What about being an older woman who doesn't know how to get along with her family?

To your own parents. I can not accept the most is also looked down upon by their own parents, you have to tell them their feelings, crying or not, if even they feel that as long as you marry you out, they have completed the task, you marry whoever it does not matter, you are happy or not, it does not matter, then this kind of parents are also too heartbreaking. To gain their sympathy by showing weakness, let them feel sorry for you. If you can't attack the father, start with the mother, after all, women know the most about women, and the father shouldn't have been in charge of his daughter's affairs too much, so let your mother convince her own old man. Then, it's about being good enough to your parents to show them that you have the ability to live on your own and live well, and that you don't have to find someone who pulls down your quality of life.