What are the consequences of a woman being too strong? Nowadays, more and more women are strong in many ways. What are the consequences? Let me answer the consequences of being too strong for women. I hope everyone can understand together!
What are the consequences of a woman being too strong? 1
1, the relationship between husband and wife is difficult to maintain.
From the family point of view, women are strong, men will suffer, they will feel inferior, and family members are not very harmonious, so family affection will be diluted and families will be seriously divided. A strong woman will be self-righteous and will not accept criticism from her husband and others if she makes a mistake. When her husband makes a mistake, she talks endlessly, like a bitch. Men can't stand it, and family relations are not optimistic. A strong woman may be supercilious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may deteriorate, and the relationship between relatives may be bad. Finally, the six parents were at odds and isolated themselves.
2. It will lead to the failure of the husband's career.
Men need encouragement and support, and women need love and care. This is an eternal law and criterion. Gentle women know how to inspire men's fighting spirit, support and encourage men, and are willing to be a good wife and mother behind men, so as to maximize men's achievements, make men live with dignity, have a successful career and prosper their families. So the gap between men and wives in their careers is getting bigger and bigger.
3. Causes the husband to have no dignity.
In marriage, men are the protagonists for women, and women need to be the protagonists with men. When the two roles are exchanged, a man will feel that a woman is riding on his head in turn, so he will feel very undignified and humiliated. For example, a man and other colleagues are talking about the idea of buying a car. As a wife, you didn't support him, recognized him, and said something that made him lose face, such as "I don't even want to think about how low your salary is. It's really whimsical to want to buy a car." This will make a man lose face and think that he is a loser in your eyes. If he loses his dignity in front of you and your colleagues, then he has a thorn in his side.
People will force their husbands to cheat.
Strong women usually show a strong desire for control. No matter what happens, she will think that she is right, and there are always her reasons and reasons. Gradually, the husband will feel more and more like a bitch, while the wife will act more and more like a man, even acting arbitrarily, which makes him feel very disgraceful. In order to find back the image of his man and the inner essence of his man, he will find an obedient and lovely little woman as his partner. For example, if a woman yells at him all day and asks him to take care of the housework for a while, and she continues to work, he feels like a woman without dignity. When an innocent girl's woman appeared in front of him, she knew how to keep the house, so she would choose to live with mistress instead of going home.
5. It will have an impact on children.
If the mother is strong, the son in the family is usually timid. When I think about it, my father is bossing around all day, but my children are still disobedient. The consequences of doing something wrong can be imagined. Over time, the child's character will become timid, indecisive and at the mercy of others. Then there is the influence of a strong mother on her daughter. Usually the daughters of such families are overbearing and unreasonable. Because seeing my mother like this since childhood, she will gradually feel that women should be like this. Like mother, like daughter. When you grow up, it will be difficult to get along with someone or a husband, and it will be difficult for families to get along in harmony. A clever mother always gives her father a chance to let her children feel the existence of her father at any time, and respecting her husband is the best way to show patriarchy.
6, will lead to the breakdown of the family.
For those women with strong personalities, most marriages are not smooth, which is a disaster for their husbands or families. If a woman always hurts and attacks her husband's language, the hope in a man's heart will slowly go out and most of it will be suppressed forever. And those women who are strong-willed and competitive with their husbands will only be exhausted physically and mentally, and their families will be ruined. A man has been fighting for dignity all his life, and he needs a wife who gives him care, understanding and respect to live. Instead of looking for a woman as strong as a man to take away his man's rights day by day, forcing him to cheat because he can't stand this life. Therefore, a strong woman should get rid of this label and become a gentle woman through external and internal changes to save a happy marriage.
What are the consequences of a woman being too strong? First, women are too strong in marriage, which will make men want to escape.
From a secular point of view, if a man is too strong in marriage, it will seem normal to outsiders, as if it is natural for a man to be strong. Why does a woman become abnormal when she is strong?
In fact, it is nothing more than the influence of traditional culture, and that deep-rooted thought has been deeply imprinted in our bones. There is another more important reason. We always subconsciously think that men's masculinity in this world should exceed women's femininity. Once yin and yang are out of balance, it will destroy a certain balance between men and women.
Since men are masculine, their self-esteem is stronger. Once a woman is too strong in marriage, it will only stimulate men deeply, make men feel humiliated and can't help but want to escape from the current embarrassment.
If a man can't even find confidence in his family, relatively speaking, such a family will become a psychological burden, as if it were a terrible existence, and he will lead a very depressed life, which will make men suffer mental torture all the time, just like killing two tigers in one mountain, and the losers have to find another place to live!
Second, a woman who is too strong will make men lose their pride.
Let's give the simplest example! There are two tigers in a mountain. First of all, the two tigers are unwilling to give in, so there will be a fight. The winner either drives the other side away directly or makes the other side bow.
Men are like tigers. He had his own pride and pride, but under the oppression of long life, he will gradually lose his original pride and pride, and he will gradually get used to this kowtowing day. Over time, he will only feel inferior more and more, and he will lift his head more and more.
Just like in marriage, if a woman earns more money than a man and looks down on him, he will start criticizing him. After a long time, men will really get used to this kind of criticism and contempt, and then they will really acquiesce in reality, and then they will never give up fighting spirit and always walk on the road of self-doubt and inferiority. Even in front of friends, he will feel that he can't lift his head. As the pillar of a family, if a man doesn't even have a straight back, the final result will be either a woman's resistance or the family's precarious situation.
Third, women's strength will inspire men's arrogance.
When two tigers compete, there is bound to be injury, but in marriage, only * * * wins * * loses.
As an arrogant animal, because of his masculinity, men can't stand women stepping on their heads, nor can they stand women's strength and hegemony. Being oppressed will only lead to resistance, so that two people will struggle, bite and fight together. In this way, the family will only be malodorous and fragmented.
It feels like two volcanoes collide every day. It's strange that such a family can still live in harmony!
A good marriage always pays attention to the balance between yin and yang. Women should remember not to be too strong, otherwise it will only stimulate men's arrogance, and men should not deliberately oppress women, otherwise it will lead to a situation in which the yang flourishes and the yin declines, and it will also lead to family disharmony. A good marriage is when two people, Qi Xin, work together to create a better life. A good marriage is mutual satisfaction and achievement. It doesn't matter who is strong or weak, but family harmony is the key! Knowing how to quit the family "battlefield" is what wise people do. As the saying goes, there is no right or wrong in family affairs, only harmony!