to be particularly expensive, as long as the heart is good. Perhaps the other party is more important to you on the degree of importance of this holiday, rather than the gift itself.
Of course, you can also make some meaningful gifts together during this holiday season and keep them as a souvenir for the future.
(2) You can set a specific date to go see a movie, etc.For example, you can agree to go to a movie or have a big meal together on whatever number of days of the month no matter what happens.
Such dates will create that sense of anticipation, and that sense of anticipation will also unconsciously increase the **** same topic of conversation between the two people, so that the two people have more to talk about.
All in all, no matter what, try to make life not so boring but different. After all, if you live the same life every day, it's going to be uninteresting for everyone. So, try to change it up and make life more ceremonial~