Most women will walk into the confused area after they are forty years old.
Middle-aged women tend to focus on their families, rarely think of themselves first, and take care of their husbands and children wholeheartedly.
But this kind of pay can't be exchanged for equal care and treatment, and such troubles have been lingering in the hearts of middle-aged women.
In life, women who always want to pay for others are often not so happy. On the contrary, those women who can think for themselves and love themselves more than others can live happier lives.
When a person is used to being treated well by others, he will take this kind of kindness for granted.
Blindly paying will only make the other party enjoy the beauty more naturally. You can't make yourself happy.
Women live not to please others, but to have a better sense of self-identity. They are the leaders of their own lives.
Only when you focus on yourself and learn to care for yourself will others pay equal attention to you.
Only by living for themselves can middle-aged women learn to be "selfish" and adopt a live high attitude so that people around them can respect themselves. Only in this way can women be more blessed.
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After a woman reaches the age of forty, most families seem to naturally contract all the housework to her.
After coming home from work every day, women have to take care of the daily life of the family and do busy housework.
Such a woman will only make her life more and more difficult.
When you are tired from housework, your husband is lying on the sofa playing games. Many women put up with this situation and don't want to cause a quarrel.
Smart women will pay more attention to their health, and these housework will be arranged for everyone in the family to do fairly.
Middle-aged women should pay attention to their health and have more rest in family life.
If you swallow all the housework at the beginning, no one will take the initiative to help you in the future, and they will naturally think that this is what you should do.
Only if you value yourself, others will value you from the heart.
Only when a woman is over 40 years old and pays more attention to rest and health can she live more and more happily in her later life.
Aunt Li downstairs is middle-aged and looks radiant every day, smiling every time she says hello.
Unlike other aunts, Aunt Li seems to live a full and happy life every day.
Every night after dinner, Aunt Li is always the first to come to the square for square dance.
Aunt Li and Uncle Liu have been married for so many years. Aunt Li has always insisted on dancing square dance, and Uncle Liu naturally does housework at home after dinner.
It is precisely because she still has her own hobbies and life circles after entering middle age that she can live a full and happy life.
If you have a hobby that you can stick to, your husband will naturally help you with the chores at home.
I have my own hobbies, and naturally I will be happier.
Xiao Song often complains that she is a woman with bad karma.
After I got married, I gave up my old life and chose to stay at home and teach my children.
At first, my husband was very moved. After a long time, he only got the enjoyment that her husband deserved, and didn't pay attention to Xiao Song's dedication and sacrifice.
Xiao Song turned herself into a greasy middle-aged woman, staying at home and working every day, as if she had lost all "contact" with the outside world.
In fact, after middle age, such a woman can easily become transparent body in front of her husband, and her happiness will be planted in her own hands.
When women reach middle age, they should learn to love themselves more. Don't always think about paying for others. Only when she loves herself will others cherish you.
I met my favorite clothes and gritted my teeth to buy them. Dress yourself up a little more delicately and appreciate your beauty every day.
After all, when people reach middle age, women rely on their own ability and charm. Only by loving yourself can we radiate the charm of middle-aged women.
Don't just rely on Nuo Nuo to live for others, break the shackles of the soul and live for yourself, so that you can live a happy life.