Everyone who got married in the first place was harboring ? The first time I saw this, I had to go to the hospital to get a doctor's appointment. The beautiful vision of the marriage hall, but a lot of things are not as expected, around us not only young people divorce, 60-year-olds divorce phenomenon occurs from time to time, the reason for this is mainly by the following two points.
First, many years of grudges to the point of intolerance
As the saying goes, young couples with the old man, it is reasonable to say that people to the age of 60 know the importance of old companions, know how to restrain their own personalities, temper, will not be easy to make the decision, so the 60-year-old man to make such a decision, are too deep grudges to the point of intolerance.
In our parents' generation, divorce is a very shameful thing, so even if the couple is not happy, but few people divorce. With the development of society and the change of people's mindset, divorce is no longer a shameful thing.
I live in the neighborhood, there is a pair of sixty-year-old couple, weekdays, the two mouths almost ignore, the old man is often also the old partner scolding. The old couple has a daughter married far away, last year, the old man was sick hospitalized, the daughter can not take care of the old man, so hired a 50-year-old nurse aunt in the hospital to take care of the old man.
From the beginning of the hospitalization of the old man, the old man has never been to the hospital to see a glance, and every day, as usual, to go to the square dance. Instead, the caregiver took good care of the old man, and every day, he took the shit, but also helped the old man to scrub his body, the old man held back more than thirty years of aggression all of a sudden broke out, and from that time on, he was determined to get a divorce.
The caregiver is also a bitter person, her husband died in a car accident when she was young, leaving a daughter with her, for the sake of the child she has been remarried. The two chatted after meeting the old man, who told her that he would come to her when he got divorced, and the caregiver amah agreed.
Some old couples are just like moncler outlet store the old man and his partner, without mutual concern, countless times each other friction, torment, countless times to hurt the heart, and finally each of them are disillusioned with each other, not willing to simmer together, the heart will ultimately be cooled through the day.
Second, the other side did break through the bottom line of the moral thing
Some people are addicted to gambling or sleazy life, do not care about the death of their families, causing their families to live in the abyss of despair, to the sixty-something years old, still I do, no remorse, this situation is mostly men.
Don't say that gambling, good sex is a young man will do things, carefully to find, it is not difficult to find around us will find such a? The old boy?
Gambling and cheating men let each other endure humiliation, not willing to let the other side of the pit as they wish to suffer their own, finally figured out to put down, complete each other is also complete their own, it would be better to put down the past, leave each other, and live a few days of easy and happy life.
This kind of marriage in the young is for the children and will be most of the life, and now the children have their own families, but also look forward to each other will one day conscience, or change, but get or despair, "nothing more than the heart of the death" to choose to separate.
All in all, the 60-year-old man chose to divorce after careful consideration of the decision, no matter what the reason, I think it is the right choice, regardless of age, marriage is a luxury, will not be able to.
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