In other words, no matter how many lovers or sexual partners a man has outside, his wife can't be abandoned.
Extended data
type
It is related to the psychological quality, marital status and social atmosphere of the subjects themselves. Common ones are:
1, nostalgia. The parties are dissatisfied with the real marriage, and then have an affair with an old lover, confidant or close friend.
2. Love is congenial. Husband and wife lack common language in the pursuit of ideals and interests in life. Or lack of emotional communication after marriage leads to extramarital affairs when they find another bosom friend.
3. seek comfort. Due to the separation of husband and wife or the indifference and abuse of one party to the other, the one who feels lonely, lost and humiliated seeks comfort and satisfaction from the opposite sex outside marriage, thus resulting in extramarital love.
4. Be grateful for the return. It is common for married women to confuse the boundaries between friendship and love in return for the help and salvation of the opposite sex.
5, worship type. The talent and charm of the opposite sex outside marriage changed from admiration to admiration, so an extramarital affair took place. More common in women.
6. Revenge type. When one spouse's love shifts, the other spouse associates with the opposite sex outside marriage in order to obtain temporary psychological balance or revenge each other, thus resulting in extramarital affairs.
7, gold worship type. One spouse has a strong desire for money or is dissatisfied with the family's economic conditions. He contacts rich people outside and has an affair to satisfy his material desires.
8. Find the subtype. Because the other spouse is infertile, infertile or influenced by the preference for sons over daughters, the husband and wife have children and have an affair with them in order to satisfy their desire to have children.
9, flower heart type (mostly reflected in men). Some people have money and status, but also have to "keep the red flag at home" and "float the colorful flag outside", and then engage in extramarital affairs.
Male reason
Reasons for men's extramarital affairs
1, like the new and hate the old. It is human nature to like the new and hate the old. Extramarital affairs are actually like dessert. In fact, many people are willing to taste it. There is an old saying in China: A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as a thief, and a thief is not as good as a thief. Love is far less exciting than passion. It is precisely because of this weakness of human nature that when a man lacks moral restraint, once he relaxes his requirements, he will step into the ranks of extramarital affairs.
2. vanity satisfaction. Some men think that having a lover is something to show off. "The red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside" has become an ideal life for some men to yearn for and induce extramarital affairs.
3. Married life is boring. Love in the world, however vigorous, is only "alive" in the end. If you can't understand this, men will be hit by the so-called "three-year pain" and "seven-year itch" spells. Similarly, the unchangeable marriage life will make those who are imprisoned in boredom and loneliness eager for change and adventure. This kind of man does not want to find what is missing in marriage by "cheating", but just wants to please the boring life and adjust the dull life.
4. Entertainment places are thriving. The prosperity of various business clubs, bathing places and other entertainment places has become a place for some men to relax and relieve their pressure. At first, it may be because of entertainment, but once you get used to the beauty like a cloud, it is easy to induce extramarital affairs over time.
5. The network is developing day by day. Nowadays, the Internet has become the carrier for some men to cheat. The most convenient thing is that as long as you see a post looking for a lover on the forum, some men who are unwilling to be lonely and have ulterior motives can leave QQ numbers one after another, expecting an "affair". In addition, any place under the guise of making friends in the same city, passionate chat rooms, etc., can become a space for some men to find excitement.
6. Marriage in name only. Some marriages that could have ended long ago were temporarily maintained because of the children's interests, reputation or the convenience of property division. In this case, there is no need to take care of and restrain cheating.
7. Discordant sex life. If some men are not satisfied in this respect, they will induce extramarital affairs.
8. Lack of morality. Some men think that extramarital affairs are just a common thing, lacking loyalty and commitment to marriage. It is precisely because of the lack of moral concepts that some men's sense of responsibility has become very weak, which has greatly induced these men's extramarital affairs.
9. A whim. Some men are more like children and curious about everything. If these men happen to meet a woman who throws herself at them, it is easy for these men to induce extramarital affairs out of curiosity.
References:
Baidu encyclopedia-extramarital affairs