Hello, host! The Maple Wither team is happy to answer your questions! If you can really forget, then it means that you have not loved deeply and cannot forget, which is proof of the existence and depth of your love. Don't deliberately forget, don't be immersed in pain for a long time, just let everything take its course. You What we have to do is to wish him happiness, but also to make ourselves happy. Fate is not something we can decide... The most effective way to make one person forget another person is time~ The philosopher said: Time can dilute everything. Instead of forgetting, there is no way to completely forget, because there is a memory function inside our brains. Even if you can’t seem to remember something that happened in the past, it doesn’t mean that it has left your body, just because it has not happened again. Exposure to the same thing or the repercussions it had on you were not very strong, or even had no repercussions at all. For example, you would definitely not think of a stranger you passed by. In a word, if that person once caused a strong reaction in you (many things happened that are still fresh in your memory, he said many special words, etc.), it is impossible to completely forget. What you can do is to stay away from that environment and stay away. Everything related to him, and then wait for time to dilute those past memories, so that the frequency of their recurrence in the future is greatly reduced. Then, reduce the chance of being alone, go out to chat with friends, and participate in activities where you can interact and relieve stress. Group activities or games, travel, develop a hobby, such as fitness, dance, basketball, games, etc., to divert attention. Come on, be happy, tomorrow will be better! ······Dear poster, I am very happy to answer your questions. The following is my answer. I hope it can help you. There are some things. If some people deliberately choose to forget, it means that you don’t want to forget at all. In the final analysis of feelings, It's really your own business. There are too many touching love stories in the world. Maybe you are experiencing an enviable love now, but you must also learn to cherish it. The greatest happiness in life is to have a heart that loves you and cares about you all the time. Never forget that love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the more you will lose... Human life is very short, no matter what you encounter, Whatever we encounter, it is worth remembering, whether it is sad or painful, these are all written on the path of our growth. It only took ten minutes to fall in love with him, but it would take a lifetime to forget him, and the result is still unforgettable. Some people say that a man’s heart follows his feet, and wherever his feet go, his heart will follow, while a woman’s feet follow her heart, and her feet will follow her wherever her heart goes. This sentence makes sense. Forget your beloved. How long does one need to be? Many people say that time will dilute everything, but this is actually wrong. To forget someone, you must really want to forget. It is easy to forget, but it is very difficult to make up your mind. Some people will always be engraved in their memory. Even if they forget his voice, his smile, and his face, the feeling they have every time they think of him will never change. You want to forget, but you remember more clearly. It is easy to get to know someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget someone! If you can't forget, then don't forget, why should you force yourself. To love someone, you don’t necessarily have to own her. Put her in the warmest corner of your heart. Open your heart when you miss her... Sometimes missing someone is also a kind of happiness! Forget... a heartbreaking problem... Saying that you completely forget the past is lying to yourself and others, as long as there is Something that can be connected to the past will make it impossible for you to forget the past. Don't run away, there's no use regretting... Do you think so? Isn't there a saying that says that? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in a lifetime... This is love! Ha, forgot? That is impossible and unrealistic. Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy and make your life fulfilling so that you have no time to miss it. Don't forget deliberately. If you do so deliberately, it will only make you remember it more firmly.
Try to expand your circle of friends and get in touch with as many people as possible, maybe there is your right person among them. .When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as possible and treat him as an ordinary friend. .Try to discover your own hobbies and do things you like to play an empathic role. .Give yourself a bright smile every day and tell yourself "Tomorrow is another day." I believe that one day in the future, you will find that your heart no longer hurts when you think of him again. It turns out that before you know it, he has become "that person". Put aside all selfish thoughts. Cherish what you have now. Don’t text him all the time. Don’t look for him all the time. Maybe you just want to talk to him. You think that’s normal and it’s not too harsh. But maybe he doesn’t want to do that. Remember, your thoughts don’t represent his thoughts. You are. Do you really like him without asking for anything in return? Ask yourself, are you sure you don't want anything in return from him? Then why are you sad? If you really want nothing in return, how can you feel sad? So don't think it's great that you love him so much. Maybe She doesn't care at all how you pay for him. Sometimes the love you give him may be a burden. This burden will only make him want to stay away from you more because he doesn't want to owe you. Don't worry about everything for him. Support him. You feel that he can't do without you. You think others can't be as perfect as you, but you have to know that you are not the person they want. No matter how perfect you are, you can't compete with others. If they don't do it, the position is not yours. Why should you insist on pushing for it? Welcome to continue to ask if Please forgive me for any inaccuracies in my answer and I look forward to your acceptance